The woman's parents disagree with this strategy. I believe many people pursue a happy and sweet marriage, but not all marriages can be blessed by their parents. If many parents do not agree with the wrong family, then the woman's parents do not agree with us. What strategy should be used? The following is the relevant information I have compiled for your reference.
The woman's parents disagreed with the introduction 1 1. First of all, you should know for yourself or ask your girlfriend why her parents don't agree. Only by finding out the reason can we come up with a solution.
2. Bad work is unstable! Then you can find a stable job as soon as possible.
If it is because you have no money, you should try to show them your ability. You have the ability to give their daughter a good life. If it is because there is no house, you can tell them that there is a house in your hometown, and you can promise how long you can buy a house in the city, rent a house temporarily, and buy a house soon.
You should show them that you really love their daughter. You often go to the woman's house, help her mother with housework and buy her some gifts. If there are grandparents at home, try to get rid of them first. Although it is modern, it is sometimes the older generation. Still very useful. Let them think that you are a filial, family-oriented and well-behaved man.
If she is in a different place, her parents don't want her to marry far away. If you really love her and can't let go of this relationship, you can settle down in their city first. After marriage, it is a foregone conclusion, and everything is easy to say.
Second, a few tricks to get the future parents-in-law.
1, a little kindness.
There is a saying, eat someone else's soft mouth and hold someone else's soft hand. This future mother-in-law is not an outsider, but it is better to send more gifts that her old man is satisfied with before getting married, and then discuss naked marriage. Of course, giving gifts with weight, cheap and tasteless gifts is equal to giving them away for nothing, and it will also bring bad influence of disrespect to the other party. Go out on business, bring more middle-aged and old-aged specialties from other places. Every time I go to my mother-in-law's house, it's best not to go home empty-handed, and buy some nutrients such as melatonin, or coconut island deer turtle wine that my father-in-law likes to drink. This will let your future parents-in-law know that you are a sensible child. Even if you get married, they will have a knot in one's heart about money, but if you think about your usual good, you are embarrassed to refuse.
2. Sweet talk and sweet talk
Women love flattery, especially elderly women, especially menopausal mothers-in-law. If you put in a good word in front of her once in a while, praise her new hairstyle and her good workmanship, alas, they are so happy. Don't stand in front of your future mother-in-law like a log. Anyway, you have nothing to talk about, so just pick the topic your mother-in-law likes to talk about and say something nice. Constellation men who do business have the most experience in this field, and have the opportunity to ask them how to make the atmosphere more harmonious. I haven't seen those in the service industry, and their technology is not as good as others. They can make a lot of money by smiling at customers and telling them more beautiful things. The same is true of the experienced mother-in-law.
3. Do housework often.
I don't know how to say it if I can't laugh. When you say that you are truly honest, you must be honest and show your killer at the critical moment. This trick: do housework diligently, and you will look at your mother-in-law with new eyes. Every time I finish eating at my mother-in-law's house, I feel thirsty for water and want to take over the job of washing dishes and mopping the floor. Don't be afraid to embarrass yourself, you have to cheer for yourself: marry a beautiful wife and let others envy you, haha, isn't it more motivated? An industrious person is popular everywhere, what's more, now that she entrusts her daughter to such an industrious person, Jiao Jiao finally finds someone who loves her, and her mother-in-law is just laughing.
4. promise to confess.
Young people who get married naked need courage, but what needs courage more than this is the older generation who have seen the ups and downs of life and experienced the life of daily necessities. Let them marry their hard-trained baby daughter to such a young man who has nothing but loyalty. They are probably not at peace either. At this time, you should show your manly courage and sincerity. Don't pretend to be a big girl in the bridal chamber. You should tell them confidently that when her daughter marries you, you will love her and take care of her for life. Although you can't give her good material conditions now, you have the confidence and ability to create better material conditions for her. Originally, she didn't really want to marry her daughter to you, but was moved by your sincere commitment. Well, then she reluctantly agreed. The mother-in-law in Naked Marriage was moved by her son-in-law Liu Yiyang, which led to the story of naked marriage later.
The woman's parents don't agree with Raiders 2 How to prepare for meeting the woman's parents for the first time?
I. Gifts prepared
Yes, it must be a gift. You can consult your girlfriend in advance. Her parents' hobbies, such as her father's love of smoking and drinking, are harmful to your health, and her girlfriend hates it. But in China, it is a kind of etiquette. A cigarette and a sip of wine can open many topics, so if you like alcohol and tobacco for the first time, you can buy some according to your ability. My daughter is my father's lover. You're going to take his lover. Soft first, then hard.
Second, the performance of self-cultivation
When you go to the woman's house, you find that not only her parents are at home, but also her sister, brother, sister, brother, seven aunts and eight aunts are here. Have you never seen such a big scene? But you need to calm down. No matter what questions they ask you, you need to be modest and polite. Don't be angry.
Third, politeness habits.
When you go to the woman's house, even if you don't smoke or drink, you should send cigarettes when you enter the door. Don't drink while eating, but you need to tap your lips to show respect. Remember the table culture. Men pour wine and women pour tea. After pouring the tea, the teapot mouth faces itself. Know clearly the seats of guests and hosts. If you are wrong, you are finished.
Fourth, sense motive.
Whenever everyone is full of food and drink, seven aunts and eight aunts start to bombard you in turn, all kinds of questions, how much is a month's salary? How many brothers and sisters are there in the family? Are your parents alive? When you encounter these problems, what you need most is to judge whether the other person is simply making things difficult for you or really want to know. Give a targeted answer, don't just cater to it. Because they have some problems and traps. Mainly depends on your performance.