After working in Cambodia for several years, I met Alin, who was ill-fated in Cambodia, and Sokka, the so-called happiness.
Alin has dark skin and strong body. She is a maid who cooks for workers. Alin is smart and learns Chinese quickly, which is why I often play with her. She once had a handsome husband and a lovely daughter. The daughter died before she was 2 years old, and her husband continued to live. Alin is the oldest child in the family. Her mother counted on her to earn money to support her family, so she went out to work. Her mother asks her for money from time to time, so she doesn't want to see her family like debt collectors. She longs for a man to bring her happiness. Most China men who work in Cambodia do not live with their wives. In order to meet their physiological needs, they will find local girls as temporary wives, so poor Alin and Akun from China hit it off and became temporary couples. Kun bought a TV and clothes and took care of him like a wife. Unfortunately, it was not long before Kun was expelled from China. On the day Kun left, Alin hugged me and cried. She said: "Kun has satisfied my fantasy and all my wishes for men. No one has ever been so kind to me." I think during the time with Kun, she was undoubtedly happy, otherwise she wouldn't often say what she thinks of Kun.
Sokka is a girl who is only 18 years old. She is a tall girl. Compared with Alin, she seems to be luckier. She works hard to earn money so that her parents can buy more land in the countryside. Amin, who was with her, was unwilling to return to China for a long time because his wife had nothing to do at home. A few years later, Sokka and Amin have become justified couples and have a pair of children. For Sokka, she is willing to follow Amin, and she must be happy.
Back in China, I met a similar girl, A Ting, who came from a poor mountainous area in Guangxi. When I met her, she was already the mother of two children. The eldest daughter is in the first grade and the youngest son is in the fourth grade. This is a happy family, but it was destroyed by her gambling husband. She had no choice but to run away from home. She said that she met her husband who was nine years older than him at the age of 18, and they worked hard to make money. I bought a house in business, and I have daughters and sons one after another, and my life is getting better. My husband began to make no progress and became addicted to gambling. Finally, the house was gambled off. Repeated discouragement of quarrels is ineffective, and life can no longer go on. She had to run away from home to find a way out. She doesn't want to find another poor man. She wants to find a man who can give her a house, even if she is afraid of having a family. Not long after, she really found a man with good economic conditions through QQ chat. This man is fat, has a family, a son and wants a daughter. His wife doesn't agree to regeneration. A ting hit it off with this man. A Ting is pregnant, but she is pregnant with her son. This man is unwilling to give up. So Ating relied on this son in her belly to ask a man to try his best to buy her a house before her son was born. After the birth of her son, A Ting moved into a spacious and bright new home, and brought in a pair of children who were left unattended in her hometown. This man supports three children. Anyway, men have families. When they meet Ating occasionally, they get what they want. I think A Ting is quite satisfied, but I just don't know how long this satisfaction can last.
Every woman has her own different fantasies about men, and the degree of conformity between men's and women's fantasies probably determines women's happiness. So, is it true that men fantasize about women?