Many times refused to pursue, and finally became a monk. Why don't you want to be a queen?

The first is the disagreement between the three views. Judy thinks it's normal for the queen to remarry without her. Although Xu is the sister of Queen Xu, she also knows that the harem is sinister. She just wants to find someone who can play the piano and sing harmoniously with herself, not live alone. Therefore, this view of mate selection or three views is inconsistent, which leads Xu to think that it is better not to marry his brother-in-law.

The second is that the age gap is too big. Although he is a monarch, for Xu, he is just his brother-in-law who is 30 years apart from himself. This age gap was almost two generations in ancient times. This gap is not too big. This kind of estrangement may be an obstacle that Xu can't cross psychologically. Therefore, under Judy's repeated hints, he chose to become a monk. This choice made Judy very helpless.

The third is that Xu doesn't want to wait on his sister. Although my sister is gone, I can't accept this psychologically. If my brother-in-law and I become the queen together, then my sister is the former queen. This may be what Xu said she didn't want to see. After all, Xu didn't have a crush on his brother-in-law. Although my brother-in-law is already the king of a country at this time, the status of this monarch was taken away from Wen Jian, and Xu Jiayi supported Wen Jian at first.

In order not to marry her brother-in-law, Xu chose to become a monk. This practice also shows her unswerving character, and because of this, she left her name in the history of China. Although my sister is a queen, she is also Queen Xu, and she has no name. Why do you think this may be disdainful?