Lin Jie and her husband Ma Liang met in 12, when Lin Jie was 22 years old and Ma Liang was 25 years old. At that time, they didn't know they were working in the same company.
Once the company organized a picnic, put them in a group and participated in all the activities together, so we met. They had a good time that day and left each other contact information when they broke up.
Later, when she returned to the company, Ma Liang took the initiative to contact Lin Jie and came to see her in her department every day, bringing her a lot of delicious food. To outsiders, they are like old friends for many years without any strangeness.
For Lin Jie, a man suddenly appeared in her life. This man is not only mature and steady, but also cares about her and treats her well. This makes Lin Jie, who has just entered the workplace, feel a little better about him.
In the subsequent contact, Ma Liang also performed very well. When eating together, I rushed to pay the bill, took her home with an umbrella when it rained, and went shopping with my colleagues on weekends. I have always been willing to be a porter. Ma Liang is always eager to help Lin Jie when he meets any problems in his work.
Although Lin Jie is stupid, she also knows that Ma Liang likes her. It's just that no one has said anything.
2
On May Day, a friend of Ma Liang got married.
He asked Lin Jie if he could go with him, because most of his friends were married or had girlfriends. He doesn't want to be too embarrassed alone, so he hopes that Lin Jie can accompany him and pretend to be his girlfriend.
Lin Jie hesitated for a moment, pretending that she had never done anything to her girlfriend. She didn't know what she was hesitating about, but she still had some resistance in her heart. However, the thought that this was the first time Ma Liang asked her for help since they met, and she was embarrassed to refuse.
That day, when I first arrived at the scene, Ma Liang introduced Lin Jie to the groom and said, this is my girlfriend. How's it going? Isn't it beautiful? Then I took a look at the spring breeze. The groom gave him a punch. Come on, Ma Liang, your child is very lucky. Where can you find such a beautiful woman? You ... you were dragged to work before he finished.
Many people attended the wedding that day. Everyone is busy with the groom, and no one pays attention to Lin Jie. Ma Liang dragged Lin Jie to have a big meal and then came back.
One day soon, Ma Liang came to see Lin Jie as usual. She not only brought her favorite strawberry, but also hid a bunch of roses behind her.
Some passing colleagues saw it and cheered, wow, roses! Then, everyone joined in.
Ma Liang hurriedly took out the bouquet of roses from behind and handed it to Lin Jie. Actually, Lin Jie, I have always liked you, not pretending, but sincerely hope that you can be my girlfriend. I will be good to you all my life.
Everyone shouted "promise him, promise him" there, and Lin Jie's face turned red. A confession made it look like a proposal, and Lin Jie hesitated again. I think of the dribs and drabs that have happened between them since this time, and they flash in my mind like a movie.
Ma Liang reached there awkwardly. With the passage of time, Ma Liang's nervous forehead was sweating, thinking, it's over. It's a shame this time. Just when Ma Liang thought that Lin Jie would refuse him, Lin Jie nodded and agreed.
At that moment, Ma Liang happily picked up Lin Jie, turned 360 degrees several times, and applause rang out around him.
After they confirmed their relationship, they started working together, dating, watching movies and buying gifts for each other. Of course, occasionally, like other couples, they are in a bad mood, but they will make up after a day.
three
In this way, they talked for two years The next year, they moved in together. It was also in that year that Lin Jie found herself pregnant. I met my parents and got married when I thought it was appropriate.
It's just that this so-called "fit" can only be accepted by Ma Liang with ordinary family conditions. Therefore, in fact, Lin Jie's parents hesitated for a long time in getting married.
Ma Liang's family conditions are very poor, let alone buying a house. I'm afraid I can't afford the decoration money. But there's no way. The people my daughter identified, they know it's hard to change, and now they're pregnant again. They have to compromise, buy a house and decorate it, and they can do it themselves. The only condition is that Ma Liang must treat Lin Jie well for a lifetime.
Lin Jie still remembers that Ma Liang swore in front of her parents that she would be kind to her all her life, make her happy and never do anything wrong to her. It's just, now that I think about it, how ridiculous.
I thought that after marriage, a happy life would begin. Unexpectedly, I stepped into the besieged city and never recovered.
As the saying goes, marriage is the grave of love. One month after the wedding, Ma Liang was transferred to another city by the company, while Lin Jie continued to work after the marriage. Tuo also resigned and moved to his parents' house to have children.
After resigning, Lin Jie obviously felt a lot of pressure. I wake up every day with all kinds of expenses, mortgage, car loan, daily necessities, and all the pressure is on Ma Liang alone. He is busy every day, either meeting clients or working overtime. They can't say a few words a day, and they don't feel like they were in love at the beginning.
Lin Jie is also very considerate of Ma Liang. She always asks her neighbors for help when something happens at home. She never mentioned it to Ma Liang so as not to make him sad. However, the life of separation between the two places, less and less contact, makes Lin Jie feel uneasy. She began to wonder whether her husband was really busy or pretending to be busy. He is too busy to call her all day. She was pregnant, and Ma Liang didn't ask.
Finally, Lin Jie couldn't stand it. That day, she asked Ma Liang on the phone, what are you busy with every day, no matter my life or death.
And Ma Liang, like a lit firecracker, yelled at Lin Jie. What are you busy with? What else can I do? You stay at home all day instead of going to work. Of course you are not busy. As for me, in order to earn more money, I chase customers' butts every day and beg my grandfather to sue my grandmother for service. Sometimes I don't even have time to eat, and you call me all day to urge me. Do I have my own space?
However, Lin Jie doesn't believe that he is just busy with his work. With a woman's sixth sense, she thinks there must be something wrong with Ma Liang. They quarreled on the phone that time. At the end of the argument, Ma Liang dropped a sentence and hung up the phone. If you continue to importune like this, we will get a divorce.
At that time, Lin Jie had been pregnant for six months, touching her swollen belly, and she held back and never told Ma Liang about him and other women. In fact, my colleague in Maliang called her that day and said that Lin Jie should have guessed before the woman around Maliang. How can there be no women around Ma Liang?
four
When the due date arrived, Ma Liang resigned and came back to take care of Lin Jie in the next month.
It is said to take care of Lin Jie. However, besides helping with washing clothes and cooking, it is Lin Jie and her parents who take care of the children. Think about it. Before getting married, Ma Liang was very diligent in the Lins' family and liked by the Lins' parents. Now, the whole shopkeeper of cutting can't even look at Lin and say a few words to him. He poured out the door and ran into the room to play games.
Lin Jie told her mother that she would never have any more children in her life, and one month made her very depressed. Lin Jie has been taking medicine since giving birth to the baby. Then she took it for two months. She is full and doesn't want to eat any more. I feel that taking medicine can't solve the problem, so I can only put pressure on myself and force myself to persist.
After the completion of the second month, Lin Jie started the full-time nanny mode, taking care of the baby, washing clothes, cooking and cleaning. And Ma Liang found a job in this city with a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, barely making ends meet.
At first, I was fine. I went home on time and called at noon. But after a month, I stopped calling, went out to drink after work at night, and didn't come back until one or two o'clock for several days. Lin Jie takes care of the children at home alone. When she cries, no one cares, and so does Ma Liang.
Lin Jie finally got angry. Ma Liang worried that Lin Jie would be angry and went back to the milk. He immediately vowed to go home from work and never stay outside. However, I changed. Less than a month later, I began to go out to drink again, and I never told Lin Jie when I went out. When Lin Jie calls him, he never answers. Come back at one or two at first, and never come back again.
Lin Jie was disappointed, but when she looked at the baby and her parents over 500 years old, she put up with it again. Life went on like this, until last May, when Ma Liang jumped to another company as a manager, his salary doubled, but he and Lin Jie started different places again.
Shortly after the long-distance relationship, Ma Liang made the same mistake again, hooked up with other women, and even lived together without telling Lin Jie.
five
At the beginning of July last year, Lin Jie went to Maliang, and he avoided talking about it. At that time, Lin Jie didn't expect things to become as serious as living together, so she stayed for two days and went home.
Until last August, Lin Jie went to Maliang again. At that time, she wanted to make a surprise attack and seize the evidence of Ma Liang's infidelity, but it backfired.
That day, Lin Jie called a drip cart, and just got on the expressway, her tire was flat. She managed to repair the car, but I didn't expect the driver to know the way. They had to sail slowly and find their way. They walked around the expressway for a long time, got on and off the bus, got on it twice, and got off at expressway on the right. It took several roads to get to Ma Liang's residence.
It was past ten when I arrived at that time, but I still found a clue. Although Ma Liang's room was cleaned, Lin Jie found many women's clothes in his roommate's room. His roommate hasn't come back for more than a month. This information was given to Lin Jie by Ma Liang.
That day, Lin Jie showed his cards to him. Ma Liang knelt down and asked her forgiveness, saying that she was just playing with that woman and had no feelings. Lin Jie couldn't bear it any longer and gave him a slap in the face. An irresponsible person like you should die!
Ma Liang kept confessing to Lin Jie and begged her to give him another chance. Lin Jie said, well, I'll see how you explain it to her.
Then, Lin Jie saw a scene that made her laugh every time she remembered it: when Ma Liang broke up with that woman, they all cried.
Lin Jie has never seen him red-eye for himself. What about true love? When she knew, her first reaction was to end it with that woman.
Lin Jie never thought that she would encounter these things, and never thought that she could handle them calmly. She is a typical Virgo, with all the characteristics: cleanliness, obsessive-compulsive disorder and the pursuit of perfection. Whether you really don't care or care too much may not matter.
Lin Jie also knows that once a man cheats, there will be a second time. Cheating can be forgiven, and whether you want to believe him in the future is another matter.
six
Later, Ma Liang was honest for half a year and then "disappeared".
In the evening, Lin Jie called him several times. He either didn't answer it, or answered it and said he was playing a game, and then he had to take a shower and sleep. He is always like this, either talking about being busy, sleeping or playing games.
Slowly, Lin Jie stopped looking for him, not calling or texting.
He let Lin Jie know that a person who doesn't care about you won't know if you spend all your time with him. It's really annoying for a person who would rather play games and chat with others than answer his wife's phone.
Repeated tolerance and forgiveness only made him more unscrupulous in the end.
Those vows made when they were in love, saying that they would last forever, have now turned into slaps. At the beginning, he was young and frivolous, and one or two good words were either that he didn't get married or even turned against his parents. Now, the consequences of the last food.
Recalling the past, I burst into tears. How kind a person used to be to you, you will hate him now.
Repeated forgiveness and compromise will eventually punish herself. She doesn't want to live in Lacrimosa all day.
Finally, on May 1 this year, Lin Jie signed a divorce agreement.
From then on, the mountain is high and the road is far. You are you, I am me, and it has nothing to do with it.