In the past, when a girl got married, she had to listen to her mother-in-law, wait on her in-laws and live with them. In her husband's family, it is only natural that her mother-in-law keeps her word. Not as free as I was when I was single. When you get married, you are also a guest when you go back to your mother's house. You can stay at your mother's house for a few nights, but you can't stay forever. So the bride's house is no longer at home. Girls are much happier now than before. Now that the conditions are good, the concept of life has changed. After you get married, you can move out alone without living with your in-laws. So, it's not that girls now have no home when they grow up.
I once faced a dilemma. My husband's home is far away. I work at my parents' house. After I gave birth, I lived in my parents' house and in-laws' house. I'm completely uncomfortable at my husband's house. I am not familiar with the local dialect and the living environment there. I don't feel integrated in my husband's family at all, and I don't want to live there all the time. Later, when I went back to my parents' home, I found that my parents were no longer home. Afraid of the gossip around. I don't want to be controlled all the time.
Last year, I resolutely moved out. Although life outside has become much more difficult You have to pay the rent, utilities and miscellaneous expenses yourself. It's all about money. But the good mood that money can buy is also worth it. After moving out, my life is more motivated to struggle. Let the husband work hard to make money, and then take care of the baby himself. A family of three can be happy. When you start to be independent, you will encounter many difficulties. But everything you've worked hard for deserves your happiness. We grow up slowly, have a home and a bright future. We always have to get rid of our parents' infancy and face the world alone.
After renting for more than a year, I finally bought myself a suite. The process of buying a house is very difficult and has been considered for several years. It is said that women feel safe when they have a house. I gritted my teeth and bought a suite for my children and their home. Although the house price is not high, it is difficult for us to work only for a few years. In the past two years, we have also been saving money to buy a suite with a down payment loan. I was afraid that I didn't have a home at first, but now I'm trying to make myself have a home. The girl's sense of security is given by herself, and so is the girl's home. So you have to work hard, what you give yourself is the most worthwhile.