You can't say no, when a person has been busy with you, has not returned your information, has ignored you, you don't have to doubt your own distinction, he really doesn't love you.
People who really love you, for whatever reason, are unlikely not to reply to your message. Even if you can't respond at the first time, you will feel very clear afterwards.
The most beautiful love words in this world are not "I like you", but "I am always there". If the other person never realizes this, how can he really like you
Whether male or female, if you find that the other person has been ignoring your information so that you can't contact him, you can basically judge that he doesn't love him so much.
Many men and women in relationships will make excuses for each other and refuse to accept the result of unloving. In fact, everything is in vain.
Men and women eventually separate, usually by not returning messages. If there is such a sign, you'd better accept it as soon as possible. Is it useful to save your boyfriend and find emotional counseling?
First, if I don't reply to your message, I actually don't care about you.
Anyone who has experienced feelings knows that if a person really loves you, he will definitely like your every move, even if you have a little change, he will definitely care.
Therefore, if emotionally, you neglect to find that the other party does not reply to your message, it is very likely that he is not really busy, but doesn't care about you.
He won't care about you as before, and he won't worry about how you are doing and whether you are happy or not. This is the main manifestation of not loving.
A person who doesn't care about you in his heart, even if you do more, it won't help, and you are unlikely to impress the other person again.
Sometimes, whether the other person replies to the message can tell whether he cares about this feeling. The part of your heart that is opposite to each other can usually be identified from the level of responding to information.
The other party didn't reply to your message, but it was actually a data signal of unloving. Although it goes without saying, the indifference in action has long explained everything.
My friend Xiaoli has been in love with her boyfriend for a year. At first, her boyfriend was very enthusiastic about her and especially cherished her.
But after several months, Xiaoli suddenly found her boyfriend getting cold. Because she sends messages to her boyfriend, he never replies immediately.
Xiaoli has been expecting her boyfriend to reply to her news, but as time goes by, her boyfriend has been silent.
Xiaoli felt cold when she saw the mobile phone. In order to comfort herself better, she made many excuses for her boyfriend.
She thinks her boyfriend is undoubtedly busy, either playing with his mobile phone or the phone is dead. However, the more excuses Xiaoli makes, the more her heart hurts.
After a year of love, Xiaoli was completely chilling in her boyfriend's indifference and finally broke up. On the second day of separation, she met her boyfriend in his circle of friends, and he was showing love with another girl.
At that moment, she understood everything, and her boyfriend had long since stopped loving her. She deleted her boyfriend, gave herself nothing, and cried bitterly.
Therefore, in the relationship, the other party has never replied to your message. Actually, there are so many excuses, but none of them are love.
Second, it took a long time to reply to the message, which shows that I am perfunctory to you.
Good friend Xiaomei and her boyfriend have been in love for 2 years. Recently, she found that every time she sends a message to her boyfriend, he always replies very late, and sometimes even answers her.
Xiaomei said that she sent him a message in the morning and showed him a short video in the afternoon, but her boyfriend didn't reply to her until the evening.
Xiaomei is a little disappointed. Sometimes she will ask her boyfriend why he replied to her message so late.
My boyfriend always says that he is busy and has no time. Xiaomei disagrees, because he was busy before, and he will reply to her message immediately.
Later, Xiaomei gradually understood that her boyfriend replied to the message very late, and every time it was those cold words, it was actually perfunctory for her.
She feels that her boyfriend doesn't care about her, likes her in the past and has no hope for this relationship.
Later, Xiaomei broke up with her boyfriend, who agreed without thinking. She is fully aware that her boyfriend no longer loves her.
A person who can only perfunctory you is not easy to be sincere at all, and there is no practical significance in worrying again.
Xiaomei left decisively and was completely injured. She is not for her boyfriend, but for a better love that she has long missed.
So, if you send a message to others, they will have to wait a long time to say you. Most of it is not that he is busy, but that he usually perfunctory.
Whether men or women, if they encounter such a situation in their feelings, most of them can judge that the other party doesn't love him so much.
As Xiaomei said:
"I that _ enthusiastically let you send messages, is to want to get your care and care, but you are indifferent from beginning to end, even perfunctory. All this is clear. What you perfunctory is not love, because I do the same to people I don't like very much. "
No matter what kind of emotion, once your passion wins the perfunctory and indifference of the other person, you must understand that he can't move his heart again.
In that case, both men and women should not be entangled and worthless. Instead of wasting yourself in unworthy feelings, it is better to leave as soon as possible so as not to delay yourself.
This love, your passion and your sincerity will only be happy if you make it to the right person.
For those who don't love you, let go and learn to let go of incorrect feelings, so that you can meet the right person and live up to your infatuation.
Third, breaking up completely is equivalent to not loving.
Love war said, "People who love you are here 24 hours a day. The person who can't be contacted is not how busy he is, but that he chose to ignore it as if he didn't see it. "
If the other person breaks up with you completely emotionally, you really don't need to doubt it. This is the data signal that you don't love you.
Good love is unlikely to break up with each other, but it is prepared for each other anytime and anywhere. If you have to, I'll come at once.
Good love is nothing more than responding to everything, having a place for everything, always leaving a lamp for you, lighting it for you and keeping you warm.
Good love doesn't need vigorous love, nor does it expect vows of eternal love. I will always be by your side if you need me.
So, these people who broke up with you, you don't have to work hard, they don't love, and you don't have to do anything.
People who don't even reply to your information, even those who break up with you, must not have you in their hearts. _ There are so many excuses, there is no need to find so many reasons. Not loving is not loving.
Sooner or later, you will find that it is not easy for a person who is indifferent to you and breaks up with you to love you, because there is no you in his heart.
If a relationship doesn't even pay attention, and you don't feel love or not, then true love is meaningless and won't last long after all.
My good friend Miao and her boyfriend only fell in love for half a year, and then they broke up.
Miao Miao said that her boyfriend has been breaking up with her and has been unable to find him, so she has a sense of belonging.
Either the information is not returned, the electricity is not answered, or no one is seen for a few days, and she doesn't feel that she is in love at all.
When Miao Miao questioned her boyfriend, he still felt very annoyed with her and refused Miao Miao on the grounds that she wanted to be free indoors.
After that, Miao Miao understood that her boyfriend didn't love her at all. So, she didn't make any noise and left quietly, _ a little reluctant to go.
Both men and women need to understand that a person who really likes you is unlikely to break up with you, let alone leave you alone.
Only when the other person doesn't love you will he break up with you. It's not easy for him to meet you, worry about you and care about everything about you.
People who don't love you will always find thousands of reasons not to love you. At this time, you don't need to be attached to it anymore. It is a better solution to stop when you are ready.
Because, after all, you can't impress someone who doesn't love you, understand?
The omen of separation between men and women is usually that the other person doesn't respond to you, or waits a long time to say you, or breaks up with you immediately. This is the main manifestation of not loving.
If you receive this kind of data signal, you should be fully prepared and give up the illusion of unworthy people as soon as possible, so as not to easily cause great harm to yourself.
The rest of your life is very expensive. Please give this love to someone who wants to reply to you. No matter what happens, he is always there. Only in this way can you be sure and be the warmest.
Is it useful to save your boyfriend and find emotional counseling? I only hope that you can meet someone who responds positively and cares about you, and have a happy and perfect love.