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Jiao Jiao, a colleague's daughter, has a boyfriend who talks about "honey". He has no special skills, but he keeps saying "I love you".
As soon as I got up in the morning, my boyfriend's WeChat arrived: "I love you", three little red flowers. Jiao Jiao blew a kiss on the mobile phone screen and went to work happily.
By lunchtime, I finally finished all kinds of complicated affairs and was exhausted. It's the same message again, sweeping away the fatigue just now.
It's also worth looking forward to after work. The eye-catching air conditioner in the cinema is showing a beautiful youth love story. Contrary to the world of light and shadow, Jiao Jiao snuggled up in her boyfriend's arms happily.
Just when they broke up, her boyfriend said several times, "I love you."
"I love you" has almost become a boy's mantra.
Jiao Jiao's IQ plummeted, and she almost decided that her boyfriend was the one to wait for in this life. As a experienced person, her mother, my colleague, couldn't help worrying.
Because this boy doesn't seem to have paid anything to his daughter except saying "I love you". Especially when his daughter was ill, he just comforted her from a distance and encouraged her spiritually, instead of rushing to her side like other boys.
Jiao Jiao didn't listen to her mother's reminder, and soon they had their first intimate contact.
Later, boys will still say "I love you", but the frequency is slowly decreasing. Finally, at some stage, he disappeared from Jiao Jiao.
Crazy and unwilling ... Jiao Jiao insisted on finding a boyfriend and asked him to come back.
She was greeted by a cold busy tone.
The phrase "I love you" is so cheap that it hardly costs a penny.
Can a man who refuses to pay be reliable?
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Saying 10,000 "I love you" doesn't work at all, so what is the touchstone of "true love"?
Is the support without hesitation.
My friend May is a psychological counselor, and she is quite famous in this circle. In addition to giving psychological counseling to visitors, she also runs courses all over the country to supervise new consultants. The annual income is not much worse than that of senior managers.
However, just after graduating from college, Mei's life is not as moist as it is now. She majored in psychology, but her family's economic conditions are not good and she can't continue to study for him. She has a lively personality and doesn't like doing research at school. But her job search was not smooth, and she didn't find a job as an office clerk in a state-owned enterprise until graduation.
Administrative work is extremely boring, and Mei's major is abandoned. After working for two years, she decided to stop loss and submitted her resignation to the human resources department. She decided to return to her old job and set foot in the psychological counseling industry.
She hesitated to resign. She has been dating her boyfriend for six years and met their parents. The future parents-in-law attach great importance to her status as a worker of state-owned enterprises and think that she can take better care of her family in the future because of her leisure work.
Now, she quit this job with good cost performance. To become a qualified counselor, it is not as simple as getting a second-class psychological counselor certificate.
When he was most confused, his boyfriend dismissed his concerns. He firmly supports May's decision, and even if she is raised for a long time in the future, there will be no complaints. As for his parents, he will persuade them.
Boyfriend keeps his word. Amy's research and participation in various trainings cost a lot, and more than half of them are sponsored by her boyfriend. At that time, the two had lived together, and when they were busy, their boyfriends did housework.
Several times, my parents-in-law came over and saw their son busy in the house, showing displeasure on his face. However, they didn't have an attack after all, because their son insisted on being with this girl, and their opposition was invalid.
After years of hard work, "the daughter-in-law has finally become a woman." Mei is becoming more and more famous in the industry, and her music therapy has made many people come from thousands of miles away. Plus the lecture fee and supervision fee, her income has far exceeded her boyfriend's salary.
She will never leave her boyfriend with a low income. Because in her most difficult time, he was firmly by her side, helping her through the trough of life.
And her boyfriend loves her deeply. She doesn't expect her boyfriend to be rich or expensive, she just wants to be with someone who loves her.
Boyfriend's firm support is not calculated out of any interests, but the kind of unrequited love. Through his determined eyes, he can gain insight into that heart without any regrets.
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My other friend, A Ting, used to be a staunch unmarried person, but when she met this "cute and stupid" boyfriend, her inner stubbornness began to loosen.
Two years ago, A Ting and her family traveled in go to dali. Just beside the beautiful Erhai Lake, she had the impulse to open an inn here.
She knocked on the door from door to door, wondering how much it would cost to rent land and open a shop here. After doing some preliminary investigation, she had a showdown with her boyfriend who had not officially registered for marriage at that time: "Husband, I want to open an inn by the Erhai Lake in Dali."
"yes! Go ahead, what can I do for you? "
"I need more than 500 thousand, you see ..."
"Well, you give me some time."
After more than a month, my boyfriend handed him a passbook. When she learned that her boyfriend mortgaged the house and took out all the time and current deposits in order to raise money for her, A Ting was moved to tears: "Husband, why don't you write your name after the inn is built?"
Boyfriend waved his hand and said, "No!" I don't have lofty aspirations. I will give my full support to whatever you like to do. I don't want to wait until you are old to regret your hesitation when you were young. "
The boyfriend's words not only touched Ating, but also paid more respect.
At that time, the two were not married, and legally speaking, they were not husband and wife. If he runs away with the money, he has no place to judge.
But her boyfriend trusts her so much that there is no "bottom line". Where can I find such a good man under the sun? A year later, A Ting stepped into the marriage hall again. And this inn, which embodies true love, also stands by the Erhai Lake. After opening, business is booming.
Respect the girl and be willing to support her to realize her dream with actions. My boyfriend didn't say anything frank, but he was also very moved. In particular, the phrase "I don't want to wait until you are old, and regret is because I hesitated when I was young", it is estimated that any girl will burst into tears in an instant.
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I like this photo very much. An old couple in the photo, arm in arm to buy food. Perhaps for decades, they have been helping each other through the cold and summer, rain and snow.
Love when I was young, inseparable, hot and full of passion, I can't wait to see each other every minute. As for the sentence "I love you", I have been talking about it.
However, no matter how strong the love is, it will eventually return to dullness. This is not the end, but a new life, in another way, to interpret the true meaning of love.
Only when it is transformed into an inertia that is willing to pay, can such love be stable.
And to form this inertia, only constant effort. Boys, in particular, need to take practical actions to respect and care for girls and give them enough sense of security.
Close your eyes. When you open your eyes, the person who loves you is still around. Don't worry about how the universe evolves. As long as there is such companionship and dedication, there will not be too many shortcomings in life.
Say 10,000 "I love you", it is better to prove this sentence with practical actions.