Yeah, why have a baby? It is impossible to bring children into this world without their prior consent. What do children think when they come into this world? Are they grateful? Are you happy? Still full of resentment? Few people will think about it, so few people will know the answer. However, in Keigo Higashino's book The Times of Life, it gives the answer to this question. Keigo Higashino, a writer in japanese mystery, is a rare "triple crown" in japanese mystery history. In the 1 1 rich list of Chinese writers, Keigo Higashino won the first place in the rich list of foreign writers. Although the content of this book is not its best field, the stories in it are as warm and touching as those in You Jie's grocery stores, and the Japanese version has sold more than 6,543.8+00,000 copies.
Miyamoto did know that his girlfriend Lizi's family inherited the disease, but he decided to marry Lizi. The incidence of hereditary diseases in Lizi family is extremely high in men and extremely low in women. There is no cure for this disease. People suffering from this disease will gradually die and will not live past 18 years old. Although they made up their minds not to have children before marriage, the children came unexpectedly. When considering the future of the child, Tuoshi remembered the friends he knew when he was young. Considering that the probability of the child getting sick was 25%, he begged Lizi to give birth to the child. A little boy named Shi Sheng was born in the controversy. Unfortunately, Shi Sheng was ill in high school, and there was no 25% chance that he would escape. Looking at Shi Sheng lying unconscious in a hospital bed, Lizi told Tuoshi that she wanted to ask Shi Sheng, "Are you happy as our child?" , "is there a feeling of' it's good to be human', are you happy? Do you hate us? "
At this time, in Tuoshi's mind, all the memories of the friend he knew when he was young came back to life. The strange friend's name is Shi Sheng. He always said that Tuoshi was a relative, but he couldn't tell what kind of relative he was. Tuoshi is an adopted son. Although his adoptive parents were very kind to him, he was full of resentment after learning that he was sent away by his biological mother. He felt abandoned by the whole world and unworthy of being loved. When he was young, he was too ambitious, too ambitious, not down-to-earth, and muddled along. But fortunately, the inner goodness, kindness and conscience are still there. At the lowest point of his life, Shi Sheng appeared and accompanied Tuoshi for two months.
During these two months, Shi Sheng actively promoted the reconciliation between Tuoshi and his biological mother, and encouraged and helped Tuoshi to work and live well. Tuoshi's biological father was buried in the fire for his life-saving mother; Out of love for his father, the mother insisted on giving birth to him out of wedlock; But because of the hard life, I couldn't support him, so I had to send him away. Knowing the reasons behind these, Tuoshi finally forgave his biological parents from the heart, and felt that he had not been abandoned by the whole world, and that he had always been loved by his biological parents and adoptive parents. The shackles in my heart were broken, and Tuoshi began to work and live actively and steadily. Shi Sheng disappeared after giving birth to Lizi in an accident.
Rio Tinto reminds me of those times when I was young. The last time I was with him, he said to him, "I feel very happy with you." Before I met this world, I thought so. Before I met you now, I was very happy. I think it is good to be born in this world. " In the story, Tuoshi met his son when he was young. By mistake, the soul of Tuoshi's son was borrowed more than 20 years ago, lived in other people's bodies, and met Tuoshi when he was young.
The Tolstoy family is unfortunate, because Shi Sheng unfortunately inherited the family genetic disease. But they are lucky, because the existence of Shi Sheng made them realize the ups and downs of being a parent, and Shi Sheng didn't hold a grudge because his parents gave birth to him in a short life. This is because when the Tuoshi couple decided to have a baby, they made up their minds that no matter how healthy the child is, they should shoulder the responsibilities of their parents without hesitation. If they are unfortunately ill, they are willing to suffer with their children. On the other hand, Shi Sheng is grateful to his parents for bringing him into this world. Life is short, but the future is not just tomorrow. In a limited life, it is very happy to have the full love of Tuoshi and his wife.
But in real life, many children are not so lucky when they are born, because they have not met their parents like Tuoshi and his wife.
12-year-old boy in the Lebanese film Why Go Home praised him and sued his parents for giving birth to him, but he was not kind to him.
20 13 June, two little girls were starved to death by their mothers in a residential area in Nanjing.
On 20 14, a 7-year-old girl in Xi' an was starved to death at home.
As the old saying goes, if you are born without raising your finger, you can report it if you are born with a broken finger, but you can never report it if you are not born with a broken finger. Although parents can't and can't ask their children for advice in advance before deciding to have children. Now that we have decided to have children, no matter what the children are, we must make up our minds to take on a responsibility and raise them well, just like our parents. Children who grow up in this way can be as grateful to their parents as when they were born, and feel that it is good to be born in this world, and it is a very happy thing to see their parents.