I also want to be a calm woman, but
I don't know when, we have been polished by time and lost the edges and corners of the past. Treat people and things around you, no longer picky and sharp, but have a quiet and indifferent, inclusive and kind heart. Understand that life is not easy, be kind to yourself and others; Knowing that life is short, we must learn to tolerate others. May we all be kind to others and be treated gently by the world!
You contact him, he says busy! He was stupid when he finished! He said he was tired! Why contact him!
Carefree in front of people, lonely forever after people?
Your calmness makes me go further and further and fade out of your world!
I miss you, who is that?
Live high's persistence, live high's simplicity.
Kindness is for the right person ... it will make you grateful to the wrong person ... it will make you feel cold and soft to the right person ... it will make you sad ... it will make you warm and tolerant to the right person ... it will make you feel good. In this life, no one is forever, and in the next life, no one can accompany anyone! You only live once in this life, and the afterlife is impossible. In this life, meeting is fate .. Love if you can, don't miss it in vain. Let's get together if we can, and don't leave any regrets! How many people dare not face the reality, but look forward to the afterlife. The missed feelings will continue in the next life, and the promised ones will be realized in the next life. I didn't want to come by deceiving myself. Life is really short. So, cherish it if you can, and don't leave any regrets for yourself!
I would rather suffer from lovesickness alone than make you sad. This is love!
If I get your people but can't get your heart, I'd rather choose a lonely generation than love such people.
I miss you, but I can't say it I don't know whether we are in love or friendship now.
People who love me silently give everything for me; But I have shed tears for the people I love. From then on, I don't miss it, I'm not sad; Cherish those who love me; Goodbye! No delivery! Don't stay! Thank you for coming, and thank you for planning to leave for a long time, so that you can meet the person who loves me deeply.
I miss you again, but I don't know how to contact!
I always feel that I didn't do enough, didn't cherish the people around me, and even left you out. This is my fault!
Tell me, why do you want to pursue the life you want? What kind of experience do you have?
The happiest thing I can think of is talking to someone I miss. I want to tell you that the weather is getting cold, remember to add clothes in the morning and evening, eat regularly every day and don't stay up late. Take care of yourself, because I am very happy every day.
Happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, it is better to live happily every day.
Eat well, sleep well, earn money well, spend money well, and treat yourself well.
Work hard to make money and be the best you can be! For the rest of my life and those who cherish me, go on!
I provoked you first, and now I let you go and set you free! When I no longer pester you and feel sad and tired because of you, I have already started to leave you! This kind of wishful thinking, my love is very humble, even humble to the dust! It's not that I don't love you, it's that I'm tired. I can only put you in a corner of my heart, a secret that no one knows, and a pain that will always be in my heart! For the rest of my life, I hope we are all well! I wish you happiness! delete
Finding the person you love is painful, but finding the person who loves you is a blessing in life.
A person who cares about you again won't keep you waiting too long. She doesn't care about you anymore. You can tell by a message.
Learn to trust in anxiety and want simplicity in complexity. The whole world wants you to understand. Unfortunately, it's just my luxury. My heart began to ache faintly and I was afraid of helplessness. I was abandoned in the wilderness, and no one shared that heavy love. Like a lost child, I want to burst into tears, but my tears are frozen and will not dissolve until spring comes!
People who care are in their hearts. If you love someone, you must tolerate everything about her, so as to cool her shortcomings and care about everything about her. Love your heart is true, know that you are good to him. Remember what you care about, and I will find a way to help you solve the difficult things. I love you in my heart forever.
I gave it to him, and he didn't understand my heart.
Don't disappoint those who care about you, don't hurt those who care about you, be kind to those who care about you, and leave your heart to those who care about you.
People who care about you will treat you well, people who care about you will put you in the deepest part of their hearts, and those who love you are the ones who love you the most!
What you can't get is always beautiful, and good memories are always short-lived.
Friendship has come to an end, how to save it?
Our feelings are divided into many kinds, such as love between lovers, friendship between friends and affection between family members. But no matter what kind of feelings, we need to treat them sincerely. This is the result of two people treating each other sincerely, and friendship is one of them.
We have feelings for our families from birth, and then we grow up and get to know friends, which will lead to friendship. Maybe you think that friends are not as important as family and lovers, but friendship is a very precious feeling.
When you grow up, you will find that some people hit it off with you. Your's views and attitudes are roughly the same, and they are very happy together. This is your friend. Our first friends came from school life, because you are together every day, making progress in your study. Friendship in school is also a sincere and long-lasting feeling.
But every relationship will have setbacks, and so will friendship. Two people may gradually lose contact because of the change of environment. If no one takes the initiative, they may never contact. Or the joining of other friends will make one of the two sides feel jealous, and will no longer keep this friendship and leave silently. In fact, every feeling is the same and needs to be taken seriously. Treat your friend with your most sincere and frank heart, and you can reap her true feelings.
Friends are like your legs. When you encounter setbacks, they will always turn around and solve all kinds of difficulties for you. Moreover, we often need the comfort and guidance of our friends to go in the right direction.
1. A few days ago, the phone showed several missed calls from the same number. Before I could call back, this strange number called again.
Pick up the phone, there came a strange voice. I was a little surprised when the other party told me his name. He was an old friend more than ten years ago. I haven't changed my mobile phone number for more than ten years, and they haven't contacted once.
The other party reminisced with me on the phone and warmly recalled the old friendship. Our relationship was really good at that time. We go to school together and play hooky together.
Unfortunately, I don't know when we lost contact, and I don't know any news about him now.
Listening to him mention the old things bit by bit, I feel very distant and strange. After the memory lasted for more than ten minutes, the other party felt that the time was ripe, the atmosphere was just right, and the mood was strong, thus indicating the purpose of this call.
To my surprise, he borrowed money from me, and it was a lot of money.
In order to dispel my doubts, he explained that he had been cheated in investing in a project in the early stage, and several creditors were stuck at home asking for money every day.
He wants to borrow some money from me, work around for a while, and then pay me back when the house is mortgaged. I refused.
I haven't been in touch for more than ten years. I know nothing about his career and family except those memories as evidence.
The former friendship has long been in blowing in the wind, and now it's just a stranger who borrows money from me.
If I help, I can't even judge whether it is right or wrong. So, I really can't find a reason to help him.
2. Writer Bi Shumin once wrote in the article Friendship: There is only one fruit on this tree, which is called trust.
The chain of friendship cannot be inherited, passed on, sealed and preserved without decay, nor can it be frozen in the refrigerator and kept fresh forever.
Friendship needs nourishment. Some people use money, some use sweat, and some use blood.
Friendship is greedy and will never be satisfied with eating and drinking. So, she said sharply, we are friends now, and we may not be friends in ten years.
It's not just time that takes away friendship. Long distance, long time. These can be the reasons for the exhaustion of friendship, but they are not the only reasons.
Friendship is never once and for all, and it needs to be maintained with heart. Without reciprocal efforts, how can friendship last forever?
Friendship without paying is not so much a relationship that does not need to be maintained as a relationship that has nothing to do with it. Just want to consume each other, friendship will eventually come to an end.
Some time ago, Ah Huan ended a long friendship. KINOMOTO SAKURA was a good friend of Ahuan in college. They were so good at school that they hated each other.
When they graduated, they worked in a neighboring city. At first, every holiday, the two would find an excuse to get together. Later, only Ah Huan maintained this friendship.
KINOMOTO SAKURA met an emergency at work and asked Ah Huan for help in the middle of the night. Without saying anything, Ah Huan got dressed, got up, turned on the computer and helped her finish her work together.
Zi Ying's family was in trouble, and Ah Huan gave her all the money to help her. However, when Ah Huan needed help, KINOMOTO SAKURA made excuses.
When Ruth got married, Ah Huan was on a business trip in other places, catching up with the work progress non-stop and coming back to attend her wedding overnight. From holding Ah Huan, she was moved to tears.
But when Ah Huan got married, KINOMOTO SAKURA didn't show up. The next day, KINOMOTO SAKURA called and said that he had been so busy recently that people were going crazy and missed Ah Huan's wedding.
Ah Huan didn't say anything, but his heart was cold. Hanging up the phone, she decided to give up this friendship for many years and end her unilateral contribution.
It is not true friendship that consumes you blindly.
True friendship is to maintain, respond and return. You give me 26 degrees of warmth, and I give you the warmth of spring breeze.
Of course, not every relationship is called friendship. Not every relationship needs careful maintenance.
Friendship in the adult world has always been utilitarian. Instead of eating skewers together, drinking wine once, patting the shoulder and saying that I appreciate you very much, we have an iron friendship.
Instead of going to the bathroom hand in hand, shopping together and praising each other for the beautiful color of your lipstick, we became best friends and could do anything for each other.
Friendship needs to be at the right time and place to be harmonious. True friendship pays attention to equal strength and unity of three views.
We can draw strength from each other, grow together and feel the vibration of the soul. Such friendship is worth maintaining, and neither side will feel reluctant and tired when maintaining it.
Colleague Jassamyn Liu said that she never thought that a friendship would become a burden.
She has a small head of hair. They used to be like sisters, sticking together whenever they had time. However, after work, there was a crack between them.
I graduated from primary school and got married after working for less than a year. When Liu Jie is busy with her work and sharing the world with men, she has quit her job and stayed at home, fighting with the shit of her children.
Every time they meet, they always complain about their husbands, their mother-in-law and many trivial things when they were young. However, when talking about work pressure, Sister Liu advised her not to get married young. Why do women work so hard?
After work, Sister Liu will go to the gym to exercise. Laughing at her as a child,
Didn't you say you were tired from work? Do you still have time to go to the gym? If you do housework all day like me, where do you need to exercise?
Sister Liu was speechless.
When I was young, I often called her and was very anxious, whether she was busy or not.
Sometimes, Liu Jie didn't answer the phone in time, saw a series of phone calls, and hurried back to find that it was no big deal. Either she quarreled with her mother-in-law, or her husband didn't come home after working overtime.
Whenever this happens, Sister Liu feels that there is a gap between them. It's not how noble you are, nor how humble the other person is, but that you don't understand what the other person is thinking.
Not only is there no sound, there is no power to draw, and even it is difficult to keep warm with each other.
You talk to her about female independence, and she tells you that marriage is important; You told her that she had made progress in her studies, and she told you which subject to study at such an age.
An unbalanced friendship is just an extra contact in the phone book.
With the change of everyone's social role and the growth of experience, every friendship is changing. If you don't go hand in hand and walk side by side, the original appetizing friendship will gradually become no longer suitable for you now.
In the article "Hometown", Lu Xun once described a scene of reunion after a long separation. Lu Xun was glad to see his old friend Runtu again: Runtu brother, you are here.
Then, Lu Xun wanted to spit out a lot of words like beads: horn chicken, jumping fish, shells and clams, but he always felt as if he was blocked by something, and his mind was spinning and he couldn't spit it out.
Moistened face showed joy and sadness, his lips moved, but he was silent. Finally, he was respectful and shouted clearly: Sir!
When I read this when I was young, I felt deeply sorry and cursed in my heart, this damn era!
When I grow up, I reread Hometown to understand that it is not time that separates two people.
Of course, the stratum is enlightened, and the deepest level is knowledge and three views. Without considerable knowledge and three views, friendship will lose its foundation, and it is only a matter of time before returning to strangeness.
Many people don't understand this truth, and try their best to blend into the circle that doesn't belong to them, trying to distort a sweet friendship. I am not a cow myself, so I try to show my uniqueness with cows.
However, in fact, you regard each other as friends, but it is very likely that they have only met once.
True friendship is never forced. The energy levels are equal to each other. When there is vibration, friendship follows sound and smell.
What kind of friends do you want to make, let yourself be first.
You don't have to be afraid of being unsociable, but be careful to blend in with a group of people. Bosom friends are hard to get, but hard to find.
Most people spend their whole lives without paying two or three people. Instead of pretending to have many friends, it is better to return to loneliness and practice yourself hard.
The so-called friends, there are still many roads, never a nodding acquaintance, not 5 thousand friends in WeChat.
In this life, there is no need to force a friendship to last forever. Many people can only walk a short distance with each other. Some friendships are destined to accompany you only for a period of time.
Is the friendship over? On her wedding day, our friendship ended.
Hello everyone!
Isn't this the Spring Festival?
A friend informed me.
Said she was getting married.
It has also been emphasized among friends.
Never wrap a red envelope.
Just have fun.
Xiao Jiang, I am very happy today.
Go to a friend's wedding.
After the wedding reception began
The bride and groom will raise their glasses.
At this moment, a table of people stood up.
one by one
Give the bride a red envelope.
I'm the only one holding the chicken leg.
Look at their posture.
Frightened, the chicken leg fell to the ground.
I had a brainwave
Picked up a pair of chopsticks and handed it over.
I wish the bride and groom an early birth.
Although my friendship with the bride
It may be coming to an end.
But what makes me angry is that
Wu Laoer prepared a red envelope.
I can't believe he didn't remind me.
Friendship has come to an end. Why is our friendship so fragile?
1, whenever I think of you and come from two places to pick me up in the torrential rain, I feel the happiest in my life! Honey, I love you!
2, I'm sorry, forgive me sentimental, bother you for so long!
3, care about a person, just want to know that you are online. I know I am sentimental, but I just can't let it go. I really want to know your news, and I'm even excited. But every time I send WeChat, you don't reply. Are you too busy? Still want me to forget you.
You think the worst thing in life is to lose the person you love the most. In fact, the worst thing is to lose yourself because you love someone too much.
5. If you can't wait for WeChat, don't wait. The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment. In his world, far away from you. Do n't wait
6. People say that you are good to me for three points, and I will pay you back for seven points, but I didn't get any of these seven points, but I kept insisting because I didn't want my children to be lonely. I used to pay for my children, but now I pay for myself.
7. If you can't wait for WeChat, don't wait. Not that he didn't see it, but that he didn't want to call you back. That's because he has changed and doesn't love you as much as before. It's time to wake up. Don't be so stubborn about waiting for someone. That will only make you more disappointed and hurt your heart. Since you don't return messages or phone calls, don't call again. If you have someone in your heart, let it go, and everything will pass quickly. Don't feel sorry for such a person, because he doesn't cherish you. Why should he cry? He should leave freely, because even if he loses someone, his mood will continue tomorrow. You should laugh it off and give yourself a smiling face.
8. The lover who really deserves your life together is the one who is willing to make concessions for you and let you let go of your principles. When you are sad and frustrated, he will understand what you are thinking even if you don't speak.
9. If a person likes you, he will take time out of his busy schedule to be attentive to you. Don't lose yourself by loving him.
10, speaking of my heart, I told myself to ignore it if I don't come back, but it's hard for people with feelings.
1 1. In those days when you didn't reply to my message, I have learned to take back my love slowly and get used to the days without you every day. Over the years, I have shed too many tears, which is enough to dilute my inner persistence a little. I thought I could love you all my life, but I have enough initiative, disappointment and sadness.
12, let go before people arrive! I am also the one who has been waiting. I think if a person really loves you, he will be caring and attentive every day and can't wait to talk to you all the time. If he can ignore you for a few days, it can only show that he doesn't have you in his heart, so why hurt himself for someone who doesn't love you?
13, meeting yesterday is my best memory. This is all god's arrangement! Hallelujah! Thank God for letting me meet him again. God bless. Say hello to each other! Peace with each other! Happy to each other! Happy to each other!
14, wait for his wechat, torture yourself and bother him ~ why not just delete it?
15, I used to remember the birthdays of every family member, relative and friend, but later no one remembered my own birthday, and I slowly forgot all the birthdays, and I can't remember them anymore.
16, today is my birthday, but he asked me if it was your birthday. It slipped my mind. I didn't want his red envelope. He said happy birthday to me, but he didn't say he was cold.
17, as long as you put your heart into it, you will remember your birthday, even if you say it only once, you will always remember it!
18, I remember that person's birthday. Will that person remember my birthday?
19. In this life, a woman who is spoiled is happy. Only those who really love you will spoil you like children. People who don't love you will always feel that you are a burden to ta.
20. Pray that God can give me such a person, and I will love him with my life.