It's been half a year since I broke up with my ex. When I ask things (non-feelings), I always answer them second by second, but I never take the initiative to contact me. Does he still have me in mind

It's been half a year since I broke up with my ex. When I ask things (non-feelings), I always answer them second by second, but I never take the initiative to contact me. Does he still have me in mind? There are two possibilities. One is that I don't want to be separated from you, but I don't know your attitude, so if you chat with him, he will reply, but I dare not be too enthusiastic. Second, he hangs on you here, thinking that there will be a chance to get back together in the future, but at the same time there may be a new love, so he will be cold to you.

Breaking up is almost a necessary journey in the long road of love; However, breaking up also requires art. From the moment of breaking up to bravely investing in another new relationship is an irreplaceable experience in life. "Get together and part" is fate, "Get together and part" is learning. When the relationship ends, how to refine the courage to say goodbye, let go of the painful past, stop burning candles into ashes, and tears begin to dry.

Of course, apart from family background, often heard reasons such as personality differences, differences in the concept of money use, and even the way married people raise their next generation are likely to lead to the breakdown of the relationship. Of course, you must read carefully before you try to love. "Disagreement, early, long pain is better than short pain" is the motto you must keep in mind when you are in love with men and women.

As for the party who proposes to break up, of course, we should balance our speaking skills. On the premise of honesty, don't wear the other person's self-worth, don't prove the other person guilty, and then break up. Even if personality incompatibility leads to separation, let the other party know: "you are very good, but we are not suitable."

And if the other party doesn't want to break up now, don't abruptly break the other party's line, which will tear the soul. At this time, you can put forward the suggestion of "let both sides think calmly for a while", so that both sides have time and space to think.