But then again, I think if you are still anxious about such an advantage, it is because TA has too much to consider. To put it simply, I can't accept the plain life of contentment.
Coincidentally, my college classmates are also in this situation.
My wife and I, as well as another pair of college classmates, are really in sharp contrast. When we graduated from college, we went to work in the same city. My wife and I (then my girlfriend) were still working in private enterprises. Our monthly salary is in the early 2000 s, and we can only take four days off every month. We have no house, no car and no savings. Apart from the water and electricity rent, we have little left in life, and we have to pay back the school loan tuition. It's really hard to think about what we had now. Before graduation, I want to have a job, eat a lot of instant noodles and buy a lot of things I want to buy, but looking at my miserable salary every month, I have to drink the juice of instant noodles, bring my own shopping bag when I go to the supermarket to buy things, and continue to use water when I run out of shampoo.
Stop talking about yourself. On the other hand, our college classmates, whose parents are businessmen, heard that they are engaged in trade and have a lot of business in Guangdong and Guangxi. After graduation, he entered the state-owned power grid company of this city through the trust, and got married in the second year of graduation, just 25 years old. Because of the good family background, the wedding room and car are standard. Also, they were married by a child, so parents also saved a sum of education funds for their children. Because we have a good relationship and have daily contacts. When I changed my rent here, I had difficulty driving them to help us carry our luggage. I thank them.
But I am deeply impressed by them, that is, they often talk to us about all kinds of anxiety, that is, they are worried that their children will not know which school to go to in the future and that their jobs will be unstable. It is said that children don't know if they can go to xx primary school, which is the best primary school. They say it's hard to get in, and it's hard to have a relationship. He also said that his company heard that it was going to be reformed and streamlined, and he might have to change to another company (also a state-owned enterprise). He also said that his father wanted to buy an apartment as an investment in education. He waited for his children to be born in school districts or spare school districts, and began to consider primary schools, junior high schools and even high schools before they were born. ..................................................................................................................
For me, as long as it is convenient for me to pick up and drop off. The child is still young, how can he consider such a long term? As the saying goes, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so don't be the cattle and horses of children and grandchildren. As for my work, life, housing, children's education, growth and so on. I think it is enough to choose the right one according to my existing economic and material conditions. If you don't have it, don't force it, just enjoy it. This is what I said at the beginning, contentment is enough, so that my life will be very happy. Instead of worrying too much, or not knowing that there is someone outside, it will only bring you anxiety and much ado about nothing! !