There is an old saying in China, "Look at the old at three, look at the old at seven". Now China society is gradually entering the commercial society. In such a rapidly developing era, how should we educate our children?
In daily life, parents often say, "I saw you throwing garbage on the road, why can't I?" "I see that you often cross the road even if the red light passes, why can't I walk at the red light?" At this time, adults inadvertently showed their children some bad things, which had a great impact on their own outlook on life, world outlook and values. Because there is something wrong with our policy of educating children.
1, parents must be good role models for their children. For example, when you want your child to read for half an hour every day, first of all, you should form a book that you read for half an hour every day. Even if you hate reading, you should stick to it and be a good example for your children.
2. Don't just focus on children's grades. Parents in China are generally concerned about their children's scores and rankings. In order to make children concentrate on their studies, they take care of everything they can, thus killing their hands-on ability and hindering their right to explore nature.
Don't spoil your children too much. Nowadays, most families are children, and China's separated parents are really worthy of the name. Grandparents always meet all the requirements of children unconditionally (even if this requirement is excessive), so excessive love will make children form self-centered ideas.
4. Encourage and praise children at the right time. When the child is hesitant to do something he is not sure about, the mother may wish to say to him sincerely, "I believe you can do it." Timely encouragement will multiply children's confidence.
5. Let children gain confidence from success. The way to cultivate children's self-confidence is to let them have successful experiences, because too many failed experiences often make children doubt their abilities. At this time, parents need to affirm their children's efforts and encourage them to continue to explore.