Is it necessary to chase girls who send WeChat if they don't return?

Is it necessary to chase girls who send WeChat? 1 First, does it imply that girls who don't return to WeChat are giving up saying something very heartfelt: the situation that girls are interested in you but don't return to your WeChat is almost non-existent. Of course, there are also girls who are not interested in you, but are very enthusiastic about your reply. In this case, either she is very enthusiastic and tends to cultivate you into a male best friend, or she wants to do something with you or borrow money from you. "Girls don't reply to WeChat" is actually sending you a signal: chatting with you is really boring, and I think what I have is more interesting than replying to you. Therefore, if you continue to use chat to constantly brush your sense of existence and harass each other, then girls' enthusiastic feedback to you will only get lower and lower. Some even say that when a girl hates you to the extreme and doesn't want to have too much language contact with you, she won't reply at all, and then she will be blacked out. Therefore, girls who don't return to WeChat are suggesting that you give up, and they are not shy at all. In the relationship between young men and women, I found that most young boys have such an emotional misunderstanding: "I think good girls come from chatting, and I believe unilaterally that as long as I am humorous and gentle enough, I will be moved by chatting one day." But the result is: from the beginning of your chat, girls can vaguely feel that "this boy who is chatting with me seems to want to chase me." So I clicked on your circle of friends and glanced at your photos and developments. At this time, your initial image score in the hearts of girls has been determined. In other words, whether a girl wants to develop you into a prospective boyfriend, a prospective friend or a prospective stranger, in fact, she already knows. If your circle of friends is visible for three days and not updated for a long time, then girls will inevitably feel that "you are so insincere when you pursue her actively." When she doesn't know you, she will naturally put you on the list of "friends or strangers". So, when a girl realizes that a boy likes herself, what does she turn to your circle of friends for? In fact, it's not just your face value, but more about whether your "personal value" meets the minimum standards for her mate selection. So, a girl doesn't like returning your messages, but she already knows that "you like her". She is indifferent because you haven't reached the passing line of her mate selection. I want you to recognize the reality and retreat before it is too late. The girl who "doesn't like to reply to your news" is actually telling you that "your comprehensive value has not reached the desired standard, and it is useless to do it again." Such a girl is at least kind. She doesn't want to train you as a spare tire, let alone hang you and treat you as a licking dog. So stop chatting in your self-righteous way. In the face of some boys' emotional counseling, I often say this sentence: "When a girl has low feedback on your chat, then you should know how to freeze the relationship in time and stop chatting." At the same time, this does not mean that you have to sit still, but learn to export value implicitly and create attraction. "So, don't take chatting as the only means for you to pursue girls, but attract girls through the positive display of personal values, and her feedback on your chat will be improved accordingly. I found that most boys are indifferent to girls not because of their low personal value, but because they obviously have many value-added items of personal value and don't know how to express themselves, so that girls will acquiesce that you are a boring and lifeless person and she will feel indifferent to you. So how do boys tap their personal values? I summarize it as the following four echelons: the first echelon: life, habits and interests; The second echelon: growth, three views and feelings; The fourth echelon: personality, aesthetics and career; These echelons have a progressive relationship from shallow to deep. We might as well start from these links. Chatting with girls is not only a process of chatting, but also a hidden value display. Second, can girls continue to chase after not returning to WeChat? It is ok to answer you truthfully. It depends on how much personal value you show and how much you can attract her. First try to freeze the relationship of 1~3 days to reduce the resistance of girls to you. During this time, what you have to do is: fully understand this girl's interests, life and habits, and pave the way for the next "first echelon" chat. For example, through understanding, this girl is a person who loves life very much and advocates freedom, so your next opening remarks can be "I recently cut the previous travel video into a vlog, please help me look at it and give me some suggestions ~" When you can arouse the interest of the girl, she will naturally ignite the desire and impulse to chat with you. You will find that you can't talk about what you like, and you won't fall into the whirlpool of "silence and embarrassment". When you and the girl have a general understanding of each other's lives, then you can gradually transition to the "second echelon" and communicate with her about growth, outlook and feelings. At this time, what you need to know is not the other person's experience, but to understand and observe "what is the most basic love needs of girls, and give timely feedback and pay" through repeated growth experiences, and her attitude towards you will naturally heat up rapidly. For example, this girl inadvertently said to you, "I always turn on the light when I sleep at night, otherwise I can't sleep." "What information does this reveal to you? During this period, girls have a strong demand for security and companionship. Therefore, if you can grasp this lack of emotional needs and make timely attention and compensation, girls' sense of dependence and trust in you will inevitably increase. Then let's talk about the "third and fourth echelon". If the chat in your is already very hot, and you have a general understanding of each other's life and growth, then if you want to transition to the "third-fourth echelon", then remember one thing at this time-don't stick to the online, send tentative invitations, and then create a window period. If a girl chats with you enthusiastically, but repeatedly perfunctory and refuses your invitation, then the relationship between your is likely to stop here. At the same time, if boys don't seize the opportunity to stabilize their relationship through meeting invitations in the early stage of ambiguity, then the final relationship will only move closer to the status of friends. Therefore, the content of the "three-four echelon" needs to meet to deepen mutual understanding, and it is forbidden to talk about it all online. When you destroy all your mystery and freshness, girls naturally don't want to know everything about you online. So have you figured it out? It's not that girls don't like to reply to messages, but that girls don't like to reply to your messages and are really not interested in your chat content. At the same time, you don't have enough personal value to support her desire to explore, and it is expected that you will be cold or even not reply. Do you want to keep talking? Keep talking, but learn to change strategies, output value and reverse the image. But we can't talk all the time, seize the ambiguous window period and actively create invitations to attract girls to a deeper level. When you can meet her basic expectations and needs for love, why is she not interested in you? Is it necessary to recover the girl who sent WeChat? You have nothing in common. She doesn't want to waste time on you. It must be very comfortable together. If one of you feels a little uncomfortable, then there may be a contradiction between you. Women will not be coy in the face of feelings, but will express their thoughts directly. There will always be awkward situations when chatting, which means that you have nothing in common, so she won't waste time on you. Because she doesn't like you, she won't reply to your message. If she likes to see her face alone, she will feel very happy, but if she doesn't like to feel close to someone, she will be annoyed. On WeChat, she didn't take the initiative to reply to your message. Maybe she has been busy, or maybe she deliberately doesn't want to get in touch with you. Because she doesn't like you, she doesn't want anything to do with you. This is the way women treat love. It means that she doesn't care at all and refuses to be close to you. If a woman wants to know you, she will definitely take the initiative to chat with you and walk into your world. But she didn't take the initiative to reply to your message, which only shows that she doesn't care about you at all, and she may not care about you at all. So I want to keep a certain distance from you, and even feel a little tired of you and refuse to be close to you, then you should stop pursuing her. A woman is willing to take the initiative to get along with you, which is clearly telling her that she likes you, but if she has been avoiding you, it is telling you that she doesn't like you by action. Sometimes, a woman has told you directly that she doesn't want to have anything to do with you, but she wants to break up with you decisively. If at this time, you are still stubborn and entangled, then it will definitely make her very tired of you. On wechat, women who don't take the initiative to reply to your chat message should stop chasing, because you can't catch it no matter how hard you chase it. Is it necessary to recover the girls on WeChat? 3 1. Stop all active actions immediately, don't take the initiative to contact, and let the relationship return to the relationship of ordinary friends. Women will become very uncomfortable, but in their minds, they will feel how they suddenly ignored her, and she will reflect. After all, women are used to it, and she will not give up easily, so the initiative will gradually change and become less passive. 2. Improve yourself. If you chase too hard, girls are a little resistant. You can relax properly During this time, you can change yourself: your image and life must change. In your circle of friends, you have shown a new image of loving reading, life, food and hard work. Suddenly reversed, it is easy for the other party to be attracted and take the initiative to contact. 3, contact again When the girl's resistance has been gradually eliminated, and I haven't contacted her for a long time, I don't think you are bothered to ask her out again. When one day, she is full of praise for your circle of friends, or comes to comment on your circle of friends, the time is ripe. You can talk to her privately and ask her out directly. 4. Don't contact each other frequently to be "lazy" to women. On the one hand, it can be explained that we are not too inseparable from each other, that is, we should not contact each other often. If men are too "diligent", they will send messages to women whenever they have time, either to be caring and attentive to women or to talk about some interesting things happening around them. Even if he has nothing to say, let himself send a message to the other party. 5. Don't be too attentive to women. Don't be too attentive to women. It means that men don't take the initiative to help women, even her relatives and friends. Paying too much attention to anything and being too hospitable will scare a woman and make her want to escape. Therefore, men should learn to be "lazy", and don't think that pursuing women means being attentive to her, behaving well in front of her and leaving her with the impression that she is willing to pay for her.