Many people are complaining that they can only stay at home at this special time, but I am grateful and feel particularly happy. In this war without smoke, the city outside is in chaos, but I can enjoy beautiful scenery and fresh air in a secluded mountain village. All this comes from the blessing of the powerful China, the support and nourishment from my family, and a series of wonderful courses by Liu Suozhi, a teacher with nine business skills and three abilities, which makes my heart wide open and full of wisdom. I am really a blessed person. Thanks again for all the karma!
I think, in recent years, I have contacted many parents and seen many outstanding problems in parents and children. I also try my best to help these parents and children solve their puzzles, help them do a better job in family education and cultivate excellent children. When communicating with parents, I often feel that I can't grasp the point of helping my parents, although I have accumulated a certain amount. It is more direct to consult yourself, which is unprofessional. I have always thought that I must study hard when I have the opportunity, and I also reported it to a psychological counselor for research. I have also participated in some related training, but I still don't understand it after I come back. When communicating with parents, the thinking is still not particularly clear. Today, I was very fortunate to attend the online psychological counselor training class of Mr. Liu Suozhi. Even if I take the course online all day, I feel that the gains are the same as those of taking the teacher's class online, because Mr. Liu's lecture style is very clear, which always makes us understand the truth quickly and teach us the methods, and then we can practice it better.
I. Learning objectives
The host, the noodle teacher, asked us if we were clear about our goals. Why do you want to take this course? I also wrote down my learning goal in my notebook: I want to improve my professional quality and master the methods, skills and core of consultation, so as to better help more families solve their parenting puzzles, make them pay attention to family education and cultivate excellent children.
Second, being a family education consultant can be an adult.
At the beginning of the course, Liu Suozhi's teacher mentioned to us the growth path of the sages in "University": self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world. Yes, no matter what grand dreams I have, I still want to be strong. As a family education instructor, if your family is in a mess, what can you do to guide others' family harmony? Therefore, in fact, if you want to help others, the first step is to grow up. Only by helping others can you help yourself. If you want to give someone a glass of water, you must have the capacity of a bucket of water or even tap water. Of course, while communicating with others and helping others solve problems, I also broadened my horizons, saw all kinds of differences in the world, and achieved myself at the same time. Teacher Liu told us that real knowledge can only come from actual combat. As an educator, besides giving lectures, one should also have the ability to communicate with parents in simple terms and become a comprehensive talents. Here, Mr. Liu shared with us his experience of growing from an ordinary teacher to an accomplished master in family education. This experience also deeply touched me. I saw the spirit of Mr. Liu's persistent pursuit of educational dreams here.
What is a consultant? Consultation: consultation, consultant: a professional who uses professional knowledge, skills and experience to help individuals or organizations solve problems or provide solutions through consulting techniques and methods. Through teacher Liu's explanation, I suddenly understood the concept of consultation and thought about the process of communication with my parents. I don't think I'm doing very well in these two aspects, and my parents are often older, so I began to talk to them at length, but I didn't ask them too many questions, so I didn't know the specific situation of the other party, so I didn't need a set of solutions to solve his problems, just stayed in a casual chat.
Third, the value of family education consultants.
1. Social value, at present, from the national level, family education is attached great importance, but now the family education provided by many educational institutions is theoretical, just to let everyone know the importance of family education, which is not practical. We should be able to explain to our parents why we should tell them how to make the transition so as to really help them solve their problems.
2. Value to the club: ① Solve parents' problems and gain their trust. Societies should have hematopoietic function, not just feelings and great love.
3. Personal value: ① Personal ability has been improved, materials and cases of lectures have been accumulated, and the ability to deal with emergencies has been acquired. Family relations will be good, because you are teaching yourself while teaching others, and the family will be very harmonious. ③ It can also increase income and enhance the realm and value of life.
Fourth, the requirements for family education consultants
1. Mentality requirements: caring, patient and careful. I think what I lack most in these three hearts is patience and carefulness. I often have no patience to listen to my parents' questions, but I am eager to make my own judgments and expressions, and I have not carefully thought about and observed my parents' words and deeds. In the future, we should listen to our parents' problems with our love, empathy, gentle patience and careful observation.
2.① External image: The image presented to others is also dynamic. Dress formally, in line with your tutor's identity, always pay attention to your words and deeds, and be careful what you say and do. I feel that I have a lot of room for improvement, and I have been dressed casually. This may give the impression that they are just not very professional.
3. The reserve of professional knowledge, Mr. Liu said, skills are not overwhelming, we should have comprehensive knowledge and extensive information, but we should also have our own core points.
? Teacher Liu also analyzed and summarized several major problems of family education consultation: ① 80% of parents' problems are related to children's learning, so we should thoroughly study the children's learning problems, and finally refer to two aspects, one is ability and the other is motivation. You should go to the teacher's "How to make children fall in love with learning classes". (2) also talk about the relationship between husband and wife, to know the importance of the relationship between husband and wife in a family. (3) About emotions. 4 more in-depth content, such as "opening your eyes". (5) and health.
Our family education consultants are committed to building and enhancing family energy. If many times our own strength is insufficient, the other party will not let you go according to your plan. Therefore, we must have enough external image and internal knowledge reserves to gain the trust of our parents. The so-called people speak lightly. Insufficient professional knowledge and external image also give people a bad feeling. It is very necessary to read and study intensively every day.
3. Have the ability of expression, communication and persuasion. Can correctly express their views, communicate with parents and persuade them to implement.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) consultation: ① Consultation category: individual consultation, parent-child consultation or group consultation. ② General consultation process: appointment, meeting and information collection. Through today's study, I have a comprehensive understanding of the whole process of consultation, and then I will start from these aspects when I do consultation. Thanks to Mr. Liu for his explanation, which is very simple and easy to understand, because it is easy to understand and operate. As the Book of Changes says: easy to know and amiable, amiable can last for a long time, long and big.
I will try my best to help myself and others.