A fifty-year-old woman

Zhao Jie is a 50-year-old single woman with excellent living conditions, a house and a car. Many people chased Zhao Jie, but Zhao Jie didn't answer or refuse. She didn't answer, because Zhao Jie was so picky that no one liked her. She refused because she was afraid that others would think she was too rude and no one would be too lonely.

In fact, Zhao Jie wants to find a young man in his thirties who can be hugged and pampered like a young man and a princess. But my best friend said she was naive and divorced from reality. Anyway, she thought, don't worry, wait and wait, maybe one day she will appear.

In fact, I don't think Zhao Jie is an "old cow eats young grass", and I appreciate her idea. People live a lifetime, why not pursue the life they want to like, why keep so many secular traditions, and not be afraid of being different for their own happiness.

Sister Ling Chia is 54 years old. She talked several times immediately after the divorce. I asked Sister Ling Chia, isn't divorce painful for you? How to forget? Sister Ling Chia sighed at first.

"The rest of my life is still very long. Despair is not a kind of torture? After so many hardships, I see through it now. Don't regret the heartache in the blink of an eye. Who will pity you then? " After a few words, I was speechless and felt a little confused.

Later, Sister Ling Chia and a middle school classmate came together, and when they got married, they gave a big banquet and got married in a high-profile way. At that time, I joked in front of her husband and said, "I wish you a happy wedding and an early birth." Sister Ling Chia also hammered me with her fist.

Later, after a long time, I saw Ling Chia's sister again, still dressed and angry with her. I chatted with her and asked her if she was happy now. Her answer surprised me. "It is not appropriate to break up." Very free and easy, but I was surprised that I couldn't close my chin.

I asked Sister Ling Chia, "Will you find someone else?" ? She said of course, the most suitable person may be somewhere now, waiting for her anxiously. At that time, I didn't feel sorry for her divorce, but I admired her free and easy.

A woman of fifty years old, with a clear and wise mind, is not confused or confused. They are by no means "knowing destiny" as some people imagine. They no longer succumb to the ups and downs of fate. They know better what their happiness is, so they dare to choose and give up.