Before, I had a fellow villager Lingling who had a good reputation in the company. She fell in love with a local boy (Qiang Qiang) and went to his house. When Qiang Qiang's mother heard that it was from other places, she refused. But despite their parents' opposition, they secretly love each other. Later, when it was time to get married, I thought that strong parents would definitely disagree, but I didn't expect it to be a breeze. The new wedding house was prepared by Lingling's mother-in-law, and the newly bought house was ready for rent. The furniture was also sent by her mother-in-law, and the wedding gift was received by her mother-in-law. A month after marriage, my mother-in-law came to collect the rent once, which really scared Lingling. At first she thought her mother-in-law was joking, but she also lost her temper.
It turned out that the mother-in-law didn't agree with her son to marry Lingling from the beginning, but she told her mother that Lingling's sister was a shareholder of the company. Although her home is outside the city, she is in good health. Then my mother-in-law agreed, but on one condition, she had to pay rent if she wanted to live in a newly bought house. Qiang Qiang forgot to pay the rent for a while, so her mother-in-law came to Lingling for it.
Lingling was very angry when she knew what had happened. She decided to move out even though she rented a house. Then Qiang Qiang has no choice. The wife and mother refused to give in, so they had to move out with their daughter-in-law. In this way, Lingling and her mother-in-law stopped seeing each other. Later, after having children, she did not bring them to her mother-in-law. She worked hard to bring it herself without asking the old man.
Fortunately, after so many years, the child has been in the third grade, and Lingling also had her own new house in the early years.
Then, the mother-in-law asked her daughter-in-law for rent. How did her daughter-in-law respond? It depends on the circumstances under which the daughter-in-law is required to pay the rent. If it is agreed at the beginning, the mother-in-law wants the rent and the daughter-in-law simply takes it out. If it were me, I wouldn't wait for my mother-in-law to collect it. I'll give it to her one day in advance. If the daughter-in-law is unhappy and unwilling to pay the rent, there is no need to rely on others. It is better to rent a house outside. Anyway, the rent has to be paid. It is better to deal with others than with her mother-in-law.
There are many kinds of mother-in-law in this world, but I really don't understand those who ask their daughter-in-law for rent. Doesn't your son live in your house? Why do you know that you are targeting your daughter-in-law? You have the ability to urge your son to pay rent every month, and her daughter-in-law doesn't live alone. Will she ask her grandchildren for rent in the future?
I live in my mother's house now. We build our own house. My mother left me a whole floor with two rooms and one living room. My mother didn't ask me for rent. If my husband comes to live, will my mother ask my son-in-law for rent?
Therefore, as a mother-in-law, no matter how much she disliked her son's marriage at the beginning, she is at least husband and wife and has no house to live in. Shouldn't her mother-in-law support her and how can she still collect rent? This makes her daughter-in-law feel chilling.