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Many people say that a big obstacle for people to get married now is the problem of buying a house. This problem has been solved, and the road ahead is basically smooth. But in fact, this is not entirely the case. There are also many young couples who quarrel or even divorce because of the decoration.
Liu Jia is 27 years old and has just been married for more than three months. Originally, her life with her husband was quite happy, but the other day they had a big fight and almost divorced. The cause and process of the incident is this: Liu Jia and her husband had been in love for more than a year before they got married. Liu Jia's family condition is average, while Liu Jia's husband's family condition is slightly better. Their house was bought by Liu Jia's mother-in-law.
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Because I bought an auction house at that time, I didn't accept the house until Liu Jia married her husband. Liu Jia and her husband were very happy when they got the key. Liu Jia felt that he finally had his own home, and he felt very practical.
When Liu Jia and her husband held their wedding, they actually received many gifts. Liu Jia's husband thinks that the house should be decorated with them, but Liu Jia thinks that the money should be kept by his small family, otherwise it will not be practical in the future.
Liu Jia thinks that the house was bought by her mother-in-law, and the decoration money should be paid by her mother-in-law. Liu Jia's husband didn't want to, but after all, he just got married. He didn't want to quarrel with Liu Jia because of this, so he persuaded his mother to pay for the decoration.
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Liu Jia's mother-in-law didn't say anything, so she agreed to her son's request. She also said that the two young people were busy at work and she would pay more attention to the decoration. Originally, Liu Jia felt quite happy, but she didn't wait a few days to be happy. When she went to see the progress of the renovation, she found that she didn't like the style of the house at all. She told her husband that she wanted to refit it, but he said it was her mother's favorite style.
Liu Jia was very unhappy to hear her husband say this. She said to her husband, "Why should the wedding room be decorated in your mother's favorite style?" This sentence shocked her husband, and he was very angry, because she felt that her mother had contributed money, and Liu Jia not only didn't thank her, but also said these complaints, which really made him hard to understand.
So, Liu Jia's husband replied angrily: "Because of my mother's money!" When Liu Jia's husband finished this sentence, Liu Jia stopped talking and left angrily.
Liu Jia talked about this with friends around him, and many friends advised Liu Jia not to get angry, not to affect the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and to hurt her mother-in-law's heart. Do you think Liu Jia did something wrong?
(the picture comes from the internet, and the picture has nothing to do with it.