There is still a sense of boundaries between people. Sometimes you really feel sorry for him and feel that you have to help him, but have you ever thought that some things should never be borrowed?
Like a house.
Even if the house is not their own, they feel they own it when they live there.
I wrote an article yesterday, which was very popular. Follow-up to "Forget 28 Years of Sex": Stop when you are ready, and don't be too greedy. "I wrote this article to accuse some people of greed. It is clearly someone else's house, but he wants to take it for himself and just want to take advantage of others. We can't be too nice to such people. You should resort to law and proper means to get what you deserve, and don't be occupied by him.
After writing this article, some readers told me something about their family. I was deeply moved by it and shared it with you.
I hope more people will understand a truth: "Your kindness should be sharp. Some things can never be borrowed. Lending it to others may really become someone else. Be careful yourself and don't be bullied by the people you help. "
The reader said one thing about their family:
"In 2000, my husband got a house in his company. We lived there for two years and my brother-in-law lived there for four years. We originally wanted to rent it out, but the neighbors saw no one, so they opened the middle wall and the two hospitals became one. We learned later. We thought their family of three was quite crowded, so we settled down. As a result, we moved on 20 14, and we contacted them. At first, it was good. It's time for you to sign yours and we'll sign ours. Later, it was different, and it was not recognized as ours. After all, God is fair. After many twists and turns, the house was returned to us, but our two families have completely broken up. "
Purity is a good thing. Although it took some trouble, at least I got my house back. But sometimes it doesn't go so well. Some people are too kind, but they are caught by others. It was obviously my own house, but it was beaten and never came back.
The story I want to write is a true story. I hope more people will take warning and not be kind.
There are many greedy people, so don't test human nature with money and houses. You think your relationship is very good, but human nature can't stand the test, and your kindness will bring you trouble.
02
Yuling never thought such a thing would happen to herself. Obviously, it was a good intention at first, but as a result, it was regarded as a donkey's liver and lungs, and it also caused a lot of trouble for itself.
Because of this, she was rejected by her in-laws "I told you, the house can't be borrowed. You felt sorry for her and borrowed a house. It's all right now. "
Yuling has unspeakable suffering. She can only say that the human heart is terrible. Such a weak and poor person often does the most vicious things. She only thinks about herself and never thinks about your situation.
Li Juan is Yuling's high school classmate, and their relationship has always been very good. Yuling later went to college in the city and still kept in touch with Li Juan. Later, both of them got married and had children, and the relationship has always been good. Li Juan's marriage is very unhappy. 12 divorced and lived alone with children.
She lives in the same town as Yuling. After the divorce, she took her daughter back to her old life in the town. They rented a house at first.
Later, when Li Juan learned that Yuling had her own house in the town, she discussed with her: "Can you sell me that house? I heard you bought it for 400 thousand. Can you sell it to me at the original price? " It's just that I don't have any money now. I'll give it to you in two years. This money will definitely be given to you. It's just our friendship. Don't worry. Mainly because I don't want to rent a house. Living with my daughter is hard, and my parents don't accept me. "
The house in the town was bought by Yuling for 400,000 yuan eight years ago. It's been empty since I bought it, and it hasn't been decorated. Yuling herself lives in the city, and this property has been idle for a long time. Yuling was going to sell her, thinking that her classmate was a divorced woman, which was quite pitiful, and then she kindly helped her.
But who knows, this group of people is the beginning of a nightmare for Yuling.
Li Juan borrowed the house from Yuling on 20 17, when the house price had risen to 500,000.
After seeing Yuling agree, Li Juan verbally promised to settle the house payment within two years, and then took the key to decorate the house, and moved in after the decoration. There was no down payment at that time. At the end of the year, Yuling asked her about the house money. At this time, Li Juan seemed to be a completely different person and said confidently, "I have no money, not a penny."
Yuling and her husband went several times. Yuling said, "I looked at you pitifully at first, and I agreed to let you live after two years of settlement." What's your situation now? I sold it to you at the original price. Where can I find such a cheap house? We have been related for so many years that we can't be so shameless. "
When Yuling said this, Li Juan 10-year-old daughter interrupted her: "Aunt, your family is so rich, even if the money is given to us, why should we give it to you?"
Li Juan also collapsed there on the ground: "You are bullying people and bullying me as a divorced woman."
Yuling was very angry. She had no choice but to resort to the law. At that time, she also consulted relevant lawyers. The lawyer said: As long as you still have the real estate license, you can appeal and you won't suffer.
Yuling later went to discuss with Li Juan: "If you really refuse to pay, you can only go to court."
Li Juan called her parents and brothers and joined forces to scold Yuling. Li Juan even threatened with a bottle of pesticide: "If you dare to sue me, I will die for you. You have cornered our mother and daughter. "
Li Juan's parents also quarreled: "Without justice, you are a cruel woman who tried to kill my daughter. It's unfortunate that she is divorced. "
Yuling was so angry that she was scared by the appearance and began to cry on the spot.
How is this matter solved? Yuling finally sued her to the court, and then Li Juan took a pesticide bottle to the door of Yuling's residential area and vowed that several buildings would kill me.
After a series of operations, Yuling finally gave in. Her husband said that being friends with such a woman is a curse and will only disturb her family. Finally, after consultation, Li Juan only spent 270,000 yuan to get a house with a market price of 500,000 yuan.
Yuling's intestines are regretful, but she really doesn't want to entangle with it and sells it at a loss.
03
That's how some people become hooligans. They always threaten you with death. In fact, if you are stronger, he won't dare to do anything to you. The thing about Yuling's family is that she is too kind. You shouldn't have lent your house to your classmates verbally in the first place. You pity her for her convenience, but people are calculating that you want to take advantage of you.
Not everyone deserves your pity, and people are unpredictable. Even though your relationship used to be very good, after so many things, some people became hooligans.
Is it pitiful for a divorced woman to live alone with her daughter? But pity can't be her reason to hurt others. Why do others have to pay for your actions and bully someone who has helped you? How can you stand it? Such a person's own character is rotten, and it is evil in human nature to harm the interests of the benefactor for his own benefit.
She just bullies you in a rogue way, thinking that you dare not do anything to her. For such a person, you should completely tear your face and turn your face.
Why did you sell her a house worth 500 thousand at a loss, and she caused you so much trouble? If I, even if I don't sell the house, I can't give it to her. If we find a legal solution, I still don't believe it. You can say that this house is yours without real estate license and certificate.
Her difficulties are her business, not yours, nor are you forcing her to death, but she is forcing herself to death with extreme behavior.
In fact, I sympathize with Li Juan's daughter. At a young age, only ten years old, you can say that sentence: "Aunt, your family is so rich, why do you still want this money from us?"
Being a person with her mother, she has been influenced by her mother since childhood, and it is also worrying to go to society in the future.
Some people don't deserve our sympathy. Don't be too kind. Your kindness should be sharp, and you must know that some things are absolutely not to be borrowed. Just one of your classmates, even a relative, can't be careless about money and houses.
"Anyway, your house is empty, you can lend it to me."
"Stop early, even if I don't sell the house, I won't lend it to you. If you want to live, you can buy it and go through formal channels. "
People are good at being bullied, so we should weigh them in our hearts.
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