Thirty-six Questions of Arthur Allen

It is said that 36 questions put forward by American psychologist Dr. Arthur Allen can make two strangers understand better, even ...

1. If you could have dinner with anyone in the world, who would you choose?

2. Do you want to be famous? How do you want to become famous?

Do you rehearse what you have to say before you make a phone call? Why?

4. What is a "perfect" day for you?

When was the last time you sang alone? When were you with someone else?

6. If you could live to be 90 years old and keep the spirit or body of a 30-year-old person for the last 60 years of your life, which one would you choose?

7. Can you foresee when you will die?

8. Name three similarities in appearance between you and your partner.

9. What are the things in your life that you are grateful for?

10. If you could change your growth trajectory, what would you like it to be?

1 1. Tell each other your life story in as much detail as possible in 4 minutes.

12, if you can get a quality or an ability when you wake up tomorrow, what do you want?

If a crystal ball can reveal the truth about yourself, your life, your future or anything else, what do you want to know?

14, have you always dreamed of doing something? Why don't you do this?

15. What is your greatest achievement in life?

16. What do you value most in friendship?

17. What is the most precious thing?

18, what is the most terrible thing in memory?

19. If you knew that you would die suddenly in a year, would you change your current lifestyle? Why?

20. What does a friend mean to you?

2 1. What role does love and affection play in your life?

22. List the good aspects of each other one by one, and * * * list five.

23. Are your family members close to each other? Is the atmosphere warm? Do you think your childhood is happier than most people?

24. What's your relationship with your mother?

25. Use "we" to group three sentences according to the existing scenes. For example, we all feel that …

26. Complete this sentence: "I hope someone can share it with me ..."

If you want to be close friends with each other, please list the most important things to him/her.

Tell the other person what you like about him/her. This time, you should be very sincere and say something you don't usually say to people you just met.

29. Share the most embarrassing moment in your life with your partner.

When was the last time you cried in front of others? Are you crying for no reason?

3 1. Tell the other person that you like him/her for a long time.

32. Is there anything you think is too serious to joke about?

33. If you were to die tonight and you didn't have a chance to communicate with anyone, who would you regret not telling your heart? Why haven't you said what you want to say to this person?

Your house is on fire, and all the property is in it. After saving relatives and pets, if you still have time to make one last effort to save anything safely, what would you choose? Why?

35. If a family member dies, who do you think scares you most? Why?

36. Say a personal problem, ask the other person's handling opinions, and let the other person feedback your attitude towards this problem.

Finally stare at each other for 4 minutes.