When it comes to blind date, the first impression is the first impression, and the personal image is the most important point of the first impression. Generally speaking, men in China should not dress too casually and fancy, but wear formal clothes, which is very safe. Of course, if it is summer, polo shirts are also ok. There is also your hairstyle, which needs a little care.
2. Etiquette
A blind date meets for the first time. As a male, you need to have certain etiquette. Generally, we will choose romantic and warm restaurants for blind date, so table manners are also a very important aspect of blind date. Men should know that it is necessary to take the initiative to move stools for girls, offer seats to women, take the initiative to pick up vegetables for women, and take the initiative to get paper towels for women.
3. Set the communication topic before the blind date.
Before dating, force yourself to set ten topics. In the process of blind date, there is always a topic to talk about and avoid silence. Of course, there are also skills in setting topics. When dating, you must avoid the rigid communication mode of asking and answering questions. However, if you meet an introverted object, you can draw it from some hot and interesting news topics, and you can secretly understand each other's tendency in life interest from the conversation.
4. Don't be too eager for success.
Although the form of blind date is deliberate, the mentality should be relaxed. If you are too nervous, or you have been holding the mentality that I am going to meet the future husband and wife, then what you see is definitely the shortcomings of the other party, or what you see is always the advantages of the other party. In fact, if you regard blind date as knowing a new friend, you may have an appreciation.
4. The blind date time should be well controlled.
If it's not love at first sight or extreme speculation. Then it's best not to spend more than two hours on a blind date. For the first time, don't talk for a long time. If you have a good impression on each other, you should say "goodbye" at the right time. If you want to ask but you can't find out, you can go home and talk to the matchmaker, or save it for another time.