What is the experience of being rejected?

0 1 Face the reality calmly and stop pestering each other. Often after the confession is rejected, the girl will say, "I just treat you as an ordinary friend." "We are really not suitable, you will meet better." "It's too sudden, I'm still mentally prepared." Actually, the other person is telling you that I don't like you. Therefore, if you continue to pester each other at this time, it will only make them bored. There are many men in life who always feel that there may be something wrong with the time or way of confession after being rejected by the other party. So it didn't take me long to come up with some romantic and touching ways to express my love. I sent gifts downstairs to the other company to show my love in public. As a result, I completely lost the opportunity. In fact, think carefully, why have you tried your best to express your feelings, but failed to impress each other? That's because you are not attractive to her at all. If you can attract her, even if you don't confess, you two can date slowly, hold hands with each other, and finally determine the relationship. So at this time, you must not continue to pester each other, but try to attract each other twice, otherwise your entanglement will make her completely dislike you.

If you want to pursue each other again, you might as well adopt the method of emotional freezing first. As the saying goes, you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient. When your confession is rejected, the most effective stop loss method is emotional freezing. Because usually after a boy is rejected, even if you used to have a good relationship, you usually talk well, but after this embarrassing confession, she will definitely deliberately distance herself from you and even ignore you. At this time, you should adopt the method of emotional freezing, and don't take the initiative to contact her, otherwise it will only continue to increase her dislike for you. This way will not only affect your plan to continue chasing her, but also make the other person a little lost, thinking that you just gave up, gave up. Next, it's time for you to display your talents. First, you should change yourself and make your appearance and mental outlook look brand-new. Then, get to know more about other opposite sex, remember to take photos when eating or playing with other opposite sex, and do more novel and adventurous things to show your man's charm, such as riding horses and bungee jumping. Of course, remember to take pictures when doing these things. Then post your photos on online platforms such as friends circle and Weibo, but don't post them too deliberately every day, just post them once every three to five days, otherwise the other party will think that you are deliberately showing off. If you are worried that the other person will not see your change, you can also invite her friends to have dinner and chat together to let her friends know your current status. I believe that once the other person knows your current situation, he will definitely have a positive affirmation of you, instead of staying in the impression of an ordinary man without any advantages. In short, you are required to do it. You don't contact her actively, and you don't continue to pester her, but you always appear in her field of vision inadvertently. If you can do this smoothly, then wait for the other party to come to you. What I want to remind you here is that when the other party contacts you actively, you should not look flattered, but ask the other party how they are doing recently, and if not, let's go out and sit together sometime.

In fact, when she decided to contact you again, your second attraction to her had already begun. When you really meet, it depends on whether you can seize the opportunity. Finally, I want to say that no matter how you express your feelings, it is best to express them after confirming the wishes of the other party, because expressing feelings at this time can give girls a sense of security, which is what a man really wants to do with his lover. I am an author in the field of emotion. I have provided meaningful help to many psychological counselors and have rich experience in marriage, love and interpersonal relationships. If you are emotionally confused, please feel free to ask me questions. Click on the card below to ask me questions.