But now it has become a household word, and some people even shouted the slogan: cherish life and stay away from Phoenix Man!
This reminds me of a very popular Phoenix Man incident that happened a few years ago. The girl is 28 years old, from Shenzhen, with a salary of 6000 yuan in January. Her father is in business and her mother is a university professor. Two suites in Shenzhen and three suites in other regions. Her own deep set alone has a market value of tens of millions. She drives a BMW X3 to and from work.
The man is 35 years old and looks ordinary. Working in Shenzhen, the monthly salary is 7000 yuan. He has no house or car, and his family background is generally low. He is a bachelor.
They are in the same company, and the boy pursues her. Obedience and obedience are very considerate. After a month of persistence, I finally moved my sister and caught up with her.
Like many stories that happened to the Phoenix man, the girl finally married the man regardless of her parents' opposition. After marriage, the man's temperament changed greatly, and he didn't love girls as much as before. He began to ask the girl for money endlessly. The girl had no money, so the man forced her to go back to her parents' house to ask for it.
And most of this money is called by men to their parents. In the face of the girl's accusation, the man is completely unmoved. He thinks the girl is unreasonable: your family has money, and if you marry me, it will be my money. I gave it to my parents. Why?
Later, the girl's parents would not support them at all. When a man sees that a girl can't get the money, it's even worse for her, and he will insult her after getting drunk.
The unbearable girl finally got divorced with the help of her parents, and everything that happened to her was posted online by her. She hopes to arouse the vigilance of other women. Phoenix really doesn't want to marry!
But even with so many bloody lessons, there are still many girls rushing to the phoenix like moths to a flame. They always feel that men are really good to her and can do anything for love.
It was this thought that led to the later marriage tragedy.
Here, I would like to advise girls who want to marry Phoenix Man to think carefully before choosing whether to marry him or not. If you can stand him exploiting you or your family subsidizing your parents and relatives, you can stand the living habits and ideas of him and his family, you can stand the situation that he is the only one who has nothing after marriage, and if you can stand it, you can marry him.
Lu Xiao once described herself as the kind of woman who can do anything for love. And she is the kind of person who will fall in love with a man as long as he is kind to her.
Because of these two points, her later married life was not happy, and now she is divorced.
The reason for the divorce is not entirely Xiao Lu's fault. Her ex-husband accounts for a large part of the reason, because her ex-husband is a veritable phoenix man.
Because of this, their marriage was opposed by everyone around Lu Xiao from the beginning. Because anyone with a discerning eye can see that a man approaches her with ulterior motives. Only she foolishly thinks that men really love her.
Lu Xiao's family is very good. Her parents are both in business, and her family is very rich. However, since her parents were busy with business since childhood, they had little time to accompany her, which led to Lu Xiao's deep desire for care and love.
Because of lack of love, Lu Xiao will treat anyone who is kind to her sincerely. Because of the luxurious life since childhood, Lu Xiao's personality is simple and kind, and he is unprepared for strangers.
This also gives people with ulterior motives an opportunity. Lu Xiao's ex-husband is one of them.
Lu Xiao's ex-husband's family is very poor, and his parents are farmers. He also has two younger brothers and a younger sister, both of whom are at school. The man is excellent, and most of the money he earns every month is given to his parents.
Men in this situation, it is too difficult to turn over. If you want to change the status quo quickly, you must work hard from some side doors.
Changing your life through marriage is undoubtedly the fastest way. The man made up his mind to set his sights on Lu Xiao.
What can Phoenix Man give a woman? Don't think about money and material things. All they can give is to be kind to women desperately.
Xiao Lu ate him, and soon they fell in love. After a while, the man proposed to Lu Xiao, and Lu Xiao agreed to him.
Faced with the opposition of relatives and friends, Lu Xiao insisted on marrying a man, but her parents reluctantly agreed.
However, the days after marriage made Lu Xiao miserable.
After they got married, they moved into the wedding room bought by Lu Xiao's parents. In less than half a year, the man took the family in.
Lu Xiao's living habits are completely different from her ex-husband's family, and she can't stand his ideas. Lu Xiao and her mother-in-law once had a great contradiction, but her ex-husband has changed, no longer doting on her, but will stand on the side of her family.
With the deepening of the contradiction, her ex-husband's true colors are gradually exposed. Every day, she forces Lu Xiao to go home and ask for money, saying that relatives in her hometown manage him to borrow money.
Lu Xiao wanted it once or twice, but the man's appetite grew bigger and bigger, and Lu Xiao's parents stopped giving her money. The man scolded Lu Xiao for the first time because he didn't ask for money.
Later, the man went further and even asked Lu Xiao's family to buy a house for his parents. He also brazenly made a good excuse for Xiao Lu: "Aren't you used to living with my family?" Your family bought a house for my parents, if only they moved out. "
A house cost more than RMB1000000, but Lu Xiao refused without thinking. Unexpectedly, the man was furious: "Your family is so rich, what happened to buying a house for my parents?" If you marry me, your money is my money. You are so selfish! "
In the face of men's unreasonable troubles, Xiao Lu couldn't stand this kind of life after all, and finally filed for divorce with tears in her eyes.
Marriage is not only the union of two people, but also the union of two families. The chances of success and happiness in a suitable marriage will be higher.
Now it is not only material conditions, but also growth environment and three views. Although love is precious, the combination of material and three views is the foundation.
It's best for girls to stay away from those Phoenix men with incorrect views.