Do men and women meet by fate or by taking the initiative to create opportunities?

Meeting depends on fate, and falling in love depends on actively creating opportunities.

Fate makes two people meet, but no one knows what will happen after meeting. Take the initiative to create opportunities so that you can have love. After all, there are not so many accidents in the world. It is normal to actively create opportunities to meet people you like or make a good impression.

Actively create opportunities, you can get to know each other slowly, and then get together, but you can't be too persistent. Seize the opportunity and do your best. Although love is selfish, we are all human beings and want to have a love that makes us satisfied. Love is not always hard, after all, love is a matter of two people and cannot be forced. Even if you take the initiative, you can't be together. At least in the future, you won't regret recalling this past and regretting not taking the initiative to try.

So meeting depends on fate. God let you meet again. At this time, we should take the initiative to create opportunities so that we will not be separated again. Otherwise wouldn't it be a waste of this reunion? If we don't seize the opportunity, who knows if we can meet again next time? Don't wait until later to regret it.

In my opinion, both fate and fighting for yourself are indispensable, but fate is only a small part, because even if you don't take the initiative to create opportunities, you will lose this love. You know, there are thousands of men in Qian Qian in the world, and you are not the only one who is destined. Therefore, most unreliable love is created by yourself, just like the song "Love Will Win": three minutes is destined, and seven minutes depends on hard work.