Studying with Li Chun is purely accidental. My friend recommended me to take teacher Fan Fumin's group counseling class, and I went in a daze. When I went, I found that I was the only one among more than 60 students who had no psychological background. With curiosity, we studied together for two days. Coincidentally, I am in a group with Mr. Li Chun.
Next to me is teacher Li Chun. Her body is wonderfully combined with softness and rigidity. Her facial lines and eyes are soft, but her tall and straight posture and firm tone tell us that she is a well-trained professional woman with life experience for only two days, but I still remember that she likes to walk.
(The above words were written by Shuang 1 1 this morning. Everything is very complicated, so I won't write them for the time being, but I've been bored to say them. Sitting on the train to Panjin for a lecture today, I can calm down and finish this review without any burden. )
Happiness is a flower in the dust, not very thick, easy to read. This is not an ordinary psychological book, let alone a difficult psychological book. It is a short story of an ordinary person exploring his heart, and it is also a story of a group we are not familiar with-the oil man. But it's not because we wrote the group portrait of the oil man that we are far away from us, because in the final analysis, we are all talking about people. When we are all abstracted as "people", there is no restriction of social identity and status, and everyone has the characteristics of * * *. This book is actually to explore everyone's confusion through individual psychological pursuit.
Man is the strangest species. For animals, happiness means finding a sunny place to bask in the sun and tickle. It is human suffering to eat and wear warm clothes. Why am I alive? Where is the value of my life? Where can I find my own existence? Wait, philosophical propositions begin to jump out and torture your happiness. As a result, a sense of superiority peculiar to advanced animals turned into depression and pain. I'm afraid this is also the balance of nature, which makes you omnipotent and painful.
Mankind has found many ways to relieve pain, and psychotherapy is one of them. Teacher Li Chun tried to approach those miserable souls with narrative therapy, to help them find the source of pain and find a way out of confusion. Behind this is a heart of love and sympathy.
I have always been afraid to approach psychological counseling. I deliberately shielded the psychological and spiritual things, because I was afraid to walk into my own heart and even more afraid to walk into other people's hearts, so I chose to escape. This is also the reason why I admire psychological workers, including teacher Li Chun.
In the book, I saw the strength and weakness of a psychological worker. Strong because they dare to dance with so many imperfect souls, weak because they will feel helpless and powerless in the face of those imperfect souls Because no one can save others, some just save themselves. Counselors just use a pair of gentle hands to help you find your way bit by bit in the dark. Out of the dark, the one who walked into the dawn, put down her baggage and moved forward lightly. There are always some people who wander in the dark because their hearts are too thick and stubborn. I deeply felt the strength behind teacher Li Chun's gentleness, and also deeply felt the sigh that she could not lead success.
Therefore, this book is not only a psychological exploration, but also a tribute to all psychologists! Pay tribute to all the counselors working in love and mercy.