? Therefore, in addition to being a full-time driver, Mr. Wang also serves as a marketing planner and spiritual mentor every day, answering my daily decoration topics and my hidden complaints and anxieties every day.
? Day after day, finally one day, my husband said: Be ambitious and have big wishes in life. He said that you need a big picture when you do things, and my ignorant face lasted for a long time.
? In recent years, the hottest topics in Shenzhen are faith, body and mind, Chinese studies, and sometimes I am lucky to hear something to improve my knowledge and mind. I always think that a good work of art, a good business or even a good friend is to make your mind peaceful and make your mind happy and long-lasting, so that you can slowly handle the three relationships, 1, and the relationship with nature. 2. Deal with the relationship with others, accept and tolerate, be altruistic and not harm yourself, and be independent; 3, handle the relationship with yourself, learn to listen to yourself, express yourself, spur yourself, be good at growing up without anxiety, and follow greatness without getting lost.
I once heard of Buddhist scriptures, saying that the so-called Buddha is the person who reached the other shore or realized nirvana at that time. This is where Buddhism is different from other religions. In many religions, we are gods. We are mortal, and we can't be gods in this life. We can only follow or obey. Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism in the East are more about cultivating self-cultivation in life, governing the country and leveling the world, making people become sages, saints, real people or buddhas, and gaining enlightenment.
Set a big dream, maybe make a big dream. Premier Zhou studied for the rise of China, and I studied for the university entrance examination. Sakyamuni gave up the prince and eventually became a Buddha, which benefited many people's spirits and hearts, and I became a slave for my house, car and children every day; I don't understand why I want to be ambitious, so I think for myself, for example.
Is it just like all people who have given birth to children in the world are called parents, but not most of them are regarded as fathers and mothers, because their descendants have recorded their respect and cherished memories and given this family excellent family spirit and inheritance? Teachers are a profession, which most people use to make a living, realize economic value or play a certain specialty, but it can give you a big pattern and vision, guide the direction of your life struggle, be respected and followed by you in terms of personal and professional convenience, but it is difficult to find a gentleman who missed life; Nowadays, many people have met friends from all over the world and shook hands once, for profit or for a certain purpose. However, there are very few sophisticated people who are willing to treat your confidant with their true feelings and emotions. Few people can communicate with you mentally or tacitly, and few people are willing to spend time and energy on your affairs at some time. All these are difficult to do, not to mention that a saint, a real Buddha, may have a long way to go all his life.
? Therefore, as mortals, we learn all kinds of skills because of anxiety and control. While talking about loving nature, our hobbies are traveling and getting close to nature, but we can't control all kinds of extreme luxury and material imagination and pursuit. While talking about loving children and giving them a free life, they are unable to extricate themselves from arranging and controlling various interest classes, cram schools and elite planning roads. When they are in love, they can give generous rewards when their children have achievements, and they will be furious when their children are not as good as others or unsatisfactory. While longing for love and understanding, they separate their hearts with heavy vigilance and sleek sophistication; We are just mortals, we can only practice for a lifetime, but we can't control the result.
As a layman, I like Qu Kong Xiao in the hot topic, but many people read widely for rhetoric, which is not as good as a true-natured clown. Many people stand at the top, proficient in the world, good at analyzing human nature, but just want to be alone and enjoy the superiority of the elite. This woman has a vulgar but good little cuteness and works hard without worrying about food and clothing; Proficient in the world, deeply understand human nature but true, loyal to their own personality and emotions; Understand the vanity and fragility of people around you and some ugly habits and shortcomings, and still accept and help with humility; Be aware of your weaknesses and shortcomings, but keep the courage to pursue beauty; Know how to rely on yourself, know how to be independent, know how to compete, and also ask for help calmly and use the resources around you.
? Have high hopes, make big wishes, and enjoy the petty pleasures of daily life. Life is very chewy and often chews.