Because people who fall in love can be said to be unreasonable, they will feel that the other party is too good to deserve each other. Therefore, when dealing with girls they like, boys will feel inferior, fearing that their initiative will not only get no response, but also have a reaction, so they dare not take the initiative to contact you. In fact, from the other person's point of view, if you take the initiative to send a message but the other person doesn't answer a word, you will feel embarrassed. Or you send a message, and the other party replies to you, but the reply is a refusal and it is unacceptable. Everyone has an ostrich mentality. If you don't contact you actively, you will feel that you have feelings for him, so you won't be rejected.
Two: Zhang Ning, a 32-year-old company employee, said; "My wife often complains that I am too straight and should not be like this. It is difficult to fully consider the girl's mind when doing things." Boys don't contact girls actively. It may be that they are naturally outspoken and straightforward. They don't think so much, and they don't like to contact girls all the time. When my wife and I were in love, there was a farce because of my male character. At that time, I was very busy at work for a while. It was very late and tired when I got home from work, thinking that my wife might have fallen asleep at that time.
I just don't think it's necessary to send a message and call to disturb her, so I basically didn't have time to contact her actively in those days. When we finished the work, I contacted my wife and found that I had been hacked. Fortunately, I am not only broad-minded but also thick-skinned. Before I was sad, I went directly to her company and asked her why she deleted me. My wife told me it was because I didn't take the initiative to contact her. She thinks I don't love her anymore, so I don't have to worry about it anymore. Only then did I know that I didn't take the initiative to contact, which led to such a big misunderstanding. But after telling everything, my wife also knows that I am so straight and used to some irritating personal behaviors. Therefore, girls should remember that boys don't take the initiative to contact you, not because they don't love you, but because they are too busy to bother you.
Three: 27-year-old single, Xun Lin said: "I have a lot of opposite sex around me, but I don't want to establish a relationship with them." If you don't take the initiative to contact girls, it may really be because you don't love enough. If you really love, no matter how busy and tired you are, I will take the initiative to contact you. "In daily life, many girls will think that boys don't take the initiative to contact you because they don't love each other. From my point of view, I can say that your guess may be right. Although this is a cruel thing, I have to admit that it means that if a boy doesn't take the initiative to contact you, it may be because he is tired of you and doesn't want to spend any more time on you.
I have to admit that a woman's sixth sense is accurate in some ways. For many things and feelings, it should be impossible to fly out. I always find some truths about boys or some personal behaviors that make girls feel that way. Take me for example, if I don't love this girl, I can be bored and I won't spend any more time with this girl, and I won't take the initiative to contact each other because I can't remember clearly. In fact, if you are the first in a boy's heart, no matter how busy he is, he will contact you on his own initiative, even if it is just a word, and will explain the reason to you. So the reason why boys don't want to talk to you is obvious.