Because in the face of marriage, emotion, mate selection and other issues, emotional experts are more professional.
Professional emotional experts can give you psychological counseling and some effective suggestions.
But if you can't find a real professional emotional expert, it's best not to pay IQ tax.
Because I am in this industry, I know the chaos in the marriage and love consulting industry.
With the continuous expansion of the emotional market of marriage and love in recent years, there is a big gap in emotional counselors.
If professionals can't fill the gap, there will be many non-professionals who are undocumented and inexperienced.
If you are looking for such an emotional expert, you are paying IQ tax.
It's true that this industry is chaotic, but you don't have to kill the whole industry with a stick.
Because there are still professional emotional experts,
Although it began to appear in the public's sight in recent years, these years are not new.
Marriage emotion and family counseling have always been a major direction in the field of psychological counseling.
Therefore, the reason why the field of emotional counseling has suddenly become "hot" is that people have the money and the heart to do emotional counseling.
Why do people have a higher demand for emotional counseling? Show you some data and you will understand.
The first is a set of data related to love. A report on women's love released by a reading group also shows that:
62.99% of the "post-95" love experience is zero;
48% of post-00 women have been in love for less than 1 week;
89% of the "post-00" women's shortest love ended within half a year. "
There are also some marriage-related data.
According to the data of the National Bureau of Statistics and the Civil Affairs Bureau,
According to the data released in the third quarter of 2065438+2009, the national divorce rate is as high as 43.53%, and the highest province is 70.56%.
The special report on divorce disputes in 20 18 years released by the Supreme People's Court shows that in 20 17 years:
77.5 1% couples applied to the court for dissolution of marriage due to emotional disharmony;
Other reasons for divorce are: domestic violence (14.86%), missing or not going home, bad habits, bigamy or extramarital affairs, etc.
2-7 years after marriage is the high incidence of marriage breakdown.
These data show the fragility of emotions, but people's demand for intimate relationships is strong.
There is a strong demand for intimacy, but intimacy is easily broken.
This is also the reason why the emotional counseling industry was born and developed so far.
So if you really have emotional problems that can't be solved, it doesn't matter to consult an emotional expert.
The question is whether you can find a real emotional major.