First of all, it is always perfunctory to give gifts to your boyfriend, and it is very imprecise to draw the conclusion that you don't love you. I will talk about it in detail below.
"Gift-giving" is essentially a difference in thinking between men and women.
Recently, Christmas Eve seems to have passed again, and Christmas will soon cross New Year's Eve. And now there is still more than a month away from the Spring Festival. As soon as the Spring Festival is over, the annual Valentine's Day will soon be celebrated. Gifts are given at almost every festival here. Strictly speaking, giving a gift is a simple matter, but what kind of gift to give, whether this gift is absent-minded or not, and whether it can be sent to girls' hearts is another matter. This depends on the boy's point of view in advance.
Boys may think that giving gifts, we may spend a long time together, and the old couple don't need to care too much. Try to give them or not, or simply have a meal. In addition, boys may be busy with all aspects of work by the end of the year. This is a lot of things. If two people almost get married, boys may feel pressure to buy a car or mortgage again, and getting married will cost a lot of money. At this time, boys will not have much motivation to choose gifts for girls.
Then change it to a girl's point of view, the information that the girl gets from the social circle and the circle of friends, what the girlfriend's boyfriend sent, and how much money, the girlfriend not only makes love in the circle of friends, but also tells the girl alone. There is also a colleague, small, not very good-looking, and his working ability is average. Her boyfriend also arranged a big surprise for him and gave him a gift on this holiday.
This kind of comparison and showing off in the circle of friends is unbearable for ordinary people, and there will definitely be psychological fluctuations, which will make people wonder why I didn't and why my boyfriend didn't give it to me. I also want a sense of ceremony. Where there is contrast, there is contrast. If there is contrast, it is easy to produce negative emotions. So I started telling my boyfriend directly or hinting at why you didn't give gifts for the holidays, so I perfunctory. Boys may have difficulties for boys. They have been arguing for a long time, and it is easy to rise to the topic of love and not love.
In fact, boys and girls have different views and ways of thinking in this matter.
Boys may think for a long time, but girls just want a little sense of ceremony. I believe that most girls don't have that strong vanity, and there is no need to ask for that expensive gift. In fact, what he wants more is to be paid attention to by his boyfriend, treated with heart, and the sense of ceremony of those two people.