Last week, the Social Investigation Center of China Youth Newspaper (wenjuan.com) conducted a survey on 1764 young people. It shows that 56.5% of the young people surveyed believe that the change of young people's marriage attitude will help them establish an independent concept of marriage, while 45.9% of the young people surveyed believe that their sense of family responsibility will be weakened. For a happy marriage, the young people interviewed believe that both sides should respect each other, have income and have their own social circle.
"Social governance, social order and mental outlook are all related to the family."
Wu Bo, a 25-year-old graduate student at Renmin University of China, has a good relationship with his girlfriend, but due to economic reasons, he doesn't intend to get married. He believes that this generation of young people are more independent, have their own principles and are more inclined to live for themselves.
"In the past, in my parents' marriage, I often found someone to form a small family and live together. Nowadays, more and more young people don't need to worry about their livelihood, their lives are rich and diverse, and they have higher requirements for marriage. " Guo (a pseudonym), a 23-year-old graduate student of China Renmin University, believes that young people have a healthy view of marriage, and if they really get married based on this view, their quality of life after marriage will be higher.
Zhou Xiaopeng, a senior national psychological counselor, analyzed that young people get married later than before, which is also related to people's life expectancy. In her opinion, there is nothing wrong. Moreover, when a person can choose the most suitable marriage in a mature and rational situation, it can bring more sense of stability to marriage and is also conducive to social stability and harmony.
In the survey, 56.5% of the young people surveyed believe that the change of young people's marriage attitude will help them establish an independent view of marriage, and 42.7% of the young people surveyed believe that this will improve the quality of marriage.
Tu Lili, a 27-year-old from Foshan, Guangdong, recently broke up with her boyfriend because of emotional discord. Many young people around her hold a negative attitude towards marriage. "I think this may reduce the future fertility rate, especially in first-tier cities. The cost of raising children is too high now. It is not easy to have children, and it is even more difficult to raise children. I don't have the courage to pay unconditionally for a child. "
Wu Bo believes that young people's attitude towards marriage will lead to the phenomenon of late marriage and late childbearing. "And parents' urging marriage will also increase family conflicts, and the contradictions between the two generations are not conducive to family harmony. "
Liao Ying (pseudonym), a 26-year-old teacher in a training school in Chengdu, is married and has children, and has a harmonious relationship with her husband. In her view, the reluctance of young people to get married may lead to more elderly people living alone in society than now, which will aggravate the aging of society.
Wang Xiaoyan (a pseudonym), a 27-year-old from Tangshan, Hebei Province, is about to marry his lover. She believes that getting married in a hurry is a more independent performance. But at the same time, she believes that the emotional support given by her family is irreplaceable.