Pursuit is something that everyone has and works hard for all his life.
Religion and divinity are a manifestation of human pursuit.
They pin what they want on another parallel world, the spiritual world, where there are all the beautiful things people imagine, but they can't really do it in the real world where they live.
You can also be satisfied in the spiritual world and find satisfaction and comfort.
Dreams are the highest state of pursuit. Everyone has dreams, big or small.
There is everyone's fantasy and beauty here, and people try to realize it.
However, dreams are always beautiful, but reality is cruel.
One minute on stage and ten years off stage, any dream road is difficult, and there is no shortcut.
To realize your dream, you need not only enthusiasm, but also talent, opportunity, hard work, persistence and strength, all of which are indispensable.
This road is long and hard, and many people get off halfway because they need rational and objective consideration and cannot impulsively resist idealism.
Jiang Duoduo was a college entrance examination student in Henan in 2006. She is just a child of an ordinary rural family.
Although parents have no academic qualifications, they are very open-minded and sensible, and try their best to provide education for their children. Jiang Duoduo didn't disappoint his parents at first. She is a girl with her own ideas.
Her academic performance is also very good, and all the teachers in the school are optimistic about her, thinking that she should be admitted to a good university, and then live a good life and have a good future.
But Jiang Duoduo is too independent. She hates this mode of education and college entrance examination. She likes writing novels.
She thinks that she will write novels in the future, which is her ideal career and life.
So she never thought about the consequences of not taking the college entrance examination, nor did she think about the consequences of doing so. She didn't think about anything, and she acted impulsively when her brain was hot.
She wrote 8000 words on the college entrance examination paper to attack the college entrance examination system, deliberately not answering and not taking the exam.
The result can be imagined, zero, and in this way, she missed any university.
Now 14 years have passed, is she very successful?
Has she fulfilled her dream and realized it?
She has become an excellent writer. She has many good works. She can write steadily and take writing as her career. Did you do well?
The reality is cruel, and the simple truth that the strong is king has been the case since the birth of life on earth.
She didn't even take the college entrance examination. She is just a person with a high school diploma. She has no education, strength and knowledge.
She was just impulsive, but her mind was hot and public opinion was too hot. After she died, she still had to face the reality and work outside, but with her strength, she couldn't survive at all and had to go back to her hometown to farm.
An idealist who has an empty ideal but no strength and is impulsive and rebellious will eventually be defeated by reality. We are all responsible for ourselves, and we should consider everything comprehensively.
1, what can be done to make children think of possible results?
Life is never as simple as playing games. We are responsible for everything we do.
Doing everything will have its own different results and consequences, and not everything will be a good result every time.
Therefore, it is necessary to teach children to consider the consequences, think of every possible consequence, and see if they can accept it and have the ability to bear it.
2. Recognize your own abilities and the difficulties that need to be overcome between reality and ideals.
Imagination is certainly not illegal, and children can imagine anything beautiful.
But let children have full, clear and correct self-awareness and realize their own abilities. When your ability is limited, you should consciously improve your ability.
Recognize the difficulties that need to be crossed between reality and ideal, and do it step by step, instead of acting on unrealistic impulses.
3. Develop the habit that children should consider for a period of time before making any decision.
People have feelings and emotions, which is human.
Emotion can help you if you use it well, but it will hurt yourself if you can't control it.
Don't be emotional, don't be impulsive, especially important events. Think calmly about things that will affect you after a period of time.
Summary:
Everyone wants to pursue better, but the world is fair. If you want to be better, you have to pay more and bear more.
Impulsive and rebellious idealism can't solve any problems, let alone support children to achieve their dreams. It is necessary to cultivate children's rational, objective and long-term character ability.
If you want to realize your dream, you must let go of every step leading to it.
I am the mother of little E and a 5-year-old baby. In the process of raising and educating children, you can ask me any questions. I hope my advice can help you solve the confusion and troubles in the process of taking care of your baby and let our children grow up better!