1. Keep calm when communicating with children.
Hard hitting is the least successful education method for rebellious children, so before communicating with children, anxious parents must always remind themselves to stay calm, don't start beating and scolding their children when they are in a hurry, and forget the plan of good communication. In addition, it is best to communicate with children when they are calm, and the effect is better.
2. Observe more in communication.
There are many ways to communicate. If parents have been immersed in the role of parents who are anxious and worried about their children, communication will deviate from the rational way. Therefore, it is advisable to observe what problems exist in their communication with their children, look at their rebellion from a bystander's point of view and communicate with them from different angles.
3. Insist on experiments and keep communicating.
When children are young, in the process of communication, parents often occupy the main position, while children are obedient. When children grow up, parents should adopt the experiment of two-way communication, change their roles, be children's listeners and listen to their ideas, including their views on adult education. Parents will always find effective solutions through continuous communication.
4, exchange roles, empathy.
It is very important to have an empathy when getting along with others. Understand each other's difficulties, and naturally there will be no resentment. Parents should understand their children's rebellious psychology, and naturally there will be a harmonious relationship in communication.
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