Are you sure that after marriage, the prince and princess can live happily ever after, just like the ending of fairy tales?
Have you ever wondered why the endings of fairy tales are fixed on the picture of marriage, and why the married life of the prince and princess is not presented? Because I dare not!
Fairy tales are beautiful, but marriage is not necessarily beautiful.
Sister Wei is my neighbor. At the age of 20, she stole the household registration book, married a boy and almost broke up with her family.
After several years of marriage, the boy's lack of progress and various family contradictions made Wei's sister very painful and regretted why she got married so early.
I asked her, since it was so painful, why did she marry him when she stole the household registration book?
Sister Wei said that they were all played on TV, and they would be very happy to get married. He said he would treat me well all his life, but after marriage, he would be more bitter and tired.
There is a lyric like this: you cried and told me that fairy tales are all lies.
Fairy tales don't lie to you, they just present the appearance of happiness and beauty, and hide all the unhappiness from you.
I met Wei's sister in the street the other day and learned that she had divorced. She looked haggard and at a loss. She said that she had no education and skills, and felt that she could not find her place in this city.
At the best age, because life is a bit bitter, it is a foolish decision to attach your life to another person without thinking clearly.
Taking marriage as the final destination, I am afraid there will be no place in the end.
Take marriage as a retreat. Once there is a problem in marriage, there is no retreat.
Tamia Liu and Kelly met for 20 days and entered the marriage hall. They spent 4 million yuan on a grand wedding in Beijing, and then Tamia Liu announced his retirement from the entertainment circle.
In less than a year, Kelly's business went bankrupt, suffering from depression, bad temper, throwing things and even hitting people.
Tamia Liu chose to help her husband with actions, dragging her husband to climb mountains to see the snow and worship Buddha. Slowly, Wang Ke got better. When Tamia Liu was pregnant.
On the day of Tamia Liu's delivery, Kelly suddenly fell into a coma, even foaming at the mouth, twitching limbs and incontinence. After many rescues, he saved his life.
Now, Kelly has started a small business. The two of them take their children out from time to time, and in the evening, they will pick up Tamia Liu from the crew. A family of four lives a sweet life.
With such popular TV series as Nirvana in Fire and Ode to Joy, Tamia Liu became popular again and became active on the screen.
Tamia Liu said: "Since you have chosen him, you can't give him up."
Isn't that what marriage is all about? Since you choose the other person, it means that you have to go on with the other person. Two people support each other, regardless of poverty, wealth, health and disease.
Tamia Liu saved her husband, relationship and the whole family by herself.
Independence, self-confidence and perseverance are the qualities of Tamia Liu. She never regarded marriage as a retreat, but as a beautiful pursuit.
Marriage has never been a woman's retreat, but a big ship in the same boat.
On this ship, we must make contributions to the ship's braving the wind and waves, enjoy the happiness of calm, and withstand the wind and rain.
To make the ship of marriage go more steadily and faster, we must first be a good helmsman. If you want to sail and see the scenery alone, don't blame the person who is struggling to paddle in front of you for his bad temper and poor skills.
Some people keep getting divorced and remarried, looking for a way out for themselves in different ways, just looking for a man to support themselves.
There will be no pie in the sky. If you want something for nothing, you will only lose more.
A woman's greatest retreat is always only two words: independence!
(Jane Baoyu's writing group punched in the next day)