Tina is a beautiful, outgoing, brave and laughing girl. She was Yan San's colleague and was working on a project. Yan San worked with her for several years and was often infected by her hearty laughter. Carefree Tina always gives people the illusion that those annoying things will never bother her. Yan San sometimes envies Tina, especially when Yan San is in a bad mood.
? At that time, she was single and surrounded by suitors. However, Tina is very demanding of the other half. She claims to be from the Appearance Association. The criteria for choosing a spouse are tall, handsome, talented, sunny and self-motivated. Such mate selection conditions are enough to scare off a group of suitors. Occasionally, a few brave people summoned up the courage to invite Tina to dinner, and after several contacts, they all ended in death.
Tina later resigned and went back to her hometown for family reasons. Maybe Tina has a lot of things to deal with when she returns to her hometown. Since the separation, Yan San has never received any information from her, feeling like a kite with a broken line, and never heard from her again.
? One afternoon after Tina left for half a year, Yan San received a phone call from Tina he hadn't seen for a long time. She told Yan San that she was pregnant on the phone, and Yan San didn't respond for a long time! In the subsequent conversation, Yan San learned about what happened in the past six months when Tina returned to her hometown.
When Tina returned to her hometown, her parents saw that she was still alone and worried about Tina. Although Tina is beautiful, her parents are afraid of her high opinion, so it is troublesome to drive her away and become an older woman. So Tina can't stand her parents' nagging and blind date arrangements. She just went back for two months and went on blind dates almost every day. Tina got scared when she heard that her parents asked her to go on a blind date. Hide in the company dormitory quickly, don't go home on the grounds of busy work, avoid blind date, and let yourself catch my breath.
? Tina has a good friend. He and Tina talk about everything. They are very close, and that buddy takes care of Tina. She works overtime at night, no matter how late, she will accompany Tina and escort her home safely.
? One day, Tina complained to him about blind date, saying that she was bored. The best friend looked at Tina and suddenly said seriously that he had always loved Tina and hoped that Tina would give her a chance and he would make her happy all her life.
Tina re-examined the iron friend who had been with her. To tell the truth, Tina never thought of developing into a lover with her best friend before. She thought it would be embarrassing. Now, in the face of the confession of the iron buddy, she suddenly has a feeling that "the crowd is looking for him for thousands of Baidu, and the man turns back, but he is in a dim light." After careful consideration, Tina soon married her best friend.
Tina said that she is living a happy life now. She said that from the story of her and her husband, she realized a truth: people often ignore the happiness around them. In fact, true love is around us, but we don't pay attention to it.
Therefore, there is no lack of love in the life around us. What is lacking is everyone's discovery and feeling of love!
Love in the world is unequal. The so-called love for people is luck. If love is wrong, it is also called youth.
I think everyone in the world wants to meet the right person and give wholehearted love to those who really love themselves, that is, "all my life, till death do us part".
From acquaintance to love, Yan Sanhe and Zuo Si are not the kind of love at first sight, but they are also quite comic. Despite the twists and turns, the final result is good. Like everyone else, Yan Sanhe and Zuo Si finally got their wish and happily joined hands in the marriage hall.
In life, Yan San and Zuo Si are both low-key people who like to keep everything simple. For the two of them, the key to being together is a good relationship, and the rest are just clouds. In the wedding year, both of them attached great importance to the issue of when to get the certificate. For the two of them, the wedding day is also a solemn and sacred day when their love relationship is officially recognized as husband and wife, so they carefully chose an auspicious day and went hand in hand to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a marriage certificate. Holding a big red notebook to announce their formal marriage, they crossed the aisle and went to the mall to buy a big red "Xi" and posted it on the security door at home. The big scarlet letter, like announcing the sovereignty of the master to the outside world, is festive and solemn. Yan San took a fancy to the big scarlet letter posted on the door and took care of it every day. Until many years later, one year during the Spring Festival, the new tenant accidentally tore up the words, which made Yan San lament for a long time. For Yan San, that word is the only memorable thing they left when they got married, except for the couple ring.
? Yan San remembers getting married with them in the community on the same day, as well as another pair of Xiaoyun and Xiao Fei who live on the same floor of the same building. On that day, they attended the collective wedding organized by the community and planted evergreen trees in the community garden to symbolize their long-term love. Comparing Xiaoyun's wedding with Xiao Fei's, Yan San thinks her wedding with Zuo Si is much more shabby. Although Yan San doesn't like doing these things, he also envies Xiaoyun and Xiao Fei, and sometimes he feels a sense of loss.
Xiaoyun is beautiful and charming, while Xiao Fei is tall and handsome. When they often go out, they always hold hands or snuggle up to each other. It feels like two gum balls stuck together, and it's hard to separate them.
However, after two years of marriage, Yan San became pregnant and gave birth. The handsome son added a little happiness to this family, and she and Zuo Si were immersed in the happiness of this small family.
One day, Yan San went out shopping and saw a familiar figure at a distance, like Xiao Yun, but the person holding her arm didn't feel like Xiao Fei. Yan Sanzheng wondered if he was dazzled, mistook one for another, and had reached the front of the two men. Yan San heard someone say hello to himself and looked up at Xiao Yun. Yan San looked at the intimate man around Xiaoyun with slightly surprised and confused eyes. I saw Xiaoyun pointing to the man around him and embarrassed to introduce: "My boyfriend, Xiaotian!"
After that encounter, Yan San never saw Xiaoyun and Xiao Fei again. One day, Yan San met her neighbor's sister and talked about Xiao Yun and Xiao Fei, a close couple. Neighbor elder sister shook her head and sighed: "It used to be a match made in heaven. How can you just leave?" ? Yan San learned from her neighbor's elder sister that Xiaoyun and Xiao Fei had been married for more than a year, and they often quarreled and their feelings slowly broke down. They have divorced and moved out, and the house there has been sold.
Yan San remembered the sentence "I hope we fall in love at first sight, and many things will happen". While congratulating ourselves, she also lamented the impermanence of fate and the regret of youth for Xiaoyun and Xiao Fei!
? In order to buy a degree room for his son, Yan Sanhe and Zuo Si have seen countless houses for more than two years, and they are basically looking at the house every weekend. Zuo Si is very demanding in buying a house, and neither of them wants to compromise the family's accommodation requirements in order to buy a degree room for their son. Although they have spent too much energy and time in this respect for more than two years, so far, they have not seen a house that satisfies them in all aspects.
? Another Saturday afternoon, Yan San and Zuo Si finished watching a four-bedroom apartment in Merrill Lynch Garden. Although it is not the kind of house they expected, they are really tired from running and don't want to keep looking. As soon as the couple discussed it, they thought about simply buying it, which at least solved the problem of their son going to school. Driven by this idea, Yan Sanrang, the agent who accompanied them to see the house, called the owner and made an appointment to sign the contract with the owner the next afternoon.
When Yan San and Zuo Si got home, it was already past six o'clock in the evening. After dinner, Zuo Si watches TV in the living room, and Yan San is busy cleaning up the housework in the kitchen. At 7 o'clock, Zuo Si received a phone call and came back to tell Yan San that he was an intermediary. The agent said that there is a degree room in Wanchun Garden, which is more in line with their requirements and asked them if they would like to have a look. Zuo Si added: "Anyway, it is the last time to see the house. Why don't you go and see it early tomorrow morning? " He said and looked tentatively at Yan San. Yan San thought about it and thought Zuo Si was right. He thought it was not bad this time and immediately promised to see the house early tomorrow morning.
Early the next morning, Yan Sanhe and Zuo Si followed the intermediary to the house in Wanchun Garden. For Yan Sanhe and Zuo Si, more than two years' experience in viewing houses has made their interest disappear, so they have no hope for this house.
When Yan Sanhe and Zuo Si pushed the door and went in, they both froze. "Isn't this the house they have been looking for?" Yan Sanhe Zuo Si was overjoyed. After seeing the house, they are satisfied with the room type, orientation, area, floor, interior design layout and decoration. Yan Sanhe Zuo Si immediately decided to buy the house.
Yan San told the accompanying agent about his idea, and the agent helped to make an appointment with the owner. I didn't expect the owner of this house to be very frank. It is estimated that Yan San really wanted to buy this house, so he readily sold it to Yan San and Zuo Si at the lowest market price. The woman owner also enthusiastically told them that if she needed a loan because the house payment was not enough, she could lend them money at the lowest interest rate in the bank. This kind of happiness came a little too suddenly, which stunned Yan Sanhe and Zuo Si. Later, the 300,000 loan was easily settled by this female owner.
? Unexpectedly, Yan San and Zuo Siwei were busy looking for a degree room for more than two years, and when they were disheartened, they ushered in a turning point. They finally got it all in a flash. It is really "too late to take it!"
Another young life has fallen. When Yan San saw the news, his heart ached inexplicably, and he felt that his breathing was not smooth and his heart was blocked. People often say that "all roads lead to Rome", and the living will not be suffocated by urine! Why do you have to go to extremes so young? Yan San suddenly remembered what happened in the year when he first went to college. It was the first time that Yan San met the young people around him since he was born in this world, and he still remembers it vividly. Since that incident, Yan San has never understood why life is not worth cherishing for an adult.
A Jian is Yan San's senior, with the same department and major. When Yan San entered school, A Jian happened to be a senior three. Yan Sanhe Ajian's school is a key university in Xicheng 985, and their computer major was also a scarce resource in that era. Yan San remembers that at that time, someone used the phrase "all the girls in the computer department walked with their heads held high" to describe the popularity of computer major at that time. Yan San cherishes that he can be admitted to this university and study computer science. She secretly swore to herself that she would study hard in the next four years and find a big company with great confidence in the future!
? Different from Yan San's college life, A Jian was about to graduate from college that year, and his four-year college career brought him rich knowledge wealth and a bright future. The school where Yan Sanhe and A Jian are located belongs to the aerospace system. Moreover, the school also guaranteed distribution, so college students can give priority to finding jobs themselves. If they really can't find a suitable one, the school will also arrange to work in the aerospace system, so for A Jian, there is no need to worry about not finding a job.
However, shortly after the beginning of the new school year, A Jian jumped from the tallest teaching building in the school, ending his young life. Yan San, who just entered school, was shocked when she heard the news. Yan San later heard the whole story from other students.
When Ajian was a child, his parents divorced and his mother raised Ajian. For A Jian, his mother is the goddess in his heart. A Jian has always hated his father since his parents divorced. He thought it was his father who abandoned their mother and son. During the summer vacation of junior year, A Jian went home to visit his mother as usual. During this period, he heard that he was not actually his father's child, and the image of his mother's holiness collapsed in Ajian's heart. A Jian has been in a trance all day. He still can't figure out why his mother lied to him and why he did something wrong to his father. He himself fell into deep remorse and felt that he had wronged his father for so many years.
? A Jian's mother was also very painful after learning. She asked Ajian to forgive her mistakes when she was young. However, A Jian can never get out of the cage in his heart and can't forgive the harm his mother has done to him. A Jianping was very closed and had no friends at school. He is a lonely man. After this incident, he had no one to talk to, unable to relieve his depression, and finally embarked on this road of no return.
? When A Jian left, he left such a passage in his diary: "The departure of my loved ones broke my heart. There are no feelings to trust in this world, and there are no friends to talk to. They all say, "no way back is suspicious, and there will be another village in the future. "But my life, only the recovery of mountains and rivers, no future. I can't see any light and I can't love life. Only death can end all the dust in this world.
? A Jian's suicide deeply hurt Yan San, a freshman who just entered the university. This incident also made Yan San realize how much the original ecological family affects a person's growth, and how important an optimistic attitude towards life and the ability to resist stress are to a person's cultivation. Yan San deeply regrets Ah Jian and feels that his choice is not worth it. Yan San has always believed that no matter how difficult the road ahead is, there is no hurdle in this world. As long as we firmly believe and face it bravely, life can "save the day" and we can all have a new realm full of light and hope. This is what we should always remind ourselves, because there is no one outside, only ourselves can save ourselves!