If you bought it by mortgage before marriage, you need your daughter-in-law to repay the loan after marriage. Consider adding her name. Actually, it doesn't matter whether you add it or not. To say 10 thousand steps back is divorce, and there is no daughter-in-law's name on the real estate license. The court will also divide the property before marriage and the actual situation of repayment after marriage. When will the loan be repaid? There is an account to check.
If you buy a house after marriage and the daughter-in-law has the will to add a name, you should add a name. Give daughter-in-law a reassurance. Even if there is no daughter-in-law's name, according to relevant laws and regulations, the property belongs to the joint property of husband and wife. Therefore, there is no need for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to entangle this matter without adding the name of the daughter-in-law to the real estate license, because there are laws.
If the daughter-in-law doesn't add her name, she always feels insecure. My mother-in-law thinks her daughter-in-law's name is added. Once divorced, the daughter-in-law is gone, and the property is divided, so that people and money are empty. My family is always thinking about these things and acting like thieves every day. How can they live a good life?
Mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law who have this idea should take time to look at the marriage law and inheritance law, especially the Civil Code of People's Republic of China (PRC), which was implemented at the end of 2021/kloc-0. The civil code has detailed explanations and legal provisions on the ownership of pre-marital real estate and post-marital real estate, and only one person's name is written on the real estate license. There are clear provisions in the civil code; If there is no explicit agreement between husband and wife on the house purchased during the marriage, only one person's name is written on the real estate license, which shall be regarded as the joint property of husband and wife. So if you learn the dharma and understand it, you won't have this concern.
Personally, I think that whether the daughter-in-law adds her name to the real estate license should not be considered by her mother-in-law, because as in-laws, no one can accompany her son and daughter-in-law for life. An adult son, he should know how to deal with this matter. How should a mother choose? If you choose not to agree, once the resulting marriage can make your son hate his mother for life.
If you agree to marry a grateful daughter-in-law, there is nothing wrong with that. If you marry a naughty daughter-in-law who is not sensible.
As a mother-in-law, you gave her two golden mountains and two silver mountains, and she regarded her mother-in-law as an enemy as usual. If so, it is better to leave it alone and let the son decide for himself whether it is good or bad. If a mother-in-law can see this, then she is a wise and intelligent mother-in-law.
This is my answer, purely personal. Please comment on the shortcomings.
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It doesn't matter whether you add or not, what matters is whether the daughter-in-law who marries in the door is a good and well-off person.
First look at the daughter-in-law's personality and attitude. If she is committed to living a good life with her husband, there is no need to think about those things until she is old. It's only a matter of time before the house finally belongs to her. If you plan other people's property before you come in, you will get something for nothing. First, you are not good at it. Second, you are not confident. Third, you are always ready to divide the property.
The second is to see if the son is disappointing. The sons of relatives are disappointing. They have their own company and made some money. They were targeted by a beautiful girl from a poor family. At the beginning, my son took a fancy to the beauty of others, and the girl was also very diligent and sweet before marriage, which won the favor of the whole family. Before marriage, the girl's mother agreed to add her daughter's name to the house. After the marriage, the company's business was divided between two people, and the girl bought a luxury car for women. But less than a year after marriage, her true colors were exposed. Especially after giving birth to her son, she became even more unscrupulous, hooked up with a man and filed for divorce. Threaten the other half of the property not to give it to the children. Helpless relatives give up real estate and cars. Now people live in their ex-husbands' big houses, drive luxury cars bought by their ex-husbands' companies, and are very much in love with others.
If the house is before marriage, parents only pay the down payment, and both of them bear the mortgage after marriage, you can consider adding a name to the woman. If the parents repay the loan, you should also seriously consider it.
Therefore, marriage is based on responsibility and affection. If the woman is cheating, she should be treated with caution if her motives are not pure. It's best to wait until the baby is born and let nature take its course. If one day the relationship between the two parties breaks down and a divorce is filed, the property can be divided according to legal procedures.
I am now a future mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. To tell the truth, putting yourself in the real estate license with the name of your daughter-in-law is quite tangled.
As a mother-in-law, the risks brought by the real estate purchased by her family and the name of her daughter-in-law will naturally not be fully considered; As a daughter-in-law, if you need to bear the mortgage, decoration or other related expenses of the house, then you will definitely be distressed because your name is not added to the real estate license, and feel that your husband's family rejects calculating yourself. There is nothing wrong with the mother-in-law's consideration, but her position is different.
According to my past experience, I think I may handle this matter like this in the future:
1) Before our son got married, we bought our son a wedding room in full, including decoration and necessary furniture and appliances, without adding the name of our daughter-in-law;
In other words, the daughter-in-law does not need to bear any expenses of the wedding room, but only needs to stay after marriage. In this way, the husband will not feel that he has taken risks, and the daughter-in-law should not feel that the husband rejects himself because he does not need to bear any expenses.
(However, doing so requires a higher financial strength for my husband's family, so maybe I won't choose.