Yesterday, it was confirmed that Jane Zhang and 13' s boyfriend Feng Ke will be married in Italy next month.
When this news comes out, it will inevitably make people embarrassed. I can't help thinking of Zhang's confession at last year's concert. She shouted to the audience: I have made up my mind now. If you want to marry me, come up now. Before my boyfriend Feng Ke took the stage, I waited awkwardly in the audience's boos for a long time, and then I didn't propose in public as expected. My boyfriend Feng Ke just hugged her and left the stage in a hurry. This embarrassing confession was once considered to be suspected of forced marriage, because the man's reluctance was obviously felt.
Finally getting married, netizens praised the blessing and lamented that it was finally a positive result.
However, the news here is still very hot. Today, it broke out that Jing Ying's mother sent a long article opposing her daughter's marriage to Feng Ke, hoping that her daughter would not continue to make mistakes, because Feng Ke "is not a person who can trust her daughter all her life".
Maybe love will always be fascinated by the authorities, and the onlookers will see it clearly. Onlookers have long seen the geometry of his affection for you, but you often love deeply and blindly, unable to extricate yourself.
The first leader I met at work was a very likable girl. She is gentle and friendly, always smiling and working harder. After only two or three years of work, she bought a flat house in this city on her own.
Sister Ying has a boyfriend who has been in love for 7 years. She has reached marriageable age and the economic conditions for marriage are ripe. Colleagues always ask Ying Jie when she will get married. Ying Jie always said with a helpless smile, it's still early, don't worry.
Later, my boyfriend and I had problems with the house, and Sister Ying advised me that having a house was not necessarily a good thing. ...
I realized that Yingjie's boyfriend didn't want to get married because Yingjie bought a house first. As a boy, I can't stand my self-esteem and don't want to pay the mortgage together. He has to buy his own house before he wants to. Moreover, boys have never been able to get along with Yingjie's parents, and they are disgusted with each other. Yingjie was caught in the middle, which was very uncomfortable.
I asked, why don't your parents like him?
Yingjie sighed. He always loses his temper, even in front of my parents. Many small things should be true. He didn't know how to give in. He once yelled at me in front of my parents.
I understand. Which parent can entrust her daughter to such a person?
I said that since his family was so opposed, he didn't want to get married. Why didn't he break up?
Sister Ying sighed and choked after silence: Seven years, how many seven years were there when she was young? I spent the best time in my twenties with him. Why is it so easy to say that I am divided? I'm 28 years old now. If we break up, I don't think I have the strength to fall in love again.
I remember a sentence in Tiny Times: She gave him all her youth. It's like cutting out the best years on the brocade of his life and sewing them into his life.
How reluctant and unwilling it is to break up.
Being together requires the consent of two people, but after breaking up, one person can decide. Even if Yingjie didn't give up, she was finally broken up-the boy bought a two-bedroom apartment with the bride price money prepared at home, and then packed up and moved out of Yingjie's house.
I heard that Yingjie's parents were very happy that their daughter was abandoned at the age of 28, because she was not married, but stopped her loss in time.
Feelings that are not recognized by relatives and friends seem to have no good results. Perhaps at the beginning of the opposition, everyone vowed to be together forever and prove it to everyone, but in the end they could not resist the contradiction.
I once liked a prodigal son when I was young and frivolous, because he was romantic and would make me happy with sweet words. But when he first came to my house, my parents and my brother hated him, hated his non-mainstream hairstyle, hated him sitting or standing, and hated him putting his hand on my leg and not knowing the depth.
But at that time, I was rebellious and could not understand their kindness. Until later, I was finally disappointed with his empty talk and tired of his flashy hands. I realized that my parents had outlived me by several decades. They can not only judge people, but also know whether they are suitable for me.
Listen to your mother. After all, she is the one who loves you the most and knows you the best.