Signs and manifestations of husband's derailment, in this impetuous and seductive society, the probability of derailment is increasing. Men, in particular, are easily bound by the flowers and plants outside. What are the signs and performances of her husband's derailment? Let's have a look.
Signs and manifestations of husband's infidelity 1 track characteristics 1: concern.
I obviously feel that your attitude is completely different, very different from the state you used to know. An introverted man is generally indifferent to you because he knows that they will divorce you sooner or later, while a lively man is usually too enthusiastic about you because he wants you to know that you are in his heart. Unfortunately, this excessive alienation and intimacy has indirectly exposed the signs that men are beginning to transfer their feelings outward.
The second feature of derailment: over-explanation.
According to normal thinking, a man will resent his nagging wife, and it is most normal to ignore her. If his wife's words are inappropriate, he will fly into a rage: where do you care about me? Where did you get so many questions? I'm at a friend's house. I don't believe you. Ask him! If you often hear similar explanations, your wife status is very dangerous. If a man is overly sensitive to his position or behavior, it definitely means there is a story behind it.
Derailment feature 3: wallet shrinkage
Before marriage, girlfriends will call the bride to the secret room by experience. The secret language is sharp and whispered, you must control the financial power at home. If you don't want men to have other ideas, you must absolutely control men's pocket money. A man's wallet is like a passport for all kinds of occasions. Gao Xinhuan needs to spend money, which also shows that it is necessary to cut off the opportunity for a man to ogle or please his mistress and not to shrink his wallet.
Derailment feature 4: different styles
Men's clothes are also the vane of an affair. If your husband inexplicably starts to change his appearance, or inexplicably changes his body shape and hairstyle, he even begins to like to grow a beard. You need to start paying attention. You have to find out where the man changed the place and occasion needed for preparation. These places are not only for entertainment but also for dating. This is the experience.
Derailment feature five: strange whereabouts
Men often don't go home in the middle of the night, and they don't want to go home early to have dinner with their families for various reasons. Even your wedding anniversary or your child's birthday will be forgotten. How can a man forget that his heart is not at home and move by himself? Or, he received a mysterious phone call at night without saying anything, just saying yes or yes. Besides, when you ask him something, he pretends to be a consultant at work. This is a sign that men start to act.
Feature 6: Deliberately finding fault.
Some men are smart and don't want to wait for their wives to bump into the picture of their infidelity. On the contrary, they regard you as a thief. The specific performance is that you can't do this or that with all kinds of excuses, which makes you feel trance and feel it's your fault. Only in this way can men make time to do other things without being doubted, not doubted, but overwhelmed by your momentum before doubting. Pay attention when men deliberately find fault.
Cheating feature 7: Going home too late
Have you suddenly lost contact with him for a while, or when you often contact him, his cell phone will be turned off or out of service, or he said that he would have an all-night meeting, or the whole weekend. If he does this often, he may be fooling around with other women. So that he can have fun anytime and anywhere without going home. So he doesn't have to worry about reporting his whereabouts to you from time to time. It is dangerous to go home late directly or indirectly.
Cheating feature 8: perfume taste
But all women who can seduce men will use their own unique and charming perfume. Whether your perfume is Chanel or Lancome, it has its own flavor. This is the best evidence that taste is attached to men. Men don't hold hands, hug, kiss or even go to bed when having an affair. These are the best moments to be polluted by perfume. Once you find that your husband smells strange or noble, you should be careful of the woman behind him.
Derailment feature 9: sensitive and excited
When you tentatively ask a receptionist and secretary in your husband's company, will he suddenly get excited? This kind of excitement is not natural excitement, or suddenly he shouted excitedly: Why do you always mention her when you have nothing to do? What can I have to do with her? Are purely revolutionary friendship and colleagues who work together. Can you women stop being so sensitive? It is not women who are sensitive, but men who force women to be sensitive.
Cheating characteristics 10: no sexual interest
The most obvious manifestation of infidelity is sex. Pay attention to one thing and lose another, and the sex life is colder or more enthusiastic than before. If he has never rejected your initiative before and refused this time, then his xy may have been satisfied elsewhere. At the same time, his sudden change of interest in sex may also be caused by infidelity. Having sex with a new partner will increase the secretion of testosterone. In addition, an affair will also make men make new bold attempts in husband and wife life.
What details can be seen from the husband's derailment?
I began to pay attention to my image. The previously unkempt man suddenly noticed his clothes. He never went shopping before, but he also wanted to buy new clothes, or he suddenly changed his dressing style. Start to pay attention to whether the hair is messy, whether the white hair is too glaring, whether the face is too dark, whether the skin is too rough, and whether the nose hair is cut clean. Note that all this is because the cheating man wants to show his best side to his lover.
Saving private money increases the cost. Maybe my husband paid all the salary, bonus and dividends before, but now he has a lover, so he should keep as much private money as possible for himself, or simply find an excuse not to pay it. It is more convenient for a man who was not used to paying money at home before.
There are many places where husbands cheat money. First of all, the telephone bill will soar, the transportation fee will not be less, and it is not cheap to open a house. It is not easy to spend money on traveling and shopping. In order to make your lover happy, you often have to send things in different ways.
I don't want you to take his cell phone. If he suddenly has a lot of information and phone calls, he doesn't want you to look at his mobile phone, which is probably a problem. Moreover, if you ask him, he will definitely hesitate and prevaricate, using some old classmates and new colleagues as excuses to prevaricate you. If he keeps going out when answering the phone, it is even more dangerous, and it can be said that it is close at hand.
A change of attitude. If your man is suddenly very polite to you, he will buy you clothes today, chocolates tomorrow and cosmetics the day after tomorrow. Be careful. There may be something hidden behind this unexpected hospitality. Maybe he cheated and felt guilty about his affair, so he wanted to buy something to make up for it.
The line has been busy. The cheating man will turn his mobile phone to mute when he comes home. Not only will he keep his mobile phone, but he will also habitually check it every few minutes. First of all, I am worried that not replying to my lover's information in time will make her angry.
I'm afraid my wife will find out her secret through her mobile phone. Cheating husbands often meet their lovers. In order not to spoil his fun, he often turns off his cell phone. If his wife can't get through when he turns off his phone, he will use the meeting or mobile phone battery to prevaricate. Sudden decrease in sexual intercourse or passive coping.
Men's "energy" is limited. When a man dedicates his "essence" to his lover, he naturally has no lingering interest in his wife. Even if he is reluctant to do his duty to his wife, he will be absent-minded and his passion will cease.
Therefore, after cheating, the husband's demand for sexual intercourse will suddenly decrease, and the common excuses for prevaricating his wife are "I'm tired", "too sleepy" or "unwell". Which means there must be something fishy.
Common signs that husbands are having an affair.
1. Never exercising, he recently fell in love with sports, such as running, swimming and fitness.
2. Start carefully "protecting" your mobile phone and wallet. Take your mobile phone into the bathroom even if you take a shower.
I don't take you to the parties and activities of friends, relatives or colleagues like before.
He doesn't decorate his appearance at ordinary times, and almost never goes shopping. Recently, he began to pay attention to his image and bought many new clothes.
Instead of praising you as often as in the past, start criticizing your appearance. You make him more and more unhappy.
6, mobile phone bills soared, so did credit card spending.
7. Even if he sleeps in a bed, he always turns his back on you, keeps his distance from you and is about to fall off the bed.
8. Go to the bathroom to take a shower and brush your teeth as soon as you get home.
9. He never does housework at ordinary times and starts washing clothes, saying that he is "afraid that you will do too much housework".
10, proposed that two people sleep in separate rooms, on the grounds that "work and rest are different, for fear of disturbing you".
1 1. The frequency of going home for dinner is greatly reduced and the time is delayed. The reason is to stay in the company to work overtime or have social intercourse.
12, no longer take the initiative to tell you his whereabouts as in the past; If you ask him, he will show impatience and say that men need more space.
13. Even on weekends, I prefer to stay in the office for a long time instead of staying at home as before.
14. When surfing the Internet at home, lock the door, or say that you are working, please don't disturb.
15, you found that some of his clothes (including underwear) suddenly disappeared, or clothes of unknown origin appeared.
Signs and manifestations of husband's infidelity II. First, the fixed expenditure suddenly increased.
Why do women have to master men's financial power? Because if a man has no money, his chances of fooling around outside will be much lower. It is not necessarily unfounded that men become bad when they have money. The social circle of rich men is always in KTV, a place where men are more likely to do outrageous things, and spending in this place definitely needs money to support. If a man has a fixed woman outside, the increase in expenses is inevitable. If you can grasp a man's economic expenditure, you can clearly find out whether a man is cheating.
Second, it is common to travel and work overtime.
When a man begins an affair, it must be the beginning of his desire to be with the other person. If your husband recently said that he travels a lot and often works overtime, you must pay more attention. This is probably a sign that a man is cheating. The so-called business trip to work overtime is just an excuse, just to get more time to spend with each other.
Third, there is less concern for the family.
When a man has a home outside, he will inevitably reduce his concern for the family he came from. He used to be very nervous about any physical illness, but later he began to ignore your life and didn't care much about what happened at home recently. In fact, this is a sign that needs attention. A man doesn't care much about family affairs, which means he has other things to distract his attention.
Fourth, I am always careless with you.
He used to be very dissatisfied with your picky, and even you often quarreled over various minor issues, but recently he began to change. At first, he didn't care so much about your little faults, and your bad temper was actually because you were no longer the focus of his attention. This is actually a very important hint, and he is ignoring your carelessness.
Fifth, sexual life is slack.
Men's demand for sexual life is relatively stronger than that of women, and all normal men in those years had sexual needs. But you haven't been married long, so pay great attention to this. Why hasn't he been looking for you to live as a husband and wife? Is it because he has lost interest in you? He is full outside and won't ask you for it again.
Six, addicted to computer phones
You find that he no longer pays attention to you after returning to China, and even feels that the surrounding environment has little to do with him. It seems that he has been playing games or playing mobile phones. He is completely immersed in his own world, but in fact, everyone has something to vent. It's just that you are no longer the one who makes him talk to you, and you will start to wonder if he has someone outside.