1. Know the basic situation before the appointment.
Blind date is usually introduced by friends or neighbors. When introducing, we might as well ask if it is our favorite standard.
Tell the introducer directly
If what the introducer said is quite different from what we expected in our hearts, we might as well make it clear to the introducer directly and let the introducer go back for a blind date with us, thus saving unnecessary effort.
3. By phone and text message
Sometimes the information of the introducer is unclear, and we can also ask for contact information, such as telephone number and WeChat. And decide whether to meet or develop through later understanding.
Find the right excuse
With the contact information, it is not so easy to refuse, but we can still find excuses to refuse him/her, such as parents think we are not suitable, such as having no common topic, and so on.
You must bring your friends with you when you meet.
If it has developed to the point of dating, and then you are not very interested in this person, you might as well bring your friends. This move is especially suitable for women.
6. Take the lead in decline.
Generally, blind date is to leave a phone number after meeting in a hurry, and then contact each other when they go back to work. However, if you think there is no possibility for the two of you to develop, and the other person is not your type at all, then you must call him at the first time to refuse. Don't procrastinate, or you will waste both sides' time and hurt each other in disguise.