How to treat the mediation level of Liao Xiyu, the mediator in Jiangxi Satellite TV's gold medal mediation?

The memory of that woman is still fresh, and she feels like the aunt of the neighborhood Committee, but mediation is really grounded and close to the world. To put it bluntly, gold medal mediation is a real program. My friend went up. It turned out that she opened a shop next door to me. We have a good relationship. Later, because my husband's third family suffered a change, it didn't open. I also watched the program one night. It was later confirmed that it was really her. She said that because of the divorced children, she was so angry that the program was very realistic. Aunt Liao inside is very caring and devoted to a family.

In theory, mediation can't solve the problem, which means that gold medal mediation is just an entertainment program. Everyone mediates in the program, and when they get home, everything is taken care of by uncles, psychologists and counselors.

I remember watching Jiangxi Satellite TV's gold medal mediation because of family conflicts. It's really good and exciting. Hu Jianyun is like a real God every time. As soon as he appears, all problems will be solved. However, watching this program shows that many families have conflicts, and all happy families are the same. Unfortunately, every family has its own problems. Anyway, it's no use reading it, and it can't solve the problem of your own family.

After a few years of calm, family conflicts broke out again in 20 14. I want to convince others this time. So, I can't figure out why others won't accept my point of view. So after wondering about my sister, I went to seek psychological help. My third-level certificate of national psychological counselor is the result of studying psychology. The final conclusion is that everyone is a great god, that is, Master Huineng said that everyone has Buddha nature, but what Lao Tzu said was wrong. Everyone thinks that he is right. In other words, everyone in a family is himself and thinks he is right. In this case, there will be a tragedy in which Mars hits the earth, chickens fly and dogs jump, and chickens and dogs are restless. Because no one can convince anyone. In other words, family conflicts cannot be solved by a program. Because this is a problem with fixed ideas, unless some family members change their ideas, such as me, it doesn't matter now. And it is almost impossible for you to change a person's concept, and you can only grow up by yourself. For example, Liao Xiyu, an aunt, cannot be persuaded by Hu Jianyun. Do you believe Liao Xiyu can be persuaded? Just for show. Cooperation, we are doing a program! After recording the program, everyone broke up.

Self-growth, that is, changing ideas, is actually self-denial, that is, recognizing one's mistakes. This is too difficult. The role of a psychological counselor is only to comfort the spiritual person and help those who ask for help to achieve self-growth. There are various ways, methods and theories about how to help seekers grow up. One of the most famous is Freud's psychoanalytic theory. Secondly, ABC theory holds that concept is the most important key. Only by changing the concept that leads to mistakes can we change our emotional problems. Psychologists give you drugs directly to control your mental disorders. At 20 16, I suddenly understood and had an epiphany. Everything is quiet. Now 20 19 I understand that others will accept your point of view because he is a bodhisattva, and he won't accept your point of view because he is a great god.

But who can change their mind?

I am a big fan of "Gold Medal Mediation". Watch every issue and don't play for a day.