The persistent infiltration in Xu Wei's music touched many fans. From 1982 to now, Xu Wei has gone through a very bumpy road, poor and suffering from severe depression ... and behind him, there is a kind and tenacious woman who never leaves him. Speaking of his wife, Xu Wei said, "We have been together for almost 20 years, and we are indifferent to each other. She is my greatest blessing. "
Music is Xu Wei's life. Since 16 fell in love with rock and roll, the Xi boy of this philharmonic has been pursuing his dream. 1990, 22-year-old Wei Xu returned to his hometown after three years as a soldier and married his comrade-in-arms and lover Yuan Feng. Young Xu Wei has a strong sense of music. Shortly after his marriage, he paid his own money and formed his own "Flying" band in Xi 'an. After that, he often drinks, practices the piano with band members, or tours around. Soon, the band broke up after spending all his money. But Xu Wei didn't give up. He decided to go to Beijing for development. 1992, Xu Wei went to Beijing to find the Red Star Club, which was signed by most domestic personalized singers at that time, and signed an agreement. He thought that by signing the contract, he could release an album and live a good life. Reality tells him that he is trapped in Beijing and his music is ignored by a few people.
His wife, Yuan Feng, is developing well. After Xu Wei left Xi, he passed the military academy and returned to the army to be promoted to an officer after graduation. Every time Xu Wei goes home to visit relatives, she will sneak a sum of money into his bag before he leaves-she doesn't want her husband to get ahead, she just wants Xu Wei to realize the value of being home and live a good life with her.
During this period, Xu Wei's heart has been intertwined with unspeakable guilt for his wife, and his spiritual world is extremely confused, and the pressure can be imagined. "You run for so many years, tomorrow is illusory. Simple ideals are so fragile in the face of survival. " Xu Wei sang that year. His delicacy and sensitivity, as well as various true copies of his own living conditions, quickly touched countless young people who pursued their dreams like him. After the release of the new album "That Year" in 2000, Xu Wei's fate changed. Royalties rolled in and Shang Yan kept inviting them. During the eight years of separation between the two places, Xu Wei has always vowed to his wife: "As long as I have money, I will buy a big house in Beijing immediately, take you to live and work in peace and contentment, and make good compensation for the loneliness and grievances you have suffered alone in these eight years." However, when money and honor rolled in, he found with great interest that many "buddies" who had not met for a long time came one after another. This means that there are good business opportunities, and it is recommended that he invest; That is to say, if there is a good real estate, you can give him the lowest price with internal relations ... In half a year, Xu Wei earned 3 million yuan, and the money in his pocket was not hot, so it was continuously distributed. Just then, Xu Wei's best brother Luan Shu got married in Qingdao and asked him to attend the wedding. Wei Xu pooled all his money, but it was not enough to buy a plane ticket. He hurriedly called around to borrow money, but the people who took his money all agreed, not that the money had been invested in business, but that there was no spare money. Xu Wei has always felt that cigarettes, alcohol and brothers are the driving force and support for his walking. As a result, he was cheated in a big mess, and the world seemed to collapse at once. He is disheartened, addicted to alcohol and tobacco, and has no intention of making music anymore. He is shut up in a rented house all day and often stays indoors for a week.
Friends of the company saw that Wei Xu's situation was really wrong, so they forced him to the hospital. As a result, they found that he suffered from severe depression.
Never give up, the wife guards the depressed husband
Red Star suggested that Yuan Feng send Xu Wei to a mental hospital, but Yuan Feng refused: "He is just depressed, not nervous. You find me a car and I'll take him back to Xi 'an. " In this way, after eight years of separation, the two finally reunited in Xi' an. However, the once high-spirited rock youth now has hair like grass, and his hands, which used to skillfully fiddle with the guitar, are shaking convulsively. He doesn't even know how hungry and thirsty he is, and he will lie quietly in bed for several days without helping him get up.
Yuan Feng called the company and simply said, "My husband is ill and I want to take care of him at home. I don't know when his illness will get better. I quit! "
Yuan Feng's unit allocated her a house on the fifth floor. Wei Xu likes to bask in the sun. Whenever she saw the sun, she quietly moved a chair and sat on the balcony. Xu Wei always moves his chair with the change of sunlight angle. When there was no sunshine on the whole balcony, he stood by the railing and reached for the sunshine outside the balcony, trying to explore outside, whether on the fifth floor. Yuan Feng surprised out in a cold sweat, without saying anything, and immediately changed rooms. A week later, she and Xu Wei moved to a yard in the western suburbs.
The doctor told me repeatedly that people with depression need to communicate with others frequently. So Yuan Feng tried her best to pester Xu Wei, sometimes singing Xu Wei's songs, and sometimes asking him if he remembered what happened in the army ... In order to let more people be with Xu Wei, Yuan Feng contacted the entertainment circle that she had never been exposed to. She contacted Wei Xu's friends in Beijing one by one according to the phone number stored in Wei Xu's mobile phone. Before that, Yuan Feng had no idea which names in Xu Wei's phone book were friends and which were just casual acquaintances. She had to bite the bullet and dial the phone, and then told the other party that she was Wei Xu's wife, because Wei Xu was currently suffering from depression, and the doctor told him that he needed more relatives and friends to talk to him, hoping that the other party could come to Xi 'an to see Wei Xu.
This kind of trouble comes to you, and most of them are shirked. Fortunately, Yuan Feng got through to Cang Tianshuo and told Yuan Feng, "I'll tie it up with you for half a month, and I'll give it to someone else. You can rest assured! " Three days later, Cang Tianshuo came with a car full of people. Besides people, there are many musical instruments. They put away their musical instruments in the yard, took a bite and began to practice. Xu Wei couldn't help shivering when the drum set sounded. A group of people stayed in a small courtyard in the western suburbs for half a month, and Yuan Feng was the busiest. She gets up first every day, makes breakfast and then urges everyone to get up; A group of people went to the yard for breakfast, and she had to clean up all the floors quickly. When they are fiddling with musical instruments and singing in the yard, she will go out and buy all the vegetables that everyone needs for a day. Three meals a day is a huge systematic project. Everyone who plays rock and roll likes to have a few drinks. She went to the grocery store to buy several cases of beer ... she never complained from opening her eyes to closing her eyes. Cang Tianshuo took all the photos of Yuan Feng's work day and night with the DV he brought. Wei Xu's depressive symptoms eased almost rapidly. When Cang Tianshuo put the guitar in his hand, he hugged it tightly and never let go.
The right medicine,
The wife learns guitar to help her husband.
The best way to relieve Xu Wei's depressive symptoms is live music. Yuan Feng, who had never touched the guitar, learned a little basic knowledge and began to play for Xu Wei.
Apart from doing the necessary housework, Yuan Feng hardly stopped playing in front of Xu Wei. Five months later, when she didn't know how many times she played Persistence, the voice of another guitar sounded in her ear-Xu Wei, who was sitting opposite, finally held the guitar with her left hand and fingered it with her right hand, making a clear sound. After half a month, he regained his instinct to sing along with the guitar. Under the communication between Yuan Feng and Xu Wei, he remembered everything in the past. However, his memory only stays before suffering from depression. As for the period from illness to recovery, he has no impression.
Xu Wei came to her senses. After being awakened by music, she couldn't stay any longer. He told Yuan Feng that he still wanted to go to Beijing to make music. Yuan Feng asked him if he could take himself to take care of him. Xu Wei was reluctant, and Yuan Feng didn't say much. He just stared at him quietly. Xu Wei had to agree, but told her that after going to Beijing, she couldn't interfere in anything, so she could only stay at home and be a full-time wife. In this way, after leaving Xi 'an for two years, Yuan Feng followed Xu Wei to a strange Beijing. In order to ensure the imported medicine during the treatment, the two had no money. With the help of a friend, Xu Wei signed a contract with a new record company, and the advance payment can only maintain the daily expenses, so he rented a house with one room and one living room near the company, which can be regarded as a home.
Xu Wei soon found the life of a young man who used to rock and roll, and his heroic nature and love for friends brought him back to that day of singing and dancing. After getting up during the day, go to the company and the producer to conceive the melody soundtrack; In the afternoon, it always appears in different restaurants; When the money is mixed, they go straight to Sanlitun collectively and often go home with wine after midnight 1. After going to Beijing, Wei Xu hardly ate a meal at home, and never sat down and said a word to his wife.
True love,
Never leave.
Xu Wei, who came back again, found the feeling of music, and then released the album Time Walk, which sold more than 500,000 copies in one fell swoop, and won a great victory at the third Music Billboard Awards Ceremony in 2003.
Xu Wei's success brought his wife not happiness, but sadness. Xu Wei said to her, you'd better go back to Xi 'an first. Anyway, if you stay in Beijing, I won't have time to accompany you. Instead, I will feel uneasy because I miss you. Yuan Feng tried to hold back his tears, gritted his teeth and said, "Well, I'll leave next week."
The next day, at the celebration dinner of the new album's big sale, Xú Zhēng met Cang Tianshuo, and Cang Tianshuo asked how Yuan Feng was. Xu Wei told him that he was preparing to send her back to Xi 'an. Cang Tianshuo said nothing, found a private room, closed the door, according to Xu Wei chin is a punch. He shouted at Xu Wei, "Do you know how much your wife has suffered for you? Now that you are well, you left her? " Wei Xu didn't understand what Cang Tianshuo was saying. Cang Tianshuo took him to his home and showed Xu Wei the film he shot with DV in Xi 'an, telling the time when Xu Wei was forgotten, and his wife never mentioned it. ...
For the first time in many years, Xu Wei was in tears, and his wife had done so much for herself ... Fortunately, she hasn't left yet.
That afternoon, Wei Xu came home at 4 o'clock, with the food he bought in the supermarket. Xu Wei came back so early, Yuan Feng was a little surprised. Xu Wei said that he suddenly wanted to go to the kitchen today. When all the dishes were served, Xu Wei opened a bottle of white wine and poured two cups, and held it in front of his wife: "I'm sorry, I'm an ungrateful bastard. I forgot your best day for me." Don't go, give me a chance, and I'll make you feel that your years of suffering have not been wasted, okay? "Yuan smiled with tears.
Xu Wei really "repented". After he became rich, he bought a small quadrangle in the West Fifth Ring Road, which was arranged like the quadrangle in the western suburbs of Xi 'an. After learning his driver's license, he bought a car. From then on, Xu Wei took his wife everywhere-Yuan Feng became his full-time driver.
Xu Wei has many social parties. He still likes going to bars at night, but he will never leave his wife again. He had to drag her: "I am relieved to have you here. Even if I am drunk, you can take me home ..."
In 2006, Xú Zhēng's new album "Every moment is brand new" was released. The lyrics of the opening song are like this: "You are a woman in my vast sea of people, and you will always be my hometown. You always wait for me silently, every cold night on the road in a foreign land. I always see your helpless eyes in my dreams and my heart is awakened again. Those helpless nights, I walked aimlessly. Those helpless nights, you took my hand ... "
After many twists and turns, Xu Wei and his wife finally got the right result, and now they live a low-key and sweet life.
what is love ? True love is to never give up, that is, to share weal and woe with each other.