Campus is the first step for children to enter the society. When the society pays more and more attention to campus violence, it is often easy to ignore the "cold violence" on campus, especially for sensible children. When they suffer from "cold violence" on campus, they usually endure it silently. Parents don't ask or tell their parents. When the parents find out for themselves, it is likely that things have become serious.
Xiao Anjia has a lovely five-year-old son. His family loves him very much, and the baby has always been very polite. Everyone loves everyone. In order to let the children have a good school, the family specially bought a school district to let their son go to high-end kindergarten, but Xiao 'an's economic conditions are above average.
Recently, Xiao An found that his son has been unhappy since he went to kindergarten. He thought it was normal for him to be older, but one day his son came home crying and said he didn't want to go to school, which frightened Xiao An. In the evening, Xiao An patiently comforted his son and learned that the child had suffered from "cold violence" on campus in a chat with everything.
Because it is a high-end kindergarten with many rich children, Xiao An ignores the comparison between children. Because of the high tuition fees and the rapid growth of children, Xiao An never bought any brand-name stationery and clothes for her children. Instead, she was laughed at by other children in kindergarten and didn't play with her son.
I expected my son to start well, but this high-end kindergarten has a fast learning progress and many courses. Other children have tutors at home, but my son has no foundation. Gradually, the teacher seldom asked him to answer questions in class, and the students laughed at him even more.
Xiao An was heartbroken, and finally she and her husband decided to go back to their original home and go to school according to the community plan, so that her son could have a happy childhood.
1. "Teachers' Neglect"
The child is surrounded by several people at home. In kindergarten, teachers may not take care of every child, so there will be a gap in children's hearts. When children are playing games, teachers may be attracted by lively, cheerful and positive interaction, and children will feel unbalanced.
2. Laughter of classmates
Naughty children will call others nicknames. In a variety show, Huo Siyan's son said that he was nicknamed "belly button" in kindergarten. Huo Siyan surprised to open his eyes and said he didn't know about it. The host asked uh-huh, and when he was in the mood, uh-huh said, "I am very sad and angry."
Be isolated and left out
Nowadays, most children grow up in honeypots and are selfish. Such children are generally not accepted by most children and will be left out in the cold, while children are younger and will not reflect on their own problems, so parents should reflect on whether their education needs to be corrected.
violence
When children are impatient to communicate with their parents at home, like to throw things, and are annoyed by the friendly contact of others, some children will swear, so parents should pay attention to whether they have suffered from "cold violence" and learned bad things on campus.
unhappy
Some children, such as Xiao An's son, are very happy when they are not in kindergarten. After attending kindergarten, his temperament changed greatly. Parents should patiently communicate with their children whether they encounter unhappy things at school.
obey
When you ask your children, they are very obedient and do whatever they want. Parents can be complacent about having a good baby. It is not necessarily a good thing for children to be sensible. Such children have no opinions and are easily discovered by "cold violence" on campus.
Tired of learning
When children are bored with school, parents should pay attention to whether their children are neglected because teachers don't pay attention to them often. Parents should resolve the misunderstanding between children and teachers in time, and if they encounter bad teachers, they can find them in time and make preparations.
When a child leaves his parents, it is equivalent to stepping into society. Parents should find out the problems their children encounter in time and help them cope with the "cold violence" on campus. Parents should also reflect on whether their education for their children is biased.
Today's topic: Did your child encounter "cold violence" on campus? How did you solve it? Welcome to leave a message in the comments section.