At the same time, the audience's discussion on these two roles is becoming increasingly fierce. A "girl" and a "woman" were well-fed and loved all the way, tortured all the way, and struggled out of the bitter days. Completely different lives have created two women with very conflicting personalities.
So what kind of women are more popular with men? Who is more suitable for being a wife with two different styles of women? They spoke their minds.
Brother Ye is 35 years old. He has been with his current girlfriend for ten years. From the eighth year, his girlfriend began to convey the message that he wanted to get married. To tell the truth, he was surprised.
Girlfriend is very beautiful, which is the type of "Zhang Chengcheng" in "Settle Down". She has a slim figure and fair skin. She speaks softly, even quarreling is like coquetry. Such a woman doesn't lack love and is in no hurry to get married, but as she grows older, Ye Ge also realizes that she is beginning to worry.
It's not that he hasn't thought about getting married, but he can't make up his mind. Girlfriends are good, but it's good to just fall in love. He is not sure whether he can grow old together after marriage.
Such a woman is really serious when she is serious, but the probability of cheating is many times greater than that of ordinary women. During the date, from her attitude towards "high net worth" men and her expectation for WeChat chat, Ge Ye can clearly feel that the other party can't stand men's hooking up. Such a woman is beautiful, but talking about life is really a bit unreliable. That's why he doesn't want to get married.
Indeed, some people are suitable for love, while others are suitable for marriage. Both "Zhang Chengcheng" in "An Jia" and Ye Ge's girlfriend are such people.
"Zhang Chengcheng" in "Settle Down" said that in the face of temptation, she resisted desperately, but finally failed. Even more threatening, he made a mistake that all men in the world would make, just a woman. After the divorce, her behavior is even more wonderful, making "Aunt Xu" a child's pick-up man. Such a woman is a burden that cannot be thrown away. She has no sense of responsibility, no bottom line, no self-control and no sense of shame. She is not fit to be a wife at all!
Ten years, it's time to end. Brother Ye wants to find a suitable opportunity to let go. He knew it was a hard battle, but he still wanted a divorce. His ideal wife is a woman with a "beautiful room" in "An Jia". She is positive, sunny and full of inexhaustible energy, which makes people feel practical.
In three years, for most couples, the passionate period has passed and gradually calmed down. But for Ge Yuan, no matter the past ten, twenty or thirty years, his love for his wife will never change. Coincidentally, Brother Yuan's wife is a woman with a beautiful room.
Ge Yuan's wife has lived in the countryside since childhood, and there are two younger brothers and two younger sisters at home. From an early age, the burden of taking care of her younger brothers and sisters fell on her. Her parents don't let her go to school, but she tries to find time to study reading with her neighbor's sister. When her younger brother and sister grew up, she went to the big city on the pretext of working, working and studying.
Coincidentally, the third job she came to find in a big city was real estate sales. It took her seven years to go from intern to manager. Although I have worked N times harder than others, the result is still good.
Brother Yuan met her when he bought a house. She repeatedly showed Brother Yuan the house. After several contacts, Brother Yuan was moved by this woman's spirit. Every time I see her, Brother Yuan is full of energy, as if he is not afraid of anything as long as there is this woman. Since he and his wife met, Ge Yuan's business has been growing. He is grateful to know his wife from the bottom of his heart. He thinks all his good fortune began after he met his wife! His wife is his "lucky star"!
In Ge Yuan's understanding, only such a woman is suitable for marriage. As for a woman like Zhang Chengcheng, she can only share happiness, but not pain. This is also the difference between a girlfriend and a wife.
No one will believe it. Brother Wu is 28 years old, but he has never been in love. It's not that he doesn't want to talk about it, nor that he is not good-looking. On the contrary, he is very popular with girls.
However, he was withdrawn from childhood and didn't know how to get along with others. Since school, he has been afraid of contact with girls, and he has not changed this problem until now. However, although he has never been in love, when faced with the question of who is more suitable to be a wife, he chose "the room is like a brocade" or "Zhang Chengcheng". He said that getting along with "the room is like a brocade" is more carefree and agile. Unlike Zhang Chengcheng, people have a feeling of being wrapped in unknown mucus, which is confusing and can't be thrown away. That sweetness makes people tired.
In particular, seeing the pictures of "Zhang" and "Aunt Xu" getting along in the first few episodes of "An Jia" made him unbearable. Faced with such a woman, he doesn't even want to try to fall in love, let alone get married and go home for a lifetime.
Perhaps in most men's minds, Alina Zhang's "Zhang Chengcheng" is more attractive, can arouse men's interest, and can make people itch! But men are also rational, especially in the face of marriage, we should also consider practical problems and future problems. Just like a woman hesitates when facing an "affordable man" and a "favorite male god", if a man wants to form a family with these two women, he will never make a hasty decision and will never easily choose a woman like Quentin! The more beautiful flowers are, the more dangerous they are.
Love needs passion, but marriage needs security and fitness! No matter men or women, no matter how old they are, everyone will be cautious in the face of such a big problem.