Xiao Xu is a white-collar worker in the workplace and works in the sales department. Her job is a basic salary plus commission, and her performance is high on weekdays, and there are also many commissions and bonuses. Xiao Xu has saved all his money to buy himself a house. I saved it for a few years later, and almost all of it was saved. With a little money and some family support, I got a down payment on a house. With a house, Xiao Xu is going to have a boyfriend, the kind who is eager to get married.
My boyfriend is an employee of an advertising company 2 kilometers away, and he is engaged in planning and design work on weekdays. Boyfriend also reached the age of marriage, and the family urged him to make a girlfriend. They stayed together for a while, let their boyfriends live in their own houses, and began to live together to further investigate each other. Living habits and three views also hit it off, and Xiao Xu thought it was just right to marry this person. Two people talked about each other's family situation. There is a sister above her boyfriend who is married. Both parents are retired workers and stay at home with a pension every month. Xiao Xu has a sister who goes to college. His father is still at work and his mother is idle at home.
Parents of both sides also informed in place, took time to get together for a meal and set a wedding date. Boyfriend said: "My bride price is 654.38+ 10,000." Xiao Xu nodded and said, "Don't worry about the house and car, but the house must be available. My family gave me money directly, 88 thousand, and bought all those things and furniture for marriage. " Less than two months before their wedding, the marriage certificate has been obtained. Xiao Xu hasn't seen her boyfriend's house yet. Xiao Xu is also an impatient person. She went straight to the door and asked.
Xiao Xu asked her mother-in-law: "Mother-in-law, have you seen this married house?" We are getting married soon, too. How can we live here when we are not ready? "My mother-in-law gave her a look and said," Daughter-in-law, you have your own house. Why do you want us to buy a house? " Xiao Xu said with a frown, "If you don't buy it, the bride price will increase! "Mother-in-law said," The bride price is all that money, but we still have to follow the rules and can't add it casually. " Xiao Xuxiao said, "Mother-in-law, I bought that house before. It is also pre-marital property. It belongs only to me, not to you. "
Mother-in-law looked at her glib appearance and knew that Xiao Xu was a hard person to fool. If the house is always in the hands of the daughter-in-law, this way will not take the initiative, and the son will suffer in the future. My mother-in-law can only change her mouth and say, "All right. We'll show you the house later. Nothing, now that the community is renovated, it is not too late to buy a house. " Xiao Xu said, "That's good. You better hurry. Otherwise, all my furniture will have to be moved to my house. "
Mother-in-law's family can't cheat, only admit it. My husband's family chipped in to buy a house near two companies. Xiao Xu also looked at it in advance and was very satisfied. Everyone also said that this is a powerful wife. On the wedding day, Xiao Xu's wedding was held in a glamorous way. Friends are also envious. Xiao Xu told them calmly, "If you get married, you should fight for it. We don't want their money, we have to fight for it. "
Emotional message: the happiness of marriage lies not only in the harmony between husband and wife, but also in a balance between the two sides. In other words, neither side of the balance can be tilted. This is a close "war" and a balance of economic strength. Don't give up because of love Practical interests are also part of making marriage stable.