Among the three mothers in the play, Liu Jing received the most praise from netizens. Like Bai Yueguang, she almost satisfied all her beautiful fantasies about women. She was gentle and considerate, and natural and graceful.
Men regard her as an ideal object, while women regard her as a goal in life.
However, I want to live like Don Wenjie.
Because I think I appreciate the child's true self more than Liu Jing's perfection.
Tong Wenjie in the play was the chief financial officer at the beginning of his work, and he was very capable and belonged to the golden collar level.
In the middle, due to frequent leave for family affairs, the most trusted subordinate betrayed and provoked, and suddenly fell from the financial controller to the assistant position.
I was robbed of my position, but I was promoted by my assistant who has been with me for more than ten years. From then on, she poured water for Xiaojinduan tea, delivered takeout food, typed documents and booked air tickets. ...
If this were the case for most people, few people might be able to stand this tone and rush to the boss's office and shout, "I quit."
However, Tong did not.
Because her husband is unemployed, she has to pay more than 20 thousand yuan in rent and mortgage every month, space bound recovery every month for art examination and training, and the living expenses of a small family. The children are about to enter the university, and they will soon have to pay a lot of fees. So many burdens made her endure.
Faced with all kinds of difficulties from former assistants, Tong not only accepted all orders, but also completed his work perfectly. Although he was flustered when he learned that the company had laid off employees, he was not picky or impulsive.
Subsequently, Tong finally regained the position of CFO by his own ability. After the new promotion, she didn't hit Xiaojin, who had betrayed her, and she didn't get carried away. She always does her work honestly.
But life is always unpredictable, and hidden rules in the workplace are often disgusting.
After the promotion, she was harassed and blackmailed by her boss. At first, she just wanted to keep her job and support her family, so she tried to avoid it and endure it.
She didn't want to use Tang until the boss stuck him in the toilet when he was drunk. Only then did she realize that the job had endangered her family and innocence and touched her bottom line, so she resolutely resigned.
In the workplace, children can bend and stretch, and they are not discouraged by being demoted. The best policy is to preserve their strength. After his promotion, he was neither arrogant nor impetuous. When encountering hidden rules, he decisively refused to protect himself.
Tong He's married life can be said to be the warmest and truest part in the play.
Although Liu Jing and Ji Shengli have an artistic conception of caring for each other, they always make people feel a little far from reality.
The lifestyle of couples like Tong He is very grounded and smells like fireworks. For ordinary people, the best marriage is just like them.
And the performance of children in this marriage is also what I appreciate. She never complains about her husband, nor compares her husband with others. She respects everything about her partner.
What impressed me the most in the play was that at the swearing-in meeting of the college entrance examination, Fiona Fang learned that he had won a small season and became a district head, and he frequently felt emotion on his way back.
At that time, Fiona Fang was a literary activist in middle school, and he was admitted to the University of Political Science and Law in the first year, which can be said to be the idol of Ji Shengli.
Ji Shengli didn't become Mr. Fiona Fang's younger brother until one year after re-reading.
Unexpectedly, many years later, Ji Shengli has become a district head, and he is only a "small section chief" in a private enterprise.
In the face of her husband's feelings, Tong Wenjie didn't laugh at it at all. Instead, he said, "What happened to the little section chief? I like you like this and I like the way you don't make progress. " Fiona Fang cheer up in an instant comfort.
In reality, any woman does not expect her husband to get ahead, but prefers to compare her husband with a better person, hoping that her husband will look up to him.
However, the reality is that there are many ordinary people, and those who can get ahead are the husbands of others. In this case, the child can be satisfied and excused for her husband, which is also a manifestation of her high emotional intelligence in marriage.
Children not only encourage their husbands in words, but also tolerate him in actions.
When he lost his job and was dismissed by the company, Tong did not condemn or complain. She recognized the reality and took the initiative to bear the pressure.
When Fiona Fang was drunk and burst into tears, Tong Wenjie held him in his arms like a child and told him: I'm not afraid.
When working as a domestic cook at home, Tong didn't abandon or spit, and praised "Fiona Fang is a limited edition, so I can't live well".
When he wants to be a drip driver, Tong can't bear to endure hardships, and he can't bear to give up his talent. He has always encouraged him to take his time in finding a job.
You should know that children at that time had to bear not only the pressure of the company, but also the economic pressure of the family. It is said that people who are under great pressure find it difficult to control their emotions, and they are most likely to lose their temper with people close to them, but Jennifer Dong doesn't.
She always gritted her teeth to support the family. No matter what the other person becomes, she gives them encouragement and tolerance.
As a mother, children should be strict when educating their children, gentle when they are gentle, respect their children, and open education brings them enough sense of security.
In the play, Tong will be as anxious as many parents in China, and hate iron for not turning into steel. Knowing that her son, Space bound recovery Fan, had poor academic performance, she never gave up. She enrolled her son in a cram school and discussed his situation with the teacher.
She will defend her child's image in front of outsiders.
Knowing that his son was fighting with his classmates, he hurried to school and kept apologizing to the teacher. When he saw the turtle that his son gave to the teacher, he explained to the teacher that it was his son's kindness but he used the wrong method, and then criticized his behavior.
She will protect children's self-esteem and treat them equally.
In the play, Tong He found adult magazine under their son's bed. They didn't immediately find out what was wrong with the child, didn't immediately confiscate the child's things, and didn't directly blame the child. They handled the matter in a way that protected their son's self-esteem.
They are impatient when they suspect their son's puppy love, but for the sake of their children's self-esteem, they choose to ask their children euphemistically, and then give them popular science knowledge and educate them to respect women.
She will respect the interests of children and bow for their future.
Space bound recovery fan said that she wanted to take an art test. At first, Tong didn't support it. Later, he went online to inquire about his son's enrollment in art examinations over the years, and asked his son to analyze the pros and cons one by one.
When her son decided to take an art test, she found someone to find a relationship and a qualified teacher to train space bound recovery fan. After discovering that the teacher she finally found was her own contradictory little dream, she went from initial resistance to humble help.
Although Tong Wenjie sometimes loses her temper with her children, most of them are because of their study and naughty behavior. She also blames herself and apologizes for her later behavior. She will make strict rules for her son and give him gentle care and support.
Therefore, space bound recovery fan, who grew up in equal care, has a good personality and a good personality. Although his grades are not good, he never envies others and will not feel inferior. He also takes care of his cousin Lin Leier everywhere.
Tong He's friendship has been unanimously envied by netizens, but I envy even more affectionate girlfriends like Tong.
Their relationship was established when Song Qian divorced. At that time, Song Qiangang was divorced and depressed. It was Tong who stayed with her, listened to her complaints and spent the most sad time with her.
Friendship that has remained unchanged for more than 20 years is really hard to get. As long as one side is in trouble, the other side can give immediate comfort.
When Song Qian and Eiko had a quarrel, Tong immediately went to comfort her, invited her to dinner, and then went to the spa, and asked the waiter to talk less and live a better life.
When doing spa treatment, Tong listened patiently to tell the bitter water, comforted her and stood by unconditionally.
Tong Wenjie was angry with Song Qian's dream. It can be seen from this incident that Wen Jie felt that her son's art test was not as big as her and Song Qian's sister's, and Song Qian once comforted her when she was sad. The friendship between them can be said to have been very good.
And even the best friendship will go through some quarrels.
Because of the suspicion of puppy love between two children, Song Qian belittled Tong Wenjie's husband and son in a hurry, which made Tong Wenjie unacceptable and they started the cold war.
Later, Tong cried when she was drunk, saying that she regarded her as her only best friend and accused her of her behavior that day. The way she cried was really wronged.
When Song Qian realized his mistake, he wanted to find Tong. As a result, he met Tong to have dinner with his wife and Qiao Weidong. He walked straight back in anger. At this time, Jennifer Dong immediately rushed up to explain.
Jennifer Dong immediately rushed up and explained that she cared about her friendship with Song Qian, so she was willing to bow her head.
In the play, Tong Wenjie's kindness to Lin Leier makes people exclaim that this is someone else's "fairy aunt".
Lin Leier's mother died early, and her aunt Tong didn't want her to see her stepmother's eyes, so she took her to live in Beijing, settled in her school and picked her up in person.
When Lei Er first arrived in Beijing, he was worried that he felt inferior and could not adapt. Wen Jie has been asking his son to take care of his younger brother, teaching him like a son, and repeatedly reminding Lei Er to regard Beijing as his home.
In life, I regard Lei Er as my family, take care of his study and life, and often give him psychological counseling. Everything is done in the name of a family of four.
Later, I learned about Lei Er's real life experience in my sister's voice. It turns out that Lin Leier is not her own, but an abandoned baby picked up outside, but my sister has always regarded Lin Leier as her own.
Hearing this, Tong Wenjie couldn't believe it was true. After some ideological struggles and discussions with Fiona Fang, I finally decided to hide Lei Er's life story from everyone and continue to take care of my sister and the poor child.
If you treat your nephew well, you can only say that he is a good aunt, but after learning that the other person is not your nephew, you can still treat him well as always, which only shows that Tong is a caring and responsible person.
She attaches great importance to her feelings with her sister, so she is willing to take care of the children she once took care of for her sister.
Song Qian put all her energy into her daughter and said, "I don't need happiness".
Liu Jing also put her husband and son first, digested all grievances by herself, never considered herself, and always said "I am not important".
Such women look great, but I think they are too tired. I don't want to be that person.
And people like Tong are independent and strong, but she will also show weakness, and she will show her fragile side to her husband.
She will express her love, hold her husband and children and say, "I suddenly love you and our children." Life is so short that we should cherish it. "
No matter what difficulties she encounters, she can make it through with her optimism, tenacity and courage, and then have a good time.
I hope that women in reality can live a trivial life like children!