Zhang Ling said that she was glad that she was getting married. After all, she is finally going to marry the person she wants to marry, but when preparing for the wedding, something happened suddenly, which puzzled Zhang Ling, because her parents didn't agree to her marriage, and she said that the other party was not at ease at all.
Zhang Ling said that from the beginning, the two families had already discussed it, and they were not going to prepare bride price and dowry. The wedding room and the decoration of the wedding room are all borne by both parents, one person is half, and then the names of Mr. and Mrs. Zhang Ling are written.
At that time, both sides agreed on this matter, but the next day, Zhang Ling's mother-in-law changed her mind and said to Zhang Ling, "Daughter-in-law, it is not easy for you to marry into my family. We will never let you be wronged. Your job is still unstable, so I have reached an agreement with your father-in-law. We will buy your house, but you have to pay the mortgage, so I'll write your name for the time being. Of course, don't think too much I didn't write your name, not because I don't believe you, but because you haven't been able to bear it, so it's not appropriate. Anyway, as long as you don't get divorced, this house is still yours. "
To tell the truth, Zhang Ling was surprised and angry when she heard her mother-in-law's words, because she knew that this was her mother-in-law's calculation, so she directly said to her mother-in-law, "Don't yell, I won't marry, I'm not your daughter-in-law.".
After returning home, Zhang Ling told his parents about it, and both parents unanimously opposed it: "If the other party really does this, then we will not get married, and we are not helping the poor. Why should my daughter bear all the risks? " ?
Parents said to their mother-in-law: "The house must be written with their names, otherwise they will not get married, and this biological relationship will be forgotten."
Zhang Ling said that she was worried when she heard her parents' words, because she really loved her boyfriend and she knew that all this had nothing to do with her boyfriend, so she asked me if she should marry if her mother-in-law didn't agree.
Bian Xiao has something to say:
To tell the truth, my suggestion is that Zhang Ling should not marry into such a family regardless of whether her mother-in-law answers or not, because obviously, her future mother-in-law is by no means a good crop. As Zhang Ling is not married, she has started all kinds of calculations. Do you think such a marriage can really be happy?
Besides, although Zhang Ling has always said that she wants to marry that man, in fact, that man is definitely not a man who really loves her. Because a good man who really loves a woman will never put all the pressure and risks on her. If he really loves her, they will only bear everything, not let the woman bear it herself. Such a man is not worth marrying, not only without responsibility, but also without responsibility.
In addition, Zhang Ling has no obligation to help her mother-in-law repay the mortgage, because the house has nothing to do with her at all, and belongs to her mother-in-law's premarital property, so she has no obligation to bear it.
Some people may say that the marriage law does not protect women, but this is not the case. The latest version of the Marriage Law protects not gender, but personal property.
Writing a fair woman's name is, in the final analysis, the property of her in-laws. Even if Zhang Ling has more mortgages, the property right of this house will not change. At the moment of real divorce, Zhang Ling had no distribution right at all.
Perhaps seeing this, some people will say that if the distribution of divorce property is considered at the beginning of marriage, then the marriage calculated in this way is doomed to be impossible, and it is better not to start. But in fact, people who can say such things are just people who stand and talk as if they are relaxed. If you have a daughter, will you agree that she will marry her husband's family without anything? I don't think most people will agree.
In fact, marriage is such a reality, it is just a chip game for both sides. Once one party has insufficient chips and the status between husband and wife is uneven, then marriage will really go wrong, because a good marriage is always evenly matched.
Therefore, for this marriage, you can't marry, because if you marry like this, you will be passive everywhere, or even have no place at all, which is exactly what the sentence says: "People are good at being bullied, and Ma is good at being ridden."
In reality, there are often many men who like to kidnap women with morality, saying that women want a house for money worship and that women are demanding. That is reality, saying that women want to write their names on the house for the house, not for love, because true love should be pure and not linked to money.
I don't refute these people. I just want to say to these men: "Since you say that love is pure and should not be measured by money, would you agree if you were asked to transfer all your savings to the person you love?" I don't think so. Since we are all family members, why should we divide them so clearly? After all, it's not just men who are selfish.
Marriage should be honest with each other, and any calculation is just a manifestation of dislike and distrust. Marriage is not easy, but do it and cherish it.