Gender difference education
A few days ago, Zhengzhou No.18 Middle School tried out the new school rules and introduced the selection criteria for masculine boys and xiuhui girls, which triggered a heated discussion on gender education from all walks of life. Should there be gender education in schools? The answer to this question is undoubtedly yes. Parents and teachers will gradually instill gender education in their children from kindergarten and even infants. For example, tell boys not to wear skirts, and girls can have long hair. It is understandable to guide children to correctly understand gender differences. But when it comes to the selection of masculine boys and Xiuhui girls in Zhengzhou No.18 Middle School, I have to say that this kind of gender education has changed a little. Strictly speaking, this is actually a gender-differentiated education.
Should there be such gender education? The answer to this question needs a question mark. American psychologists investigated the gender differences of more than 2000 children. The survey results show that the development of intelligence, physical strength and personality of boys and girls who are too masculine is generally one-sided, and their IQ and EQ are low. On the contrary, those gentle and meticulous boys and strong and brave girls are all-round in intelligence, physical strength and personality. As adults, men and women are more dominant in the modern society with fierce competition.
This survey is actually a theoretical basis for the trial of bisexual education in the United States. Androgyny education, which combines the advantages of both sexes, is becoming more and more popular and respected by more and more experts and scholars. In fact, queer theory, which arose in the West in 1990s, challenged the dichotomy between men and women. Queer theorist Judith? Butler believes that there is no legal gender identity, and what we understand as masculinity and femininity are actually manifestations of social constraints. Returning to the selection of masculine boys and xiuhui girls in Zhengzhou no.18 middle school, the author agrees with Li's point of view: masculine boys and xiuhui girls? Absolutely not? Education? Get out. As long as there is a suitable social environment and family environment, children's sunny personality and beautiful personality will naturally grow up.
Grade difference education
Students with good grades are the treasure in the eyes of teachers. This phenomenon is actually accompanied by everyone in our student days. When I was in primary school, junior high school or senior high school, students with good grades generally enjoyed some privileges in the class. Everyone is used to being called an excellent student by the red people around the teacher. Therefore, it is not uncommon to carry out differentiated education according to the quality of grades.
Last year's controversial green scarf incident was the naked result? Distinguish? A model of education. Labeling students with scarf colors and treating them differently is euphemistically called encouraging students to forge ahead. In fact, differentiated education is the fundamental reason behind children's healthy growth.
The road of education development is really a long way to go. Parents' education should not only avoid the over-catalytic education mode of eagle parents and tiger mothers, but also be cautious about the education of students kneeling. At the same time, more importantly, the way of differentiated education needs to be stopped urgently. At the moment of educational development, it is not enough to just eliminate the differences in educational hardware. In terms of software, how to teach correctly and how parents and teachers give their children a correct and healthy way of education are important topics that need constant discussion and supervision from all walks of life.
Supplementary note: The word "Disciple Begging on Kneeling" comes from a case of mother education. A mother in Wuhan is fascinated by Disciple Rules, which is a kind of primary school reading. She teaches her children to be filial to their parents and respect their parents and teachers first. Unexpectedly, children are afraid of losing face to their parents after making mistakes at school. He knelt on the terrace of the teaching building for more than 20 minutes in the rain to show his self-punishment. The headmaster and the class teacher advised him to get up for a long time. As a result, the disciple rules of this middle school finally evolved into disciples kneeling on the ground.