How terrible is a man who has been married twice?

A man who marries twice will have the shadow or scar of his last relationship more or less in his heart. As a second-married man, his current girlfriend will naturally think twice: he is divorced, there must be something bad, will this affect the development of the current relationship? What was his predecessor like? Is there anything ambiguous between them?

However, a man who has been divorced once is immune to this matter. Once divorced men get out of the pain of marriage failure, they throw the pain out of the cloud nine, but they are more determined to be free and comfortable inside.

I have a colleague named Lei Ge. Lei Ge is very nice, and everyone in the company likes him very much. He is a gentleman, optimistic, cheerful and knowledgeable. To what extent is he knowledgeable? When I was still reading China's classic books, he could read the original English without hindrance, which was awesome.

Besides, he has good skin. For such a person, it is hard to find someone who doesn't like him. Outsiders will always think he is perfect. But one thing I find strange is that every weekend, Lei Ge will stay in the staff dormitory and not go back, but he obviously has children and a wife, so won't he go back to accompany his wife and children?

He was in a bad mood and explained to me, "My wife is inspecting the post. This woman is really annoying! This woman is completely different after marriage and before marriage. She is suspicious and fierce. What the hell! " Only then did I know that he had a bad relationship with his wife, so he simply didn't go back on holiday, out of sight, out of mind.

In recent years, the children have been brought up by her alone, and Lei Ge rarely meets the children. The burden of this family is on her weak woman. The elder sister of the personnel department said to me, "People say that this woman is terrible in anger, but I think she is very pitiful. A husband who doesn't go home, a woman who relies on herself for everything, which woman will be in a good mood? "

If she comes home every day to see a warm smiling face, a man who shares her burden and a husband who really loves her, I believe most women will not become like this. The most selfish man is like this. He is always kind to others. In order to maintain a glorious image, he only rejects his wife in every way.

Marriage actually has an emotional interaction model. All the violence and bad emotions of one person may be aroused by another person. Outsiders generally think that violent people are bad people, while the real bad people may be the instigators.

How terrible it is for a man to get married twice is also reflected in all aspects of life.