Many companies don't allow office romance between employees. The biggest reason is that office romance will eventually affect their work. However, as colleagues, women and men often get along with each other day after day, so it is easy to get to know each other deeply and know what kind of person they are. Coupled with the small care of men at ordinary times, women will fall into the mystery of love if they are not careful.
But it is precisely because as colleagues at work, although feelings are easy to cultivate, not everyone can finally have a good ending. Once the two people have conflicts, they finally break up and are not together. What should we do?
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My name is Xiaoying. I have been in this company for two years and get along well with my male and female colleagues. Everyone is an old friend, especially my male colleague Xiao Xia. Because of the nature of our work, we often work together and have more contact with each other than other colleagues.
Xiao Xia has a good personality. Often because I am a woman, I take care of my work very much, and our relationship is also very good. We often eat together, and sometimes we have fun together. Sometimes because of our good relationship, people in the company often make fun of whether we are together, but I had a boyfriend at that time and came to the company to pick me up several times, so everyone knows that I always say, "Don't you?
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But unexpectedly, I broke up with my boyfriend. I was in a particularly bad mood that day, so I called Xiao Xia on impulse and told her what happened. Listening to Xiao Xia's comfort on the phone, I know my heart is different. It wasn't long before Xiao Xia and I got together, but for the sake of work, we didn't choose to go public. We usually stay away from each other everywhere. Suddenly, outsiders think that our relationship is not so good, think that something has happened between us, and make fun of us every time, but such a thing is still uncomfortable after all.
When I was really with Xiao Xia, I gradually discovered that Xiao Xia in private was actually different from that in the company. In the company, Xiao Xia is a mature gentleman, who exudes the charm of men everywhere and has strong working ability. But privately, Xiao Xia is a little arrogant and narcissistic. He often disagrees with me because of some small things and doesn't apologize afterwards, so he thinks it's my fault. I didn't know that Xiao Xia's image in the company was fake, just for outsiders to see. I couldn't stand it anymore, and finally broke up because I didn't think it was appropriate.
But unexpectedly, after breaking up, there is no way to go back to the past. Because I know the true face of Xiao Xia, the cooperation at work is not as tacit as before. Plus two people have been together before, so I feel embarrassed just to think about it. Although it is not made public, I just feel that someone in the company knows.
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This kind of life makes me feel very tired and embarrassed. I don't want to go to work every day, and my condition is getting worse every day. As a result, I almost screwed up my work and was scolded by my boss. I finally resigned from the company.
I think it turns out that office romance is such a torture. If two people don't really love each other, it's hard to get to the end. It is estimated that most male and female colleagues, like me, will be embarrassed in the end and have to resign and leave. I think, after this, I will choose to have a good rest, then put all these things down and start a new life.