The boss of the silly cat happy nest wants me to be his lover. What should I do?

Miss Guangxiu: Good morning! Recently, I met a very depressed thing-the boss asked me to be his lover. The boss is from the south, and he is not handsome at all. He is in his thirties, married, with a beautiful wife and a lovely son. I have been in his company for more than three years, and I usually feel that he is unsmiling and serious. Moreover, he doesn't seem to appreciate me very much, and he often finds various excuses to scold me at work. Last night, he suddenly invited me to a coffee shop and talked with me for several hours. The topics he talked about were all about feelings, but most of what I talked about was related to work. I took the opportunity to tell all my usual dissatisfaction with him. I have two thoughts now: first, I will resign. But I don't want to do it for this reason, because in his company, after all, he has his own development platform. Second, I promised him that I would resign and let him raise it. I want to get back at him! Because he is strict and hypocritical to me at ordinary times! But think about it carefully, if I agree to his request, I will be condemned by public opinion and become a morally corrupt third party in the eyes of others, including myself. Also, as far as my own economy is concerned, I have always been very independent. At present, I have considerable savings, and there is no need to do it for money ... now I am depressed! I don't know what to do. I want you to sort out my story. I want to hear what others have to say! Chen Si was shocked to see this email! Because a woman is a lover for a married man, mostly for an irresistible feeling, it does not rule out that those who are vain and greedy for money and power, like Chen Si, just want to be a lover kept by him in retaliation for her boss's usual harshness and scolding. This reason is really puzzling. The following are my simple analysis and suggestions to Chen Si: First, resign and leave with self-esteem. Because Chen Si has superior economic conditions, I didn't work in the boss's company because of the pressure of survival. Although his company provides a platform for her development, the boss's usual attitude towards her can not promote her healthy development in the workplace, but it is easy to bring her frustration. In particular, the boss made it clear that if Chen Si rejected his unreasonable ideas, he would definitely treat her worse and try to give her a little shoes to wear. Such development space is extremely unfavorable to Chen Si. Therefore, I think the idea of Chen Si's resignation is wise. She can avoid the harassment and accusation of the boss, safeguard her dignity and independence, and will not hurt innocent people (the boss's wife and lovely son), so that her conscience can bear the pressure of moral condemnation and public opinion. She can even seek more ideal development space. To say the least, even if she really can't undertake the work of the company, she can flatly refuse the unreasonable request of the boss. Warn him not to be wishful thinking, or he will tell his wife and colleagues in the company what he has done, so that the boss will be awed by her and withdraw his evil thoughts. Chen Si can develop in the company with more self-esteem. Second, don't bury her youth for revenge. Chen Si has accumulated some dissatisfaction and resentment because the boss is always criticizing severely. Now, the boss suddenly 180 degree turn, eager to support her. Possess her. At the same time, she seems to understand his bad attitude towards her before, not because she is bad, but because he has other plans for her. So, first dampen her pride, and then conquer her. After understanding this, although the boss's looks and wealth can't attract her, she has no feelings for him, and she is still somewhat satisfied psychologically, even thinking of being kept by him and spending his money. Tear off his sanctimonious veil and make her heart happier. She thinks that being adopted is revenge on her boss, but she didn't expect that it would be hasty and stupid to use her youth and feelings to retaliate against a man who doesn't love herself at all and has little value to herself. If she really makes this choice, it will be cheaper for her boss. Destroying your youth as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade will only make your life fall into chaos and disorder. In fact, the best revenge for a man like the boss is to refuse his unreasonable demands decisively, ignore his existence and let him know that you can't do whatever you want with money. I have seen the photos sent to me by Chen Si. She is young and beautiful, with a sweet and lovely smile and excellent economic conditions. I can fully feel a feeling of mutual understanding and commitment. Live happily and stretch in the sun. There is really no need to act as a third party in anger and lose the happiness of your life for a little frustration and dissatisfaction. In a word, youth is precious and short-lived, and marriage and feelings are not child's play. I hope Chen Si will be cautious and calm, cherish his youth and feelings, protect his dignity, live with his heart, strive for true love, and make his life practical and pure.