Reflection: No one will despair because of heartbreak (1): reminisce about the lost beauty.
Recall the lost beauty
I believe many readers, like me, chose to start the reading journey of this book because of this topic. The first sentence of the first article shocked me, and I couldn't calm down for a long time: when I grow up, I won't cry when I meet sad things, but I will be grateful when I meet small good things.
This book contains 22 ingenious warm-hearted stories. Every time I read a story, my mood is fluctuating. The warm heart in my understanding is sweet, but the silver valley has made me taste the ups and downs. Slightly hurt my heart, but always let the frozen heart melt instantly.
Perhaps the author Yin Gu was also confused in this heartbreaking world. In his words, I vaguely found that he looked at his own scene and wanted to escape from this world, the world that just wanted to close himself up and stay away from the secular world. The other one is trying to break free, and the past is not pretending to have amnesia and disappear. It was deliberately sealed by your subconscious mind, just trying to win your smile. I don't know where a blank memory can attach happiness. So you began to recall the lost beauty, and then realized that "you were my dinner last night".
Love should be an eternal topic. Some people have been in love for a lifetime but have never really had an unforgettable love, while some people feel that this life is enough when they meet the right person. "Like someone" will take you into the love in fairy tales, and dreams come true is not an extravagant hope.
After reading the text of Yingu, I remembered a high school classmate inexplicably. His style of writing is very similar to Silver Valley. Seeing him will stir up a thousand waves in my heart. In my 28 years of life, I have met two boys who are very literary. One is a high school classmate just mentioned, and the other goes back to elementary school. When I was still reading fairy tales with relish, the primary school teacher let the thick complete works of Shakespeare sleep with him until midnight. For me, the love for such a scholar is only for satisfaction, not for possession. I will let time freeze at that moment and put it in my heart.
Every time I see the news about someone committing suicide, I will inexplicably think of a Chinese teacher's warning: the reality is cruel, but remember, life is worse than death. I admire those who have the courage to end their lives. Do they think death is better than heartbreak? Death is the most terrible way to escape, because the body is the carrier. Do you think that destroying the body is to undo the past forever? When your soul realizes that heartbreak is not despair, but bud, as long as you calm down and recall the lost beauty, it will bloom from the darkness, but it will never return to the world of attachment. I admit that every moment of life is not beautiful, and people want to recall it, but some painful past can inspire us to move forward. Memento mori, which never wants to be made, can be painted as a picture, composed as a song, or written as a beautiful text, which can always make it stick out the head of the grass in the dust to set off flower of life.
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Reflections on "No one will despair because of heartbreak" (II): Paradise for Singles
We are all afraid of being single. We are always troubled by loneliness.
Yin Gu's book is about the joys and sorrows of single men and women.
Every story is thoughtful and grounded, like you and me who have experienced it personally.
What we have loved, cried and made trouble are all bone tissues in our lives, which make us strong.
Isn't it?
I cried when I read Yingu's book, but I was also drunk. I think it's because I said it in my heart.
Think of a person in those days, think of yourself in those days.
Everything I once had is vivid in my mind. I used to be so brave and strong, and so ignorant and absurd.
This is youth, and this is the life you should have.
Everyone has his heart broken sometimes, but it's good, really, it's good, and it will only make us stronger.
Being single has its advantages.
Recommend this book and you will see for yourself.
Reflection No one will despair because of heartbreak (3): Even if life gives us a heavy blow, we should face it positively.
This book reminds me of Lian Yue's words "Life is a heartbreaking compromise". The first story, "No one will die of a broken heart", is the same feeling. A down-and-out man made a living by talking on the talk show at night, but his poor performance didn't make the audience laugh, and his wife and daughter disappeared. Life is heartbreaking, and work is heartbreaking. However, he did not despair because of this, but encouraged to meet the "I" of the stranger.
Before that, I didn't know the author Yin Gu, so I knew nothing. Therefore, his writing style can only be known from this collection of novels.
This is a collection of 22 novels, some sad, some fantastic, some warm, some … but I can't get rid of the word "literature and art". The "I" in the story is either the author or a white-collar worker in the company. Compared with the collection of novels I read last time, I know where someone is waiting for me. It's totally different styles. "I know where someone is waiting for me" is closer to life, while "no one will despair because of heartbreak" is more like the life pursued by urban men and women, but once this life becomes a reality, it will make people feel tired.
It is commendable that although the stories in this collection are of different types, they have a positive ending on the whole. Even the loser of the love triangle trio can encourage his opponent to fight bravely when he is terminally ill. This should be the positive energy that a writer should convey to readers, just as I once said, "Be a positive person, no matter how many bad experiences you experience, you still have to believe in beauty and choose beauty." Only in this way can we experience beauty and have beauty. "
Oh, by the way, this style of words is called "healing system" on the Internet. I think it should be the positive energy words that urban men and women hope to accept after experiencing work, life and emotional setbacks. That's why this book scored so high on Douban. But, sorry, this is not my favorite writing style. To be exact, it should be my favorite writing style at my age. Maybe I will give it a high score when I meet it when I am younger.
In my opinion, this book starts with a table of contents, with no preface, no recommendation and no postscript. The content is clear at a glance through the table of contents, and there is no need to bear the author's emotions when creating. This is what many books can't do now.
This book is suitable for people who are currently at the bottom of their lives, because they need such words to encourage them and someone to tell them that in the fictional world, no one will despair because of heartbreak; In real life, even if life gives us a great blow, we should face it positively. As long as we face it, we are already strong in life.
Reflection No one will despair because of heartbreak (4): Some people are heartbroken but not desperate.
Some people are heartbroken but not desperate.
No one will despair because of heartbreak. This is a very reasonable book, but also a very inspirational book. It is the favorite work of Yin Gu, the author of Douban. The style of "no one will despair because of a broken heart" is warm and cured. The book exclusively includes such super hot posts as No one will die because of a broken heart, Paradise for Singles, A Man Who Can't Love, Crazy Possession, etc. Every article writes the most beautiful moments in our lives with the most delicate brushstrokes. You can find what you have experienced, missed, wanted and forgotten here.
"No one will despair because of heartbreak" is a 22-article masterpiece, which engraves touching or precious memories around you and me on paper in a delicate and gentle way unique to Yingu, making people embrace love, get warm and moved. Those lives in which he has stories and drinks are not as gentle as the lover who walks with him. You have to believe that there is always someone waiting for you in the distance, accompanying you to read all the spring flowers and summer rains and taste all the autumn sun and winter tea. This is an encyclopedia of literary life dedicated to you, accompanying you into a warm time! Every word, everyone and every moment that Silver Valley shares with you has your shadow. When you open this book, you will open your past, present and future.
In this world, there are always loneliness, confusion, unwillingness, regret, pain, tears and bitterness; There is always warm sunshine in spring, flowers in summer, red leaves in autumn and white clothes in winter. What you have experienced, remembered, wanted and forgotten can be found here. Yin Gu, a senior warm man, writes a warm song for you with his exquisite pen; Those beautiful, sweet and painful things are all in this story, at every moment that touches you. Those lives in which he has stories and drinks are not as gentle as the lover who walks with him. You have to believe that there is always someone waiting for you in the distance, accompanying you to read all the spring flowers and summer rains and taste all the autumn sun and winter tea.
"No one will despair because of heartbreak" is the first collection of warm therapy novels by senior warm man Yin Gu. The book exclusively includes 22 stories, such as No one will die of a broken heart, Paradise for Singles, My Burst and Dark Youth, Crazy Possession and Almost Confession Success, and describes everyone's life with delicate brushstrokes. There are no melodramatic words or chicken ribs in the book, only warm-hearted moments and beautiful or ignorant or bizarre dreams that we have all had. Open this book, open your past, that is your future.
No one will despair because of heartbreak (5): I will forget you one day.
I don't think I will despair because of my broken heart.
When I was heartbroken, I saw this book and the story of the characters in it, as if I had caught a lifeline.
Until then, I think I hate you leaving with someone.
After reading this, I feel that I am dealing with my emotions. I think I will get better as soon as possible.
I won't despair, you are a good man.
This may be fate.
Thank you for taking me through that life.
Fortunately, I can see the story of Silver Valley at this moment. His personality is delicate and soft, and I am lucky that someone helped me when everyone was heartbroken.
I hope this book can be read by more people, and more people can remind themselves at important moments in life.
So come on, kid, you deserve the best life.
No one will despair because of heartbreak (6): The best life is only for you to have me.
After reading Yingu's book, I feel that life now is the best life.
So many stories have happened, including you, thank you for always being by my side.
Many stories in the book remind people of good times.
In those years, those people, fortunately, had you by their side, watching the smog outside. I think I have your feelings around me, just like lying by the fireplace in a lazy afternoon, drinking coffee and reading a book. Warm.
I have experienced heartbreak, sadness and heartbreak. Fortunately, that's all in the past.
I think life is like this, everything will end and everything will begin. Goodwill, malice. This is life.
Like touching cards.
The cards in hand are good enough, but if you have to touch the next card, you will panic and always be afraid of touching the bad cards;
The cards in my hand are not good enough, and I really want to touch the next card quickly. You will be nervous and excited, and want to touch the cards that can be flipped.
This is life.
Yin Gu's books, without crocodile's tears and deliberate, are very straightforward to write those characters and feelings.
The best life is nothing more than you and me.
Reflection that no one will despair because of heartbreak (7): a private paradise created by perfectionists
At the end of 20 14, my work entered a new stage, or a new bottleneck. I began to read all kinds of words, and then I wanted to judge whether it could be printed on paper from a commercial point of view, and then put it in the bookstore for readers to take away. This process is very painful. In order not to make my work so boring, I try to find a balance between work and pleasure. At that time, I was lucky enough to see an article in Yingu, which was "No one will die of a broken heart" with the same title as the current book.
"Surprisingly, I haven't seen his daughter at the moment when the door opened. I just clearly saw that I was writing in a room with moldy walls under the dim light and creating a self-healing dream. "
After reading this last paragraph, I was almost shocked. So I read more of his articles, and then I am very sure that this is the text I (and probably many editors) are looking for. I sent an email about the draft at the first time, and soon received a reply from Yingu. Unexpectedly, it has been signed by another company. However, in the long run, I made friends with Yingu, which is the blessing of 20 15.
So in a year's work, like many readers, I am looking forward to the birth of this book. Finally, near the end of the year, I received Yin's new book with warm words on the title page, which made the whole book as warm as hot meat buns in the late winter and early morning market.
When you get a book, you are always used to reading the binding, copyright page, front and back, etc. , and then the text. The editors in the whole office think that the cover of this book is very good, not only the colors are bright and bright, but also the characters on the cover automatically bring many people into Yingu himself-choose to be single for life, and then get married in the book and movie 100 times.
It took me a long time to finish reading this book. Although I read many articles in it, I persisted word for word. Yin Gu's words are very particular. In the protagonist's dialogue, many words and tones are unlikely to appear in real life. This contrast brings the personal beauty of a small stage play.
"'Yes, there are so few things in life that can save us like this.' "
"Because of the good times that have happened, I can hang you for several years and won't let you fall too far."
I marked these two sentences in "eloping sleepless" This is an absurd but very interesting story, so interesting that people are willing to believe that the bizarre things in the article really happened. At the same time, it also explains the writing significance that Yin Gu wants to elaborate (of course, this is a personal understanding): to resist the great boredom and boredom in daily life.
Everyone lives in the same world, so one person is depressed, irritable and bored, and another person will have it more or less. Everyone should find the right exit and do something that interests them. Silver Valley has built a nearly perfect world-this world is beautiful, with the meowing of aliens, a big boy who protects girls from crossing the dark tunnel, and a foodie girlfriend who helps you overcome your fears; But the world is also dangerous, and there may be monitors opposite the residential building to observe your behavior at all times; Sad lovers may not survive the season of begonia in bloom due to illness, the girl you secretly love may be completely different from what you think, and even a solid cinema may collapse one day ... Compared with the crowded subway, breathless compartment and endless PPT in real life, that rich world is what we want, isn't it?
Silver Valley's attitude of building this world can be described as cool-the best masons don't tell people their architectural ideas frequently, but directly lay bricks on tiles and start working at once. So this book has no preface and postscript. It tells the story from the first page. After the story is finished, you will reach the last page, and you don't need to explain your creative ideas. As the story says, "a story is living evidence of an idea, which has completed the transformation from thought to action ... and never uses any explanatory words."
Fortunately, the chapters in the book are neatly classified. Dreams, beauty, strangeness and warmth are like four building blocks in this world, which contain four types of stories, among which No one will die of a broken heart, Little Things on the Way Home and Sleepless Elopement are three personal favorites.
There are many people who write words, but not many creators who can devote themselves to building a complete world, because this work requires great patience and talent. It's rare that Silver Valley did a good job. I hope that the paradise he created will become stronger and more complete in the future. After all, as readers, we have the same desire as him-
"If a butterfly can cause a hurricane in the tropical rain forest, if a strawberry can save a dreary rainy day, then this time we can really smash this rigid world, cross the present, fold the future, capture the sweet reflection of that dream thousands of times in the gap of time, and build our own paradise with this."
Reflections on No One Will Despair Because of Broken Hearts (8): A Magic Box Full of Stories
At first glance, this name is considered as a soothing book. After reading the introduction, I thought it was a silly and sweet story about the warmth of various cities. After reading the content, I know that warmth and self-healing are not all silly and sweet in my imagination. The story of Silver Valley has an indescribable magic, perhaps like Pandora's box full of absurd stories mentioned in his opening story, or like a magic hand. In short, it allows you to read one article at a time. Those stories are like elves with unique personalities. Even if you read the beginning, you often can't guess the ending. Is it a real ending or a breath in life?
There are twenty-two warm stories above, with different temperaments and colors. Some stories are full of big bubbles of dream powder, which describe a love happily and openly, such as liking someone. The fairy-tale love between Hao Hao and Hui Hui is plain and warm, which saves the soul gradually falling into the secular world. Look at looks, height, personality, family, ability, and ... can the established matching standards really guarantee a happy pairing between two people holding hands? People with diametrically opposite personalities, such as Hao Hao and Hui Hui, can bring out the best in each other and get along surprisingly well. At the end of their story, Yin Gu wrote: "What's it like to keep someone in your heart forever?" Probably like flowers in spring, hugs in snowy nights, ears covered by thunder, and kisses in sleep. Love is always magical, so when looking at the standard, look at love first.
Some stories are not so warm, like a fallen city, but flowers bloom in the dark cracks. My burst and dark youth is such a story. Family factors make teenagers homeless, but fortunately they are not indulgent. Teenagers meet uncle toothpick in the cinema, and two lonely and forgotten souls get a little warmth together. Teenagers brought some joy to Uncle Toothpick, making up for the loneliness of losing his son. Uncle toothpick gave the teenager a place to stay, as well as meager and sincere care. Teenagers still have their own bright future and life, and Uncle Toothpick ended his life. The girl a teenager falls in love with, like uncle toothpick who lost the cinema, has no dependence, one degenerates to decline, and the other chooses to end it voluntarily. People don't live by delicious food and gorgeous clothes, but only a little warmth or dependence, even a little, can support a humble life.
Some stories have a strong magical realism style, such as Crazy Possession; Some stories are as light as a touch of green in early spring, and I want to sigh all my life in winter. That is "let's miss it"; Some stories are filled with the aroma of freshly baked desserts, filling the whole heart and stomach. The battle of eating goods is sweet from beginning to end. The right person, the right food and the right love are like eating a piece of tiramisu. Some stories are like little ice cubes. When the conversation was over, all the heat and dryness calmed down. For example, how a man breaks up with another man, memory is like a naughty child, hiding beauty and emotion, amplifying shortcomings and troubles. When friendship and love meet, we might as well communicate frankly and escape the prank of memory together.
This is a colorful book with all kinds of flavors, which can be chewed carefully by individuals to make up for the cracks or loopholes in their hearts, and can completely serve as the title of the story box. The only drawback is that there are too few stories, and I haven't liked them yet. I am really looking forward to opening the box next time.
Reflection No one will despair because of heartbreak (9): Stand up and be an indomitable spirit.
My son didn't do well in the monthly exam. I asked, why do you always feel that time is not enough? The son said that he could only understand what he had just learned, and he had to take the previous knowledge in the exam, which had long been forgotten. His son is a little depressed. I also read the children's test paper. The current test paper is simply abnormal, and the topics are not only profound, but also extensive, which requires students to have a lot of knowledge reserves. However, children who have studied for ten years are exhausted, and now they have to constantly increase the amount of information, which will naturally make some children lose confidence. I told my children that everyone was under great pressure. Let me give them an example. When you were in primary school, did you feel that you were under great pressure to study? But when I was in junior high school, I felt that the knowledge learned in primary school was too simple, and when I was in high school, I felt that the knowledge learned in junior high school was too simple. After work, you will feel that the knowledge you learned before is actually the foundation, and the big classroom in society is the most test of IQ.
No one will despair because of a broken heart. Silver Valley is also a chicken soup series. Let's gossip about the author Yin Gu first. He chose to be single all his life and got married 100 times in books and movies, which made me look at this big boy with a height of 1.8 meters. After reading his articles, I think he should be a thoughtful boy, because his stories are very delicate and have no thick lines. Whether this book is a collection of novels or stories, it will always belong to Silver Valley, telling us 22 warm stories. In fact, earlier, I was prejudiced against children now. I always feel that children nowadays are not sunny enough, and even their inner world is very lonely. Some children have poor self-reliance and self-care ability, and they become mentally retarded as soon as they leave their parents. But this is not the case in reality. Most children are very independent, and their ability to do things far exceeds the imagination of adults. This makes people wonder why they are so weak in front of their parents, but so strong out of their sight. Are they mentally self-healing? But I clearly see that many children are suicidal because of a little thing. Because of this, adults are afraid to face their only son. In fact, as an adult, I hope that children can know that no one will despair because of heartbreak. There will be a way out eventually.
I think people who can write stories must be experienced. Yin Gu should also be an experienced person who is good at thinking and even summing up. Only in this way can people continue to write stories with content. Of course, these stories are not necessarily experienced by themselves, or seen by themselves, or heard by themselves, or thought of by themselves. In short, if something touches him, he can write a touching story. To give another simple example, if you stay in the hospital for a long time, you will certainly hear many stories about life and death. After your processing, you will naturally write many stories about life. In fact, it is not easy for people to live in this world. You feel pressure when you study, and you feel pressure after work. Even after retirement, you will still feel stressed. Everyone has been in this world for just a few decades, but most of the time is spent under great pressure. Everyone is like this. In that case, why despair because of heartbreak?
In reality, some people are pessimistic because their careers are unsatisfactory, some people are decadent because of frustration in love, and some people suffer because of the loss of their loved ones. There is a skeleton in the cupboard. If you want to face life with a smile, you must be strong. Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, but many people can live a chic life, that is, dare to face the bleak life and face their own misfortunes, just like the uncle with no feet in CCTV's "Challenge Impossible". When he was young, he gave his sleeping bag to others on impulse, which caused his feet to be frozen off on the night when he was about to climb Mount Everest. However, 40 years later, when all the people who climbed Mount Everest died peacefully, he actively trained with a strong will and wanted to climb Mount Everest again. This is a person's belief. Looking back on the past, he should have been heartbroken, but he didn't despair, but faced it bravely, so he would stand up again and stand up as an indomitable spirit!
Comment No one will despair because of heartbreak (10): I will meet you eventually.
It turned out that after Woodenhead met someone who tempted him, those passions that had been hidden for many years, and those romances that were ready to go, would suddenly pop up like a volcanic eruption. It turns out that he is usually very low-key, but he just doesn't want irrelevant strangers to spy on his feelings without authorization.
It is said that in love, there is no man with low emotional intelligence.
I didn't create this summary, but my sisters and those emotional experts around me summed it up. When you feel that the man is not enthusiastic enough, please be sure to trust your sixth sense. That's what happened. Even if you want bananas, he will give you a car full of pears. He may not give you what you want, but he will give the house, won't he?
Many stories in the book are related to love. As an adult, love is a very important aspect of our life. However, as adults, neither ourselves nor the other person we will meet is that simple. No one will die of a broken heart, and no one will go all out for love, so we are not so hurt in love, so our tears are getting higher and higher. So, as the book says, when we grow up, we will meet again.
Of course, you still have to believe in love. If you believe, you may meet love again. If you don't believe it, you may never meet it. According to the book, probably all the most unusual love in the world is the encounter between mental patients and mental patients. In the book, a boy named Alei, who can't fall in love, has been single for five years and is addicted to a habitual overprotection and ignorance of love within reach. However, after meeting that simple, rude and interesting girl, such a dull-looking person still broke out a man's initial motivation, a special love, which simply and rudely subverted his inherent rigid life and injected infinite vitality into it.
In the last chapter of the book, perhaps in line with the topic, the author abandoned the brain hole in front of him and gave up what he said about choosing to be single all his life, but turned around and really got married 100 times in books and movies. Every chapter has a happy ending. As the title says, no one will despair because of heartbreak.
There are many kinds of people in the world, so there are many kinds of life. Where there is tragedy, there must be comedy. Maybe it's just a wonderful conversation when you were dating, when two psychopaths met. Maybe you just need to turn a corner in life, and true love will appear like this. I'm sure you know when that man appeared.
So, because we didn't despair in the previous heartbreak, we still believe in love, so one day, we will meet.