The premise of getting married is whether I choose the right person. After all, the person I choose must accompany me for a long time. If you choose the wrong person, you are likely to add distress to yourself in the later days. Some friends don't think so. In their eyes, houses, vehicles and savings are all important, because even if you choose the wrong person, this hardware configuration can fill you up more or less. If they have this idea, explain a few problems. First of all, they are not sure whether they know their own people. Second, they already hate their future. Otherwise, why prepare for the worst? Instead of doing that, it is better for two people to have more contact and see if it is true. To put it bluntly, as long as all of us are not lazy, we will live our own happiness. Of course, if you always keep up with all kinds of ostentatious people around you, you may never feel that your life is beautiful, but you will feel that you are not as good as others. This view really deviates from the practical significance of life.
Then there is the second key criterion necessary for marriage, that is, what kind of happiness the so-called happiness will be from your own point of view. Many small partners have probably ignored this. When they first got married, they lived in full swing, but after a long time, because the days were dull, they would feel that their married life became more boring, and they would not understand what happiness was, but they would look at all kinds of friends around them.
What is life like after marriage? In a few simple words, it can be summarized that peace and health are blessings. Many friends don't understand the general meaning. You may think this view is a bit old-fashioned, but isn't life a day-to-day life? It is unlikely that there will be surprises every day. If you are touched every day, it may not be an unexpected surprise. Relatively speaking, a safe and healthy life for two people is the happiest day.